I have had my heart shattered by love twice and I made up my mind not to love again. I kept to that for several years. At certain point i decided to enter into a relationship just to forgive the past but the problem is that my heart is stone cold towards love. The worst part is that its affecting my relationship with other people. What do I do? I sincerely need that part of me to be restored.

eya! Give yourself time to heal. It is apparent that you have not yet healed.

Time heals all wounds

iice:

Since you made your mind not to love again.
Make your mind to love again.

Yeah Yeah.

love doesnt exist so stop wasting your time- just look out for that person you get along with, that one person that makes everything less of a waste of time. your heart or whatever will reactivate
good luck with all that

Well stated queensmith.

Queensmith

That just a weak statement, dear, love exist but mutual love between couples just don't cos one will definately love the other better in a relationship.

If its working for you now, good for you then.

Don't worry about falling in love. It's overrated and when the time comes, things will take its natural course. Stop being bitter about the past.

No matter how stone cold a man's heart may be, at the right time and with the right woman, he will fall in love.

Abi^

I will try. I guess life goes on.

Well i dont expect anyone on this forum to say otherwise tosinville; i will agree love exists when yoou present me evidence of the fact. #thatisall. Without evidence absence is assumed.

everyth s risk, even lyf
open up n u ll explore

^e no go beta 4 dos wey dey break ur heart o!, environment can also slow things down & be a hinderance, try to relocate and get hooked up with a guy who'll always treat u right but u can tel me guys don't woo u but u might have decline ur prince charming request lusting after a heartbreaker u called boyfriend.

^Queensmith

And the evidence is??, i guess we have it then
Love doesnt exist
@op good luck with all that

a hard heart , hmmnn go easy bro

risk: a hard price to pay on love

if u dont love him then he's not yours. For if he's yours, you'll fall for him right from day 1