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Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by MrsChima1(f): 2:15pm On Feb 06, 2012
Ladies, Are older men much better in relationships than younger men?

Do you think age is a direct correlation with maturity and wisdom? 

On Dr.Phil (talk show), several women have expressed their opinions about the difference between older and younger men.  I will summarize some of the things they have shared because I know some of you have ADHD.   cheesy

Younger men

Excellent in bed
Energetic
Physically fit
Eager to learn new things in life
More likely to cheat
Superficial
Clueless in relationship expectations
Struggling in finances and establishing a name for themselves
Wants to be cater like a child and aren't romantic
Immature in communication

Older men

Boring in bed
Too laid back/move like a snail
Set in their ways and too stubborn to learn new things in life
Less likely to cheat
Aren't too picky
Have experience in relationship expectations
Can provide great stability and loaded with finances
More family oriented and caters to their women
Are more romantic
Mature in communication

These are some of the things they have expressed and some people feel that it is base on life experience and lack of exposure.  Do you think women pick men base on some of the characteristics provided above? 

Do you agree or disagree?
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Feb 06, 2012
well to many naija girls the answer na yes because the granpapas na cash cows wey dem go chop finish grin grin grin grin
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by LaParisienne(f): 2:47pm On Feb 06, 2012
@Mrs Chima
You could put an age range to it so that peolpe will know how to answer. Younger and older is relative. Just saying. . .

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Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Feb 06, 2012
Hmm. . .Let's see what this holds. shocked
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by freecocoa(f): 3:01pm On Feb 06, 2012
The question no straight enough,I agree with the lady above.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by MrsChima1(f): 3:38pm On Feb 06, 2012
Okay.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by MrsChima1(f): 3:39pm On Feb 06, 2012
lefulefu:

well to many naija girls the answer na yes because the granpapas na cash cows wey dem go chop finish grin grin grin grin
undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided Don't you do the same thing?
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Chimezie198(m): 3:39pm On Feb 06, 2012
Mrs. Chima are you looking for a sugarboy?
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by seedord247(m): 3:40pm On Feb 06, 2012
The picture is clear. Only a Yaba patient will go for older men. grin
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by MrsChima1(f): 3:41pm On Feb 06, 2012
Chimezie198:

Mrs. Chima are you looking for a sugarboy?

If I was, it wouldn't be you. wink
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Okontami: 3:51pm On Feb 06, 2012
Mrs, Chima:

If I was, it wouldn't be you. wink
grin Mrs Chima, You would have just told him the truth that me OKONTAMI is your new SuGAR BOY tongue. I love MIL.Fs
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Killz3(m): 4:17pm On Feb 06, 2012
What's the age range? You cant compare a 60 year old to a 30 year old! Any lady that goes for a 60 year old is pitiably lopsided and pathetically discombobulated!

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Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by pendo89(f): 4:20pm On Feb 06, 2012
define old man.
At what age does a young man start displaying those qualities? 40'50'60's?

As far as am concerned any man in his twenties still has a lot of things to learn and lots of growing up to do.

I can only take a 30-45 year old man serious cz most seem a bit grounded not playboys with untamed/immature testosterone.

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Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Feb 06, 2012
~Killz~:

What's the age range? You cant compare a 60 year old to a 30 year old! Any lady that goes for a 60 year old is pitiably lopsided and pathetically discombobulated!
Na wich one come be ur stress for inside? grin.All na hustling matter nah grin
Eh there is even this 106 yr old sugar daddy for my village wey dey date one 19 yr old former model from eastern nigeria and the reason why dis former model gree date am na because dis sugar daddy get money plenty.Even sef he don use almost all the young female nollywood stars grin.Apart frm dat u no hear frm CNN dat 88yr old Hugh Heffner dey set to marry im 24 yr old sexy blonde fiancee? cheesy.Omo money good ooo grin grin grin
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by badmrkt(m): 4:27pm On Feb 06, 2012
@pendo aw old u b sef?so dat we go knw aw we go handle u
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Feb 06, 2012
Mrs, Chima:

undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided Don't you do the same thing?

yes nah if one old mama wan date me den she must be ready to spend millions of dollars or euros on me grin.but anyway i got one sexy hot ukranian chick by my side so i dont need no grandmama punny grin grin.na SAFO work be dat grin
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by pendo89(f): 4:38pm On Feb 06, 2012
badmrkt:

@pendo aw old u b sef?so dat we go knw aw we go handle u

haha only 65.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Okontami: 4:39pm On Feb 06, 2012
grin grin @ Lefu, abeg , Question 1. With the aid of diagram and explanation. Kindly describe how Ukranian babe PuNANY be and how dem dey shout when the big anoconda enter inside them.  
Question 2. How Naija babes dey scream self i don dey forget grin grin
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by MrsChima1(f): 4:39pm On Feb 06, 2012
Okontami:

grin Mrs Chima,  You would have just told him the truth that me OKONTAMI is your new SuGAR BOY tongue. I love MIL.Fs

Good for you.  Didn't your Greek MILF married a 23 years old Nigerian man?  grin tongue
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by MrsChima1(f): 4:41pm On Feb 06, 2012
~Killz~:

What's the age range? You cant compare a 60 year old to a 30 year old! Any lady that goes for a 60 year old is pitiably lopsided and pathetically discombobulated!

Would you say the same thing for men that goes for 60 years old women?
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by MrsChima1(f): 4:43pm On Feb 06, 2012
pendo89:

define old man.
At what age does a young man start displaying those qualities? 40'50'60's?

As far as am concerned any man in his twenties still has a lot of things to learn and lots of growing up to do.

I can only take a 30-45 year old man serious cz most seem a bit grounded not playboys with untamed/immature testosterone.

I can't define older and younger men because everyone has their own age ranges, however I have heard many women say the bolded.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Killz3(m): 4:46pm On Feb 06, 2012
Would you say the same thing for men that goes for 60 years old women?
Yes i would! Why o why would anyone want to nack his mum's age mate? For chrissakes, my grandmother is 65! I cant imagine any 30 year old going for her! That is pure undiluted catastrophic obfuscation!
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by MrsChima1(f): 4:48pm On Feb 06, 2012
~Killz~:

Yes i would! Why o why would anyone want to nack his mum's age mate? For chrissakes, my grandmother is 65!  I cant imagine any 30 year old going for her! That is pure undiluted catastrophic obfuscation!

I understand your sentiments, however many have claimed they love their granny/gramp mates. 

Do you think it is possible to fall in love with elderly men and women?


At first, I always said age is nothing but a number but I have taken some things in perspective and realized how important age is one of the determining factors in selecting partners.  I remembered when Chima asked me my age before he even went further and he always said men who wants children tend to go for child bearing-aged women.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Killz3(m): 4:51pm On Feb 06, 2012
Okontami:

grin grin @ Lefu, abeg , Question 1. With the aid of diagram and explanation. Kindly describe how Ukranian babe PuNANY be and how dem dey shout when the big anoconda enter inside them.  
Question 2. How Naija babes dey scream self i don dey forget grin grin
Weere ni bobo yo mehn! grin grin
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by pendo89(f): 4:53pm On Feb 06, 2012
Mrs, Chima:

I can't define older and younger men because everyone has their own age ranges, however I have heard many women say the bolded.  

ok Here is my answer

It depends on what one is seeking after in the older or younger man.
If I find a young girl dating his Father's agemate then I know something is def NOT ok.
Same applies to the young dude dating his mother's agemate. Sickening to me.

People have this craving they try to fulfill its no wonder they date people outside their age brackets.

Are older men better than young men? Answer lies in your age.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by tpia5: 4:54pm On Feb 06, 2012
Being older doesnt mean a man will not cheat. And being younger doesnt mean a man WILL cheat.

The list is very bogus and imaginary. Must have been compiled by women, obviously.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Nobody: 4:55pm On Feb 06, 2012
Okontami:

grin grin @ Lefu, abeg , Question 1. With the aid of diagram and explanation. Kindly describe how Ukranian babe PuNANY be and how dem dey shout when the big anoconda enter inside them.  
Question 2. How Naija babes dey scream self i don dey forget grin grin
In answer to ur first question wen u dey nack a white babe she go hold u tight and start to dey halla in her soft velvet voice saying," oh yea dont stop me, oh pls dont stop" grin
to ur second question if u wan nack a naija babe she go first slap ur head and tell u make u no wound am and if ur thing too big na frying pan she go take hit u for head if u too put ur thing inside too deeep grin grin.Also rememberr say oyibo girls dey go crazy for a big massive black snake and omo if dem hold ur snake lick am finish na heaven u dey ooooo grin grin
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Killz3(m): 4:56pm On Feb 06, 2012
Mrs, Chima:

I understand your sentiments, however many have claimed they love their granny/gramp mates.  

Do you think it is possible to fall in love with elderly men and women?
Love? Unless it's love for their money! Or love because of the advice they give me as the grandma that she is! But romantic love? I dont buy that! Seriously speaking, why would any young hotblooded man prefer a flat bosom a.k.a slippers bosom and wrinkled skin to a fresh lady? Beats me!

If my grandmom trys that, i'll disown her! angry
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by MrsChima1(f): 4:56pm On Feb 06, 2012
pendo89:

ok Here is my answer

It depends on what one is seeking after in the older or younger man.
If I find a young girl dating his Father's agemate then I know something is def NOT ok.
Same applies to the young dude dating his mother's agemate. Sickening to me.

People have this craving they try to fulfill its no wonder they date people outside their age brackets.

Are older men better than young men? Answer lies in your age.


I hear you.  I do not have attraction to my grandpa nor father, so I wouldn't date men that reminds me of my grandpa and father.  It feels funny to me, however people have claimed real love knows no age.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by MrsChima1(f): 5:00pm On Feb 06, 2012
~Killz~:

Love? Unless it's love for their money! Or love because of the advice they give me as the grandma that she is! But romantic love? I dont buy that! Seriously speaking, why would any young hotblooded man prefer a flat bosom a.k.a slippers bosom and wrinkled skin to a fresh lady? Beats me!

If my grandmom trys that, i'll disown her! angry


Hmm, I see.  What do you think about older men choosing younger women?  

Do you agree with my husband when he said older and younger men typically choose women base on age (for procreation) or men have different set of criteria when it comes to women?
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Killz3(m): 5:05pm On Feb 06, 2012
At first, I always said age is nothing but a number but I have taken some things in perspective and realized how important age is one of the determining factors in selecting partners.  I remembered when Chima asked me my age before he even went further and he always said men who wants children tend to go for child bearing-aged women.
Let's be factual here! That "age is a number" phrase is plain bullshitology! You cant truly say you love a woman older than 60, unless money is involved! We are supposed to grow old together in love, not the other way round! Well anyone that feels he wants to marry his mother's mate, is free to do so. But i wont recommend it for my enemy! Yeah! Another good point is the children ish! Unless he's aiming for her money, so that she can die and leave him the fortune, and then he re-marries to probably one of his baby momma's, i cant make sense out of marrying an old woman!
If she's just 10 years older, it could be considered. I.e, she's 39 and i'm 29, or a case of a widow and widower getting married, i dont get the logic! Maybe today is one of my dumb days!
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Okontami: 5:08pm On Feb 06, 2012
grin grin Dear All, i am seroius now. OBO, OKO and Money are very serious matters. OBO for the MEN and Money for the WOMEN. For women who already have money , OKO is their priority. Most young men (21-28) are strugglers without money but with great, massive and huge OKO and have mastered the usage from their frequent visit to Ile Ashewo and constant drinking of Shepe and Opa Eyin. Older men have the money which younger girls need but in all, a woma's greatest need is OKO. Money is useless without Sweet OKO. grin cool

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