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Do 3 days dry and u will see results sharp sharp. That thirst and hunger for prostitutes will die. This same method can also kill and bury masturbation. So easy.

Method:
Look for a place to stay ALONE without going anywhere. Without doing anything else but to pray morning afternoon and night. U can only read Bible. Don't drink water or eat food. Don't eat fruits. Make sure u don't bring phone to that personal retreat you can bring watch or clock to check time. And you must complete 72 Hours.

Your prayer:-

Oh Lord, you either Kill this Spirit of Prostitution or you Kill me.

If you find it hard to do it alone, you can do this retreat with a group of persons. But doing it as a group will require that you go to a notable place like in RCCG camp or MFM prayer city.

This is the true test of who you are. The man you are supposed to do. Let me tell you how I stopped patronising prostitutes over 30 years ago.
I started patronising them at a very tender age. In fact, there was a time I paid, then the lady off light and turned her bag for me, I then ask, what do you mean by turning you ass or back to me?

She replied, I really want to know if you actually know where vagina is. That is to tell you how small or younger I was when I started patronising them.

What pains me the most then was that, after that few minutes satisfaction, I become worthless, meaningless and unhappy with my life.
So, I began to think a way out as you are thinking now.

But the difference is that you are after the money you spend, while I was after the useless life I am pushing myself into.

What I did was I took an oath with the impossible. That faithful day, I stood before the sun, and proclaimed that any day I sleep with a prostitute in life, it is as good as sleeping with my biological mum.

I guess, you know how heavy that is in our culture. From that day till date, I haven't and never thought of it. This is over 30 years today, that spirit just left me. So, even free, I mean free, I can't sleep or approach a prostitute again in life.

So, my friend, if your reason of thinking to stop it is because of the cost, then you have a long way because the more you make money the more you upgrade.

But if your goal is to have a quality and self worth life, then do or vow with the unthinkable and you will be free.

I wish you good luck

KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.

NiRfreak:
In my own case , I didn't talk to anyone, I only simply genuinely gave my life to Christ praying, fasting and stop going to bars totally, while going to church regularly as much as I went to bars these days.

how do I start genuinely

gbaskiboy:
In my comment I urged the poster to seek help from Mature person, whom do you consider as a mature person? Talking to mature person will never bring up his secret no matter what happens he will rather help him to get out of his addiction.
People pay money to get someone to advise how many of them has come out to exposed their clients? And you mentioned that he should speak to God, yes I agreed with you but will God come down from the heaven to show him way out? If you are undergoing serious problems and you decided to keep it to yourself that is your own way and it should never be imposes on anyone.

God doesn't need to come down from heaven, he reveals solutions to pple who ask in dreams , if you believe & trust in him.
God is his creator & he knows the guy's problem & solution to it far better than anyone

obiekunie01:
Dont stress yourself bros!

All of them na the same thing.

The difference be say some dey stay their papa house dey runs am, while some dey their husband house dey runs am. Some stay their school hostel de runs am, while some dey stand for road dey runs am, and some dey hire room to dey runs am. Some ma dey live for hotel dey runs am.

THE KOKO BE SAY ALL ALL NA PROSTITUTES - SOME PREFER TO USE THE BAPTISM NAME 'RUNS GIRLS' WHILE OTHERS PREFER TO USE THE CONFIRMATION NAME "HOOKUP!" - ALL NA ASEWO!

SOME DEY EVEN START AT AGE 13!

AND WHICH EVER WAY YOU TAKE APPROACH AM, IT MUST COST YOU MONEY WELLA!

Dey even pray make e dey cost you only money bc some people, e cost them their lives!

Continue encouraging promiscuity. Don't stop you hear.keep at it.i believe you know that trump has withdrawn the support he's giving to nigeria that makes antiretroviral drugs for hiv affordable.

Anyway yoruba don talk am.tidi babaje tonidi londa

izicode1:
This is the true test of who you are. The man you are supposed to do. Let me tell you how I stopped patronising prostitutes over 30 years ago.
I started patronising them at a very tender age. In fact, there was a time I paid, then the lady off light and turned her bag for me, I then ask, what do you mean by turning you ass or back to me?

She replied, I really want to know if you actually know where vagina is. That is to tell you how small or younger I was when I started patronising them.

What pains me the most then was that, after that few minutes satisfaction, I become worthless, meaningless and unhappy with my life.
So, I began to think a way out as you are thinking now.

But the difference is that you are after the money you spend, while I was after the useless life I am pushing myself into.

What I did was I took an oath with the impossible. That faithful day, I stood before the sun, and proclaimed that any day I sleep with a prostitute in life, it is as good as sleeping with my biological mum.

I guess, you know how heavy that is in our culture. From that day till date, I haven't and never thought of it. This is over 30 years today, that spirit just left me. So, even free, I mean free, I can't sleep or approach a prostitute again in life.

So, my friend, if your reason of thinking to stop it is because of the cost, then you have a long way because the more you make money the more you upgrade.

But if your goal is to have a quality and self worth life, then do or vow with the unthinkable and you will be free.

I wish you good luck

If this your incident happened 30 years ago, that means you are probably now a man in his early 50s.

Now, for the part where you took an oath against sleeping with prostitutes, how are you sure that among all the numerous girlfriends you later had after that incident , none was into prostitution?

Can you even vouch for your present wife if she has never slept with any man for money or gifts after your marriage?

Hope you no use your mouth bring curse upon yourself?

Are you really sure you are seeking for Advice or you are just catching jokes with nairalanders. Check what you posted on June 30 and act on the advice given to you.

PERIOD

D day I stopped patronizing prostitute is the day I asked my self why should I be wasting money on a prostitute and at d end of it she will not allow me to suck he bwess. And i have my personal banny that is ready to give me all her body even if it is inside the bush. I just jejely advised myself and stopped patronizing prostitute

Uptheante:
God doesn't need to come down from heaven, he reveals solutions to pple who ask in dreams , if you believe & trust in him.
God is his creator & he knows the guy's problem & solution to it far better than anyone

I still maintain that he needs to talk to MATURE PERSONS If God reveals solution to humans problem why have our problems not solved in Nigeria despite our collective prayers to him? We still experience hardship, Economy downturns, Banditry and all the rest we pray hard and most times in churches we use problems in Nigeria as a prayer points. Why has God not revealed it to us despite having strong men of God across the churches and other places of worship in Nigeria? Galatians 5:14&15. Said is there anyone sick among you, let him speak to the elders in the church? This is an inspiration words to apostle James from God.

Not keeping the matter to himself is the first step to end his problem bro

izicode1:
This is the true test of who you are. The man you are supposed to do. Let me tell you how I stopped patronising prostitutes over 30 years ago.
I started patronising them at a very tender age. In fact, there was a time I paid, then the lady off light and turned her bag for me, I then ask, what do you mean by turning you ass or back to me?

She replied, I really want to know if you actually know where vagina is. That is to tell you how small or younger I was when I started patronising them.

What pains me the most then was that, after that few minutes satisfaction, I become worthless, meaningless and unhappy with my life.
So, I began to think a way out as you are thinking now.

But the difference is that you are after the money you spend, while I was after the useless life I am pushing myself into.

What I did was I took an oath with the impossible. That faithful day, I stood before the sun, and proclaimed that any day I sleep with a prostitute in life, it is as good as sleeping with my biological mum.

I guess, you know how heavy that is in our culture. From that day till date, I haven't and never thought of it. This is over 30 years today, that spirit just left me. So, even free, I mean free, I can't sleep or approach a prostitute again in life.

So, my friend, if your reason of thinking to stop it is because of the cost, then you have a long way because the more you make money the more you upgrade.

But if your goal is to have a quality and self worth life, then do or vow with the unthinkable and you will be free.

I wish you good luck

You are probably a man in his late 40s or early 50s, if this your incident happened 30 years ago.
How much do you guys use to pay them in those days?

Secondly, how did you know that among all your numerous girlfriends since you took that oath, none was a prostitute?

Can you even vouch for your wife that no man has ever slept with her for money or gifts (prostitution) since you guys got married?

Don't use your mouth to invoke curse upon yourself. Sometimes, oaths are not necessary & they can be self-destructive.

KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.

I cant even look prostitute twice
How una dey take do am

KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.

Na 45k I pay for night yesterday oh. You are not alone. This week, almost N150k has finished on just 3girls.

Another girl I've been tracking since January this year told me N200k or I should leave it.

KiNg0G:
how do I start genuinely

It's a marathon walk and battle my brother.
One of the things I hated then was to yeild my life and agency to God because it seems it would make me miss all the fun in the world. But by the time all the fun began to take its toll on virtually every aspect of my life, I had to take that hard decision of yielding before I began to see a shift in appetites and inclination. It all beg in with genuine heart. God loves dealing with people with genuine and honest effort......

Start a 10 days fast. Eat just once in a day. In that period, delete all the olosho contacts u have that you frequently call and all. Delete all porn in your phone, leave all porn channel or group you are on WhatsApp and telegram. Stop listening to music that are charged with sexual themes. And decide to stop Alcohol and smoking for all this fasting period then institute strict lifestyle changes to stop it after the fast. See, it's a real battle that will cure you of all sexual addiction demons once and for all.

Pray as you fast, read the scriptures like a new found interest. When bored, listen to men of God regularly on YouTube. Men of God like, Arome Osayi, Stephen Cephas, and Orokpo Micheal.
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All the best... And look for a church you will be comfortable going regularly. You will have to this for the next 6 months while killing the urge to collect number and talk to random girls .


Good luck

gassbee:
Will u die if u get married

Unfortunately, marriage does not stop it. Married men patronise sex workers way more than bachelors.

OP needs serious deliverance, but I suspect he is a troll. Over 170 topics since 2021, which translates to a minimum of 40 topics per annum.

chiboycue:
ng a fraction of your income.
Starting going to church and identify with a service arm of your church to build your spiritual life.
You would find homely single ladies in the Church. You become friendly with them and start getting close to the one your heart chooses.
Then do a traditional and statutory marriage.

He should marry one of his customers. Why should he marry a homely girl in church? Who him leave his customers for?

gbaskiboy:
I still maintain that he needs to talk to MATURE PERSONS If God reveals solution to humans problem why have our problems not solved in Nigeria despite our collective prayers to him? We still experience hardship, Economy downturns, Banditry and all the rest we pray hard and most times in churches we use problems in Nigeria as a prayer points. Why has God not revealed it to us despite having strong men of God across the churches and other places of worship in Nigeria? Galatians 5:14&15. Said is there anyone sick among you, let him speak to the elders in the church? This is an inspiration words to apostle James from God.

Not keeping the matter to himself is the first step to end his problem bro

Bro, human beings are unpredictable no matter how much you adjudge them to be matured.
The sickness being talked about in the bible verse you quoted is not like this guy's own that can be used against him to damage his reputation.
Those strong men of God you mentioned can be unpredictable since they are also humans

Mindlog:
He is so messed up, his mind cannot process nor withstand being in a serious relationship with any woman. He needs working on himself before any serious relationship.

Exactly. His mind is thoroughly damaged. He needs a mind re-set.

Anything done too much becomes an addiction. Addiction is a bad thing.

jamesversion:
Na 45k I pay for night yesterday oh. You are not alone. This week, almost N150k has finished on just 3girls.

Another girl I've been tracking since January this year told me N200k or I should leave it.

It seems you are only concerned about the high cost of the prostitutes not that you genuine feel it's wrong to sleep with prostitutes.
That means if they are cheaper, maybe like 2k, you won't be concerned

Don’t give up on Olosho please! If u do they will go hungry. God created some men like you for oloshos only. Plz don’t stop patronizing them. Once day u will meet a good one to make ur wife. Until the. Keep smashing them and pay o. They don’t have shame o.

KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.

The solution is simple. Surrender your life to Jesus and He will give you the power to stop this evil of prostitution.

If you die because of toto ,then you die for nothing.

KiNg0G:
I get you bros.. but nor be the help I need be this.
E don tire me...

You know my candid advice?

The day you decide to stop. At 1pm, find a quiet corner in your house. Sit down on a plastic chair. If you dont have one at home, buy one or borrow from your neighbour. Now sit down on the plastic chair o.

If your name be Kunle for example, call yourself three times.
"Kunle, Kunle, Kunle,"
Wait for like a minute. Then, say this in pidging-English and be serious with it. Address yourself as Bro. or "My guy" Na pidgin-English should use o.

"My guy, a f00l at 40 na f00l forever o. Wen u go dey wise? When u wan marry, when u wan get pikin? Wise up o. Wise up o, Wise up o,"

After this, wait till 1am and do the same on the same plastic chair.
Then, the following morning go buy Snipper. Bring am home and do whatever you want with. If after 30 minutes you still dey alive. Especially if you did not tear the bottle open. Then, it means you still get sense. You can still make choices. That means you can stop the habit you have indulge in for years, you are not just ready.

When you are ready you go act.

Did you discover Ive just written nonsense?

Yes, sometimes, I love writing nonsense especially when ever I feel like writing and have something reasonable to write.

This is absolute nonsense I have written but, in this nonsense, you can pick something reasonable of it, even if just a bit.

If you dont stop yourself now you might live to regret it.

KiNg0G
I noticed you've made a post like this months ago. Anyway, you're not far from being a simp because of the amount you claim to be spending in the name of high taste.

What made you think there's a high taste or class of prostitute without a man elevating her. The only thing that makes a prostitute different is the level of her neatness physically and medically.

How can you call a lady who's doing nothing to make money aside sleeping with men a big girl?

That same lady you're giving 40k for Short time, believe me if better hunger wire her, she will do it for even 5k because she doesn't have a choice.

Na men like una dey upgrade prostitute while degrading your life. Even if you should run OS, first have self control and discipline as a man and then have high self esteem.

Meanwhile, if you've invested such amount into packaging and developing yourself as a mature single guy, ladies will be falling by your side left and right. I'm 35yrs single guy and most time Na me dey run away from free knack from mature ladies.

Develop and Package yourself and see mature ladies falling for you even if you don't want to marry.

PulaPower:
No be lie..

Dem dey carry relationship for head pass..

They’re so sweet and can spoil you with money if dem like you..

XP everywhere, senior man I hail o

ediko5:
KiNg0G
I noticed you've made a post like this months ago. Anyway, you're not far from being a simp because of the amount you claim to be spending in the name of high taste.

What made you think there's a high taste or class of prostitute without a man elevating her. The only thing that makes a prostitute different is the level of her neatness physically and medically.

How can you call a lady who's doing nothing to make money aside sleeping with men a big girl?

That same lady you're giving 40k for Short time, believe me if better hunger wire her, she will do it for even 5k because she doesn't have a choice.

Na men like una dey upgrade prostitute while degrading your life. Even if you should run OS, first have self control and discipline as a man and then have high self esteem.

Meanwhile, if you've invested such amount into packaging and developing yourself as a mature single guy, ladies will be falling by your side left and right. I'm 35yrs single guy and most time Na me dey run away from free knack from mature ladies.

Develop and Package yourself and see mature ladies falling for you even if you don't want to marry.

Aswear you go run tire if you package well and look neat. E no easy for married folks like us, before you know this ladies go carry mat.

Little change like how much

Besides all these small.girls like restaurant worker girls, student fashion designers, student (post secondary school) hairdressers, herbal girls e.t.c wont have your time so whats the solution?

Cum4me:
Bro there's nothing wrong with you. The hardship has make our girls something else. Many small girls full area try carry one dey give small change Dem go give you knacking tire I'm a testimony I can never pay for olosho. All those area girls go service you tire with little change.

jamesversion:
Na 45k I pay for night yesterday oh. You are not alone. This week, almost N150k has finished on just 3girls.

Another girl I've been tracking since January this year told me N200k or I should leave it.

E dey enter hand...Omo I don tire

KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.

No No no no No

Sonnobax15:

One thing about myself which I so much love is the fact that I've never been to a brothel all my life.......... Neither have I had a taste of how the girls there taste like . In fact,I don't know if I'm the only guy,but I'm the kind of selective type when it comes to intimacy.........No be every banny wey I see my diick dey rise for.......

Also, building a relationship with my current banny up to this time, making it 4 years hasn't been easy......But being tolerant has always been the key.......If you say you wanna find a banny with a 💯 good character,my brother you go waka lost cuz there's none out there......

Being in your late 30's isn't a bad idea....... You can as well start allover......look for bannies within the age of 30-34 cuz majority of those ones don dey close to their retirement . But you see those under 30's,my brother don't even say Hi to them let alone having any thing to do with them..

Mr Sonnobax15, you have been dating your current banny for four years. When are you finally going to put a ring on it?

I’m asking on behalf of my sister, no offense.

Enjoy your weekend!

Uptheante:
It seems you are only concerned about the high cost of the prostitutes not that you genuine feel it's wrong to sleep with prostitutes.
That means if they are cheaper, maybe like 2k, you won't be concerned

I cannot have an erection for a particular consecutively. I have to alternate women to enjoy sex, else it gives me the feeling of having sex under duress.

It's been like that since I came of age. If I have sex with any lady, I cannot have an erection for her again until I sleep with another lady.

Don’t give up on Olosho please! If u do they will go hungry. God created some men like you for oloshos only. Plz don’t stop patronizing them. One day u will meet a good one to make ur wife. Until the. Keep smashing them and pay o. They don’t have shame o.

KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.

YeyeGbami:
Aswear you go run tire if you package well and look neat. E no easy for married folks like us, before you know this ladies go carry mat.

You'll be surprise that guy like this may be living in a single room self contain or sometimes may even be sharing a room rent with a friend but they can spend tenths of thousand for hotel per night and spend more than 100k for prostitute fee and feeding per day.

I know of a guy that stays in a batcher (wooden thatched house with Zinc) but spends hundred of thousands monthly on women and he takes these women to standard hotels and guest houses in town.

If he had invested that money in himself, live in a nice apartment, get a small car for himself and appear neat, ladies will be falling for him stress free and in most cases with very less spending or free.

When we give sermon on how to be a man, it's men like them that will attack us