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TheBiggerHUB:
As If Money is just easy to find😁
When you ask someone for money, he might not have

TheBiggerHUB:
As If Money is just easy to find😁
When you ask someone for money, he might not have

Solofresh2:
Your friend’s behavior was disappointing, especially after all the years of friendship. Blocking you feels harsh, but it’s likely he wasn’t comfortable helping anymore or didn’t want you to keep asking for support. You didn’t overreact; your frustration was natural.

However, just take it as it is. Some people will only help when it’s convenient for them. Focus on moving forward, hustle on your own terms, and avoid relying too much on others. No need to hold grudges—just face your front and keep growing.

GanagiBitrus:
Your screenshot shows he was obviously not happy you accused him of ignoring you.
For whatever reasons, he started regarding you as more of a liability pestering his life.

Well, reevaluate the worth of the friendship & decide if you will do everything possible to reconnect with him, possibly appeasing him.

kennethfranc:
I don't know how close the relationship was but it's clear you guys are no longer in the same "class" (like they put it). It's quite sad that you're at the receiving end in this case but that's the reality of life.


1. When you meet an old friend, don't make yourself a begger. He might have helped with 10k or 20k if there wasn't any prior debit from his end.

2. Once someone promises to send you money, just forget about it immediately. If he sends, try and appreciate otherwise move on with your life. Anybody that genuinely wants to send you money will do so (even if it's a week later) without you reminding them.

3. Most people would rather die than bring a friend or even family close to their source of income.

Finally, find your way to the 🔝 and when you get there, BE LESS EMOTIONAL.

Solofresh2:
Your friend’s behavior was disappointing, especially after all the years of friendship. Blocking you feels harsh, but it’s likely he wasn’t comfortable helping anymore or didn’t want you to keep asking for support. You didn’t overreact; your frustration was natural.

However, just take it as it is. Some people will only help when it’s convenient for them. Focus on moving forward, hustle on your own terms, and avoid relying too much on others. No need to hold grudges—just face your front and keep growing.

gunners160:
If i am that same guy I will also block you. U deleted you guys chat because he did not help you and u still wanted him to clap for u. Secondly, the truth is you are making this guy inconvenient with the everyday begging. Even if na you dey the guy shoe you go japa. Asking somebody that u guys have not seen for ages money is a turn off. You have circles na. 20K should not be a big deal for them na. Even if it is big, you have family na. This guy would have been a turning point in your life if you were wise. U should have sold him ideas and not constantly asking for help. There are businesses u should have introduced him to and he will help by partnering with you. U did not make use of the opportunity, rather was just looking for peanut

tellwisdom:
Most of una no just get self control. Just because he’s making money and showing you buildings; you now deem it fit to always pester him for money.

As he don block you now, let’s see if you won’t survive.

Supreme145:
E be like say most of una get comprehension problem? Wasn't it obvious I only noticed the blocking because I chatted him for business, that's to show I didn't even take the rejection to heart, shee if matters choke you, you not fit ask friends for help?? By the grace of God I've gotten to a level that I don't have to beg for anything anymore. Abi na dash he wan dash me the phone wey I chat am up for? Abeg make una getat!!

Karleb:
The best way to keep being friends with your rich friends is to treat them like they don't have money. Be blind to their money.

This will also work for famous friends too.

If you need financial help, go sort yourself.

Ask yourself, if he no dey alive, you no go survive?