3ndy:

This is a very interesting topic,
the man i'm dating and hopefully will marry
is a kind of both but recently is starting to become in-decipherable.
i mean when he still was courting me he was a lot sub-massive,
comprehensable,  loving,  dearing,  caring,
but now that he's tasted d fruit he's become dominant
annoying, boring, stressfull,
i've been biting my tounge for long but i don't know how to make him understand i'm really not liking him this way,
he's always comparing me to other women,  especially my sister,
while having XEX b4 he'd make me lots of compliments,
but now he remains quiet from beginning to the end,
and i don't even know when he reaches climax,  he remains queit even then,  i dunno what to do anymore,  i ask him sometimes
what he'd like me to do but he gets angry and asks me,  is this the kind of question to ask?? do what u want,  now i dunno hw to be submassive but anytime i asks him to cool down a bit he'll get all offensive and run head over heels,  and he definately knows i'm more educated than he is but he always want to prove me wrong,  telling me don't argue over things i know,  and i gently reply honey but it's wrong,  this is how it goes!! and he'll insist he's right,  now not to be offensive i mean i know a lot better so shut your mouth and listen, (what i'd like to say) but no man likes being dominated by their wives/girl etc

3ndy:

are u saying i should perhaps change as well??
i mean showing him the dark side of me??
or maybe go seperate ways??
coz i dunno if i love him anymore,
i mean b4 getting a kiss he waited 5 whole months,
and i'm sure he was faithfull coz he was with me day and night all these months

3ndy:

i tried doing the same thing to him but we got into a fight,  and repeatedly hurted ourselves,
now i'm the type of person that doesn't have the right words at the right moment,
i never know what to say to convey my feelings seriously so i just say the most hurtful words in my vocabulary
i questioned him once,  i asked him if he likes her (my sister i mean) but he said he actually despise her not that much nut doesn't like her
and moreover i thnk he seeks of her approval,  just like the same thing he does with my mum,
i mean for him they are the ideal of a lady but not me,
he doesn't even like my cooking,  everyone likes my cooking but him,
and recently i'm feeling this pressure and i'm having less confidence in my skills and i0m becoming less good,  i no more like what i prepare,
i dunno what to give him to eat,  doesn't eat bread-- doesn't like eggs or pancakes,  ok doesn't eat sugar.
preferes  my sisters beans,  my mums soups,  then what do i have left??
maybe i really should give up!!

3ndy:

what can i do?? he's already gone to all the members of my family to present himself,
how can i let go now,  hw can i face my family members??