Pls Nairalanders I need to know whelther it is ideal for my fiancee to keep the ring given to her by her ex. Also his pics are kept by her. We are getting married in a couple of months and I want to ask her to throw them away but I don't know if that is alright. Though she does not know that I have seen where she kept them. If u were in my shoes, what will u do?

Ring ke? she should return the ring except she still have something going with him otherwise why keep the ring?
If you are not cool with the pics also talk about it with her and see why she is keeping them.
but she need to do away with those ex stuff if you both hav become serious and about to say i do.

yes bros, she shouldn't keep just the ring and his pics, infact make sure she stays in contact with him okay.  And once in a while say hello to him when ever she calls him with your phone k?  

@mobf, I only asked for your opinion, I know very well that she is not contacting him I know her and I have tracked her so many times and I know she is not having any contact with him she doesn't even know that I know that she is keeping them. the guy is far away in the north and we are in d west. She once told me that she returned it after they broke up but the guy did not take it from her.

Since the guy refused taking them from her, then she should just toss them in the trash (if it's the cheap type), if it's expensive, then she should make an effort to return it again). Pictures and engagement rings are sensitive things, especially the engagement ring. It was given in a promise which has since been broken! So why keep it?

I still have my ex's pics. But the moment I'm getting hitched, you can bet I'm getting rid of the pictures, cause I don't need a ghost from the past haunting my beautiful future! I tried returning them, but he wouldn't take them and told me to remember him with it!

mobf:

yes bros, she shouldn't keep just the ring and his pics, infact make sure she stays in contact with him okay.  And once in a while say hello to him when ever she calls him with your phone k?  

Lol, you should be a satirist. Really.

@OP, I think it's clear now that keeping the ring is really weird. I don't suggest tossing it in trash though. Since he wouldn't have it back (which would have been the best option), she should sell it and give the proceeds to a motherless babies home (however small). As for the pictures, that's not as serious but I think you'd feel better if she doesn't keep them. Just let her know that. Goodluck.

why not? do you think destroying the piks or pawning the ring will erase the memories?

She might be using it for JUJU. She must have jazzed the guy for dumping her and those items are what she used so bro be careful
PS: The above is the biggest load of crap I have written in five minutes