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Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by PERVERT9: 6:18pm On Mar 27, 2008 |
a crippled asked you out because of the way you walk,he thought you were crippled too, i would advice you to change your style,i mean the way you walk |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by lucabrasi(m): 6:52pm On Mar 27, 2008 |
gentledove: |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by izeek(m): 7:00pm On Mar 27, 2008 |
sorry but u really are shallow, and i do hope u know the meaning of that word "shallow" well as for the crippled naah human being and he might be better than ur boyfriend in ways u can believe. what do u girls think you are sometimes, too good for some guys, see how u even say u no fit even go out with am. moreso u are not sincere 2 ur bf cos u sound like a cheat to me. no tink say i cripple nah him make me dey blast u like this, but for real men dont discrimate. am sure say if that guy came down from one bad ride like beyond discussion, u no go see him leg. nah the wheels him take come u go see. pls get urself a better excuse. |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by ayomifull(f): 8:54pm On Mar 27, 2008 |
I am beginning to believe that money answereth all things How would you have felt my dear if Yinka Ayefele is single and knocks on your door to ask you out? How would you have felt if the guy came down with the aid of a uniformed driver from an expensive jeep and looks every inch handsome and clean? I once saw a lady i can describe as pretty in the real sense of it with a crippled rich guy and she was all over him as if someone wanted to snatch him from her. Hummmmm try to see that guy apologise and try to be friendly as you would with any other guy, there is ability in ever disABILITY. |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by arianne(f): 9:14pm On Mar 27, 2008 |
for a crippled guy to ask u out means he still has a spine. |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by adesodgi(m): 9:25pm On Mar 27, 2008 |
PERVERT9:i AgReE wItH thIs DuDe. . .lol. . .mAyb sHe DeY dUcK wAkA. |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by lucabrasi(m): 10:04pm On Mar 27, 2008 |
ill advice you to call the guy even if you cannot talk to him face to face and apologise to him for being awkard and that your refusing him is got nothing to do with the obvious i.e his disability and hope that you both can still be friends, and if possible pls remove this post because its an embarrassment not only to the dude but to every disabled person, |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by Nobody: 9:39am On Oct 22, 2008 |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by walttt(m): 10:25am On Oct 22, 2008 |
hmmm this thread is way oldddd! girl, i understand ur plight, most of us r like dat, we may be morally good, but when it comes o making tough decisions like these, ur happiness just has to come first. u needn't say yes to his outta sympathy just to prove u do not discriminate! No mind the other posters tryin to take a swipe at cha, if na dem nkoooooo, |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by blissfullynaughty: 9:29am On Jan 06, 2009 |
@ Spikedcylinder, So how many kids have you and your crippled bloke had by now? |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by Ben13: 9:53am On Jan 06, 2009 |
blissfullynaughty: 3 crippled female, 2 blind males and 1 other female without legs |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by spikedcylinder: 10:15am On Jan 06, 2009 |
LOL. Someone went to dig this out. I can't even remember the guy's name or face now. I AM shallow. |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by martho(m): 11:54am On Jan 06, 2009 |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by doyin13(m): 12:07pm On Jan 06, 2009 |
@poster Jeez. . .i can't believe such shallow mindedness still exists in the present age. So what if he has warapa or even werepe. Na still human being. Shior I bet your current boyfriend can't hold a torch to this handicapped brother. Jeez. . .some people ehn. |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by spikedcylinder: 1:55pm On Jan 06, 2009 |
doyin13: You got that right. My current boyfriend has a balami head and is so handicapped that he's can't survive on solid food, except of course Fox's crinkles. |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by Ben13: 2:42pm On Jan 06, 2009 |
**sits tight with a bottle of orobo waiting for the next post** |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by smooooooth: 3:06pm On Jan 06, 2009 |
you missed your best opportunity,next one may be blind and handless. |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by spikedcylinder: 6:20pm On Jan 06, 2009 |
smooooooth: Lol. Thank goodness for small mercies then. Unless of course you plan to blind him and cut off his arms. |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by blissfullynaughty: 11:48pm On Jan 06, 2009 |
spikedcylinder: I guess that means that you did not give him the time of day. The sad thing is that you were considering him when you thought he was normal, so that means you might have been attracted to him in some way or the other. |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by Muza(m): 12:40pm On Jan 07, 2009 |
@ poster, U ar foolish,do u think its his own wish that he is crippled. |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by spikedcylinder: 2:23pm On Jan 07, 2009 |
Muza: Muza, are you married? |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by suze(f): 11:39pm On Jan 08, 2009 |
i've never dated a disabled guy before. But theres this blind guy i have a big crush on.His name is Cobhams. |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by chyk91(m): 12:46am On Jan 09, 2009 |
i dont think u did anything wrong in reactinh the way u did. |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by spikedcylinder: 11:00am On Jan 09, 2009 |
To all the people who were making noise over this, My decision in 2006 is still the pretty much the same as what I would do now. I would NOT date a crippled man. If I were crippled too, I would NOT expect someone who wasn't attracted to me and my physical state to date me, no matter how much I like him. |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by Wumine(f): 12:02pm On Jan 09, 2009 |
Darlyn, thats what you get for giving your number to a stranger! Though your reaction is normal, but will it be the same if he came to your house in a flashy car and happen to be the son of wealth parents or just a rich guy who is looking for a girl to spend his cash? |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by Wumine(f): 12:09pm On Jan 09, 2009 |
spikedcylinder: Agreed that your reaction is normal but be honest with yourself over one thing, if u were crippled (God forbid!), u'll definitely want to date a perfectly normal looking guy or wont you? |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by Nobody: 1:15pm On Jan 09, 2009 |
i don't think you are being choosy my dear, but in a situation liike that, you can't just help it. but giving it a second thought, some great and famous men and women were somehow handicapped in one way or the other. just give it some serious thiking and if you think it's going to be okay for you, you go for it, but remember it's your life we are talking about here so don't let sentiments cloud your view of matters. much love from okalax.
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Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by platinumnk(f): 10:39pm On May 29, 2009 |
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Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by 190: 4:15am On May 30, 2009 |
serves poster rite! |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by sleekdoc: 12:52am On May 31, 2009 |
@ Topic Its really a thing of the mind and your mentality . Spikedcylinder has already told us what kind of mentality she has anyway; a shallow one. Spiked cylinder picture this; I hope you realize that many physically challeged people were not born that way!!! What ur sayin in essence now is that 'God forbid' your so called hunk of a man boyfriend or husband gets involved in an accident and becomes physically challenged, automatically you would leave him You have a wicked streak i'm sorry to say and you obviuosly think that you are 'better' or 'too good' for a physically challeged person. God help you. |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by ayusco: 9:50pm On Dec 11, 2010 |
well well interesting topic(old though) first of i'm a physically challenged(PC) dude so in a way i know where the shoe pinches i think some posts though well intentioned were a bit harsh on spikecylinder she has her preferences that does not mean she mocked the guy cos of his disability and it is not by force to date/marry a PC person out of a sense of sympathy best to be straight up with the person. like another posted u'll be suprised that PC pips like me also hav our choices. the bottom line here i think is treat all PC pips as normal if u are genuinely attracted to him/her go for it and if not its ok it just being human just treat the person with respect and don't be mean in rejecting him/her, my 2 kobo |
Re: I Was Shocked When A Crippled Man Asked Me Out by ayusco: 9:52pm On Dec 11, 2010 |
well well interesting topic(old though) first of i'm a physically challenged(PC) dude so in a way i know where the shoe pinches i think some posts though well intentioned were a bit harsh on spikecylinder she has her preferences that does not mean she mocked the guy cos of his disability and it is not by force to date/marry a PC person out of a sense of sympathy best to be straight up with the person. like another posted u'll be suprised that PC pips like me also hav our choices. the bottom line here i think is treat all PC pips as normal if u are genuinely attracted to him/her go for it and if not its ok it just being human just treat the person with respect and don't be mean in rejecting him/her, my 2 kobo |
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