How much your boyfriend helps you to fulfill your dreams matters most in every relationship.

brb!!

Every girl needs a boyfriend?
Any girl who tells you that she does not need a boyfriend is either a liar or just ignorant of the facts of life.

How much your boyfriend helps you to fulfill your dreams matters most in your relationship, because having a boyfriend is more than having a “fork buddy” just to be forking you whenever he likes or when you like it.

Your relationship can make your or mar you for life. Therefore you must not joke with your relationship.

If I tell you that bad relationships have been responsible for the deplorable state of Nigeria, you may not be able to grasp it, but it is actually true. Because everything we have been doing so far started from our relationships from when we were in secondary schools to tertiary schools and to our respective workplaces.
If you have a very good boyfriend in secondary school, he would have done his best to make sure you excel in your studies and pass your examinations in flying colours and boost your morale to use your intelligence and brilliance from matriculation to convocation. But if you have a bad boyfriend whose only interest in you is to use as his sex object or intimacy gadget and does not even care about your grades, because he likes taking ad vantage of your shortcomings and weaknesses, you will end up just being an average pupil and student and graduate without much ambition and die with only the common obituary announcement naming all your survivors, Finis. Only a fraction of the population achieve more than that while the majority end up as Average Joes and Average Janes and if you really sit back to analyze the causes and consequences of the ills plaguing our beloved nation, you will trace them to the root causes from bad and faulty foundations from when most of us were still growing up.

How much has he helped you in your studies or work?
Can your boyfriend contribute to your project even if he knows little or nothing about your course? Or he would prefer to be bunking you when you were meant to be studying for very important exams? And instead of buying you that very important textbook, he buys you a BlackBerry, iPhone or iPad just to impress you to give more of your body than your brains?

A guy who seems very generous to you by giving you so much money and gifts, but does not show much interest in your grades or promotion at work is only fattening the sheep for the slaughter slab. I mean you are only being well fed to end up in his bed as his sex object or baby factory. This is actually what majority of Nigerian boyfriends and husbands have been doing to their Nigerian girlfriends and wives for decades.

A girlfriend who was studying law insisted that her boyfriend should help her with her research on diplomatic immunity and he did his best and she went on to have her. Then he continued until she became one of the most notable young lawyers in Nigeria and he even recommended her to the International Law Office of which he is a nominating member of the Global Counsel Awards.

Another girlfriend had the cooperation and support of her boyfriend who went as far as writing one quarter of her thesis. And she put his name among those who helped her to earn her BA.

A good boyfriend will do his best for you all the way from the bedroom to the boardroom.

You can really excel and succeed in life if you have a good boyfriend and later husband and not dating a dummy.

I know that majority of Nigerian girls are dating dummies that in most cases do not have great ambitions than to earn a seven digit salary and without their salaries they will starve!

How do you know if you have a creative and productive boyfriend?
By how much he can use his skills and wits to create employment for himself and others without depending on others for his survival and welfare.
Why are over 20 million Nigerian youths jobless?
Why can’t they create jobs for themselves as millions of their fellow youths in the developed countries are doing by developing and launching many startups.

Iron sharpeneth iron and the deep calleth unto the deep says the Holy Bible. So, be wise in your choice of boyfriends.
Only a dummy will be dating or even thinking of marrying a boyfriend who cannot help you to excel and fulfill your dreams.
Many girlfriends are having boyfriends who are even liabilities to their parents, guardians and others.
How can someone who cannot even take care of himself convince you that he can take care of you?

Boyfriends who are neither confident nor independent once they cannot get any steady supply of cash and gifts from their parents or uncles.
Boyfriends without initiative, and who are not creative or productive.

You should challenge your boyfriends to do their best to boost your morale in the pursuit of your dreams and if they cannot prove that they are capable of doing so, please don’t waste your time on them again. Just dump the unworthy boyfriends and look for worthy ones who can help you to fulfill your dreams for your mutual benefit and to make your family, community and country proud.

Goldieluks:

Grandpa we hear you.

Problem child, you failed to go for your appointment again?
I hope you will not disturb me tomorrow with your tales of how you were abused again?
Has another guy dumped you?
I am no longer available oh!
Try a new user name to hide your identity, because someone has blown your cover again.
With your kind of shenanigans, let us hope you will make it to age 40

slimyem:

brb!!

Another NFA stalking Orikinla.
Na by force?

Orikinla:

Another NFA stalking Orikinla.Na by force?

tufiakwa!*spits*
in your delusional mind,you actually hope i'l stalk you
dream on old man and never wake up from it!!

Goethe@Freedom Park: End of the Year Fastival comes up on Saturday 17th December, by 5pm at Freedom Park.

Please, ensure not to miss this End of Year festival at Freedom Park, as it will present a medley of the seasons best artists (music, dance, literature, performance) and pay a respectful tribute to a very special person!


Master of Ceremony: BANTU

Time: 5pm

Venue: Freedom Park, Broad Street, Lagos Island

Expecting to see everyone there!!!!

Mit freundlichen Grüßen

http://www.nigeriansreport.com/2011/12/goethefreedom-park-end-of-year-fastival.html