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The grass always seem greener on the other side! The devil you know and have been living with is better than the angel you don't know! 😇 If you go and it doesn't work out as planned, remember that you've done 2:0

All I see here is desperation. Auntie, you're desperate for marriage, hence you always fall into wrong hands. Shebi you say your abusive boyfriend was nice initially? So what's now making you so happy when this new guy is been nice to you? Shouldn't that be an indication that "some men tend to be nice when the kpekus is still fresh and yummy to them". I will respect you by not giving my fellow men the good news on this thread, but that won't stop me from telling you that you act very desperate for love and you fail to learn from past experiences.
Now let me give you some advise:
1. Don't be too quick to think that people love you. I don bang babe wey be say I dey shame to waka with for outside but when we were in the bedroom, I told her she was my world.
2. Never move into a man's house, except he has paid your bridepice/dowry.
3. Most guys wey don dey toast you for long and you ignore them, when you eventually go to meet them, they go show you shege. I'm not saying this your new guy is like that but most men aren't stupid
4. Stop acting desperate

That's where I have to draw the curtain, hopefully other wiser men will give you better advise. I sincerely feel for you because I know you're confused. But my earnest prayers for you is that you make the right choice and become happy, ever after