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Is There A Hope For Me? by gracias124(op): 3:58pm On Mar 28
I cant stop gambling, porn and msturbation. I am tired, these habits are draining me.
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by lordm(m): 4:04pm On Mar 28
Flee from sports betting o.
gracias124:
I cant stop gambling, porn and msturbation. I am tired, these habits are draining me.
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by Nobody: 4:16pm On Mar 28
You've almost achieved the full template of a 'real man.' Just add small dry gin and hookup patronizing to the mix and your transformation will be 100% complete. Keep it up! 👏

🚶‍♂️
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by gracias124(op): 4:21pm On Mar 28
SpencerForbes:
You've almost achieved the full template of a 'real man.' Just add small dry gin and hookup patronizing to the mix and your transformation will be 100% complete. Keep it up! 👏

🚶‍♂️
I am addicted to only these two, and I begin to see sense in suicide and you are tellinv me to add another 2 destructive habits
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by eepeepook: 4:41pm On Mar 28
Smoking too. OP, keep it up. Na man you be.

SpencerForbes:
You've almost achieved the full template of a 'real man.' Just add small dry gin and hookup patronizing to the mix and your transformation will be 100% complete. Keep it up! 👏

🚶‍♂️
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Mar 28
gracias124:
I am addicted to only these two, and I begin to see sense in suicide and you are tellinv me to add another 2 destructive habits
Actually, you really need to add the other two habits so you can finally see the 'Most High.' Why take two and leave two? Just take all four so you can enjoy the full dopamine hit.

Since you aren't ready to advise yourself in 2026, we’ll do it for you. Nobody has the time or energy to be a motivational speaker this year. Just do whatever is on your mind; at the end of the day, you alone will face the reward.

Besides, even if we advise you from now until 'Thy Kingdom Come,' if you aren't ready to change, it’s just like pouring water into a basket. No time for long stories this year. Peace! ✌️

Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by saintopus(m): 5:14pm On Mar 28
SpencerForbes:
Actually, you really need to add the other two habits so you can finally see the 'Most High.' Why take two and leave two? Just take all four so you can enjoy the full dopamine hit.

Since you aren't ready to advise yourself in 2026, we’ll do it for you. Nobody has the time or energy to be a motivational speaker this year. Just do whatever is on your mind; at the end of the day, you alone will face the reward.

Besides, even if we advise you from now until 'Thy Kingdom Come,' if you aren't ready to change, it’s just like pouring water into a basket. No time for long stories this year. Peace! ✌️
Bad pikin na bad pikin!
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by AmbassadoR100(m): 5:54pm On Mar 28
Go to God and pray, ask for the grace to stop these habits. Study the Word and be consistent.. The appetite will gradually drop.

But first you have to be genuine in your desire to stop!
gracias124:
I cant stop gambling, porn and msturbation. I am tired, these habits are draining me.
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by gracias124(op): 5:58pm On Mar 28
AmbassadoR100:
Go to God and pray, ask for the grace to stop these habits. Study the Word and be consistent.. The appetite will gradually drop.

But first you have to be genuine in your desire to stop!
thanks
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by T0BY(m): 6:21pm On Mar 28
When you don dey fed up, nah you go advise yourself to stop. Until then, continue to crave and take-in your cheap, unhealthy dopamine hit.
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by helinues: 7:15pm On Mar 28
You are yet to be tired honestly because if you do, you won't still be asking questions
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by Starz825(m): 6:46am On Mar 29
One day, you go just wake up say
...you ain't doing shit again and..so will be it

But for now ...dey pray silently to God even while at it.
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by Texcyndy: 7:44am On Mar 29
gracias124:
I cant stop gambling, porn and msturbation. I am tired, these habits are draining me.
There is hope for you. One demon is responsible for this. Just surrender first to Jesus Christ. Then obey His words. It is as simple as that. The problem is that, will you do it? You are only regretting now because you don't have money, but if small change enter now, you will look for how to multiply it. Another thing is that you won't stop visiting bet sites and check live scores and looking for games.
Many of you are tired, but you will always play around the traps
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by Sirchiboy: 8:05am On Mar 29
gracias124:
I cant stop gambling, porn and msturbation. I am tired, these habits are draining me.
Do you have a gf?
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by Nobody: 9:49am On Mar 29
helinues:
You are yet to be tired honestly because if you do, you won't still be asking questions
You've never been addicted to something before! That why you lot can talk trash.
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by Nobody: 9:51am On Mar 29
OP, please post this on reddit or go there and search for similar threads opened before. You will see some good practical advice. Nairaland is for catching cruise. You can't get any educated advice on here due to your predicament.

Romans 7: 15 to 20
I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good. As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me. For I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing. Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it.
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by helinues: 9:52am On Mar 29
Chukwuebuka21:
You've never been addicted to something before! That why you lot can talk trash.
Continue doing something hurting you and be waiting for advice. Sebi you came from Pluto

Gambling that can reck you financially, you are waiting for people to advise you to stop

Masturbating and porn that will make your spermatozoa to be low, you are not even considering your partner, you want us to pet you to stop

Okay now
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by Nobody: 10:01am On Mar 29
helinues:
Continue doing something hurting you and be waiting for advice. Sebi you came from Pluto

Gambling that can reck you financially, you are waiting for people to advise you to stop

Masturbating and porn that will make your spermatozoa to be low, you are not even considering your partner, you want us to pet you to stop

Okay now
And you think the OP does not want to stop? Have you being addicted before? Don't bother quoting if you will continue typing epistle!!.
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by helinues: 10:33am On Mar 29
Chukwuebuka21:
And you think the OP does not want to stop? Have you being addicted before? Don't bother quoting if you will continue typing epistle!!.
Your question is irrelevant because all human beings are addicted to one thing or the other. It's left to you to moderate your addiction

Nobody advised me to stop going out after my drinks was spiked.
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by Amarachibaby(f): 11:12am On Mar 29
gracias124:
I cant stop gambling, porn and msturbation. I am tired, these habits are draining me.
The day you understand the negative impact they have on you both physically, mentally, emotional draining ,health and spiritual that's the day you will decide and the possessions will leave you ✌🏾
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by gracias124(op): 7:13pm On Mar 29
Sirchiboy:
Do you have a gf?
I am too poor to get a friend
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by Queenserah1(f): 7:16pm On Mar 29
Get an accountability partner
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by Illegal1(m): 8:03pm On Mar 29
gracias124:
I am addicted to only these two, and I begin to see sense in suicide and you are tellinv me to add another 2 destructive habits
Omoh..........I can gv u daily 2odds.
Give up no follow for dis bet hustle
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by Illegal1(m): 8:05pm On Mar 29
Starz825:
One day, you go just wake up say
...you ain't doing shit again and..so will be it

But for now ...dey pray silently to God even while at it.
Omoh.......more wisdom to u bro
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Mar 29
OP, let me give you some candid advice, if you’re ready to listen and take action.

The truth is that we kill bad habits by replacing them with constructive habits. You can't just leave a vacuum in your life; you must fill that space with something else. Start a new hobby—whether it’s journaling, drawing, or even hitting the gym—anything that genuinely occupies your time and keeps your mind busy.

Secondly, you must kill the triggers. If you have those videos on your phone, delete them immediately. If it’s an online thing, clear your browser history and cache so those suggestions don't pop up. If it’s your friends that influence you, you need to cut them off without thinking twice. You can't heal in the same environment that made you sick.

Give yourself a very strict routine to follow. There might be days when you relapse, but don’t let that get to you or make you give up entirely. Be determined and keep pushing until you beat it. That is the only way to stay positive and win this battle.
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by AllBlack: 6:02am On Mar 30
gracias124:
I cant stop gambling, porn and msturbation. I am tired, these habits are draining me.
Draining yourself 3 ways.

mental drain - Porn
Akam waste - Mastur
Financial Drain - Gambling.

you could have just used the money for gambling to get real actual babe to wipe as you like instead of using FAKE nacks. but you just dey cheat yourself 3 ways.
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by gracias124(op): 7:53am On Mar 30
AllBlack:
Draining yourself 3 ways.

mental drain - Porn
Akam waste - Mastur
Financial Drain - Gambling.

you could have just used the money for gambling to get real actual babe to wipe as you like instead of using FAKE nacks. but you just dey cheat yourself 3 ways.
you are right thats why my life is stagnant
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by seanery: 2:14am On Apr 03
THERE'S NO HOPE FOR YOU
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by QuinQQ: 3:40am On Apr 03
gracias124:
I cant stop gambling, porn and msturbation. I am tired, these habits are draining me.
Begs the question: HOW do you get the money for all these things??
Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by elmagnifico411(m): 12:24pm On Apr 06
gracias124:
I cant stop gambling, porn and msturbation. I am tired, these habits are draining me.
trust me, there’s no hope for you grin grin grin grin once a good character is gone, it’s gone forever!
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