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It’s called a heartbreak. You’re old if you got it at twenty-five. I thought I was old when it happened to me at twenty-one. Most of my peers claimed they experienced it in late teens. You will get over it and find a new person.

Speedstar7:
I am still a student of the university of uyo 25 years of age, I am writing this with deep pains in my heart . Our tenant ( a single mother) in our compound has a 19 year old daughter who stays with her father in another town oku iboku. She do occasionally visit her mother and spend at least a month with her mother (she's in ss3 though),Well when she do come to see her mother I normally don't talk to her because of my introvertedness untill she started asking wether I have a girlfriend, talking about sex etc it then got to a point she indirectly asked me to sex her. After the first sex we started having sex almost throughout that month last year ... I later proceeded in asking her out of which she agreed. Her mother bought a phone before she returned to the place she is schooling ( she wants to write waec) fast forward today she came two weeks ago.. she has stopped giving me attention and sex, most of the time ignores me as if I don't exist. I even overhead a guy asking wether she has seen her period on phone
I am so heartbroken... This is my first ever relationship, she kinda approach me first although indirectly I was kinda thinking it will last. She left today.... Please advise me it's really tough

The same way he approached you she also approach another guy who took her to the 9th cloud severally in a section that she forgot you once scratched it. Accept your lose and move on. That is the very best you can do for yourself. Face your studies.

Speedstar7:
I am still a student of the university of uyo 25 years of age, I am writing this with deep pains in my heart . Our tenant ( a single mother) in our compound has a 19 year old daughter who stays with her father in another town oku iboku. She do occasionally visit her mother and spend at least a month with her mother (she's in ss3 though),Well when she do come to see her mother I normally don't talk to her because of my introvertedness untill she started asking wether I have a girlfriend, talking about sex etc it then got to a point she indirectly asked me to sex her. After the first sex we started having sex almost throughout that month last year ... I later proceeded in asking her out of which she agreed. Her mother bought a phone before she returned to the place she is schooling ( she wants to write waec) fast forward today she came two weeks ago.. she has stopped giving me attention and sex, most of the time ignores me as if I don't exist. I even overhead a guy asking wether she has seen her period on phone
I am so heartbroken... This is my first ever relationship, she kinda approach me first although indirectly I was kinda thinking it will last. She left today.... Please advise me it's really tough

She is doing you a favour if it's only attention and sex that she is starving you off. Go and ask men that have been thrown out of their houses, have had lies told about them to their own families and friends, have been arrested on false grounds, have lost a lot of money etc for making the mistake of engaging with the wrong females.

Thank your lucky stars.

Speedstar7:
I am still a student of the university of uyo 25 years of age, I am writing this with deep pains in my heart . Our tenant ( a single mother) in our compound has a 19 year old daughter who stays with her father in another town oku iboku. She do occasionally visit her mother and spend at least a month with her mother (she's in ss3 though),Well when she do come to see her mother I normally don't talk to her because of my introvertedness untill she started asking wether I have a girlfriend, talking about sex etc it then got to a point she indirectly asked me to sex her. After the first sex we started having sex almost throughout that month last year ... I later proceeded in asking her out of which she agreed. Her mother bought a phone before she returned to the place she is schooling ( she wants to write waec) fast forward today she came two weeks ago.. she has stopped giving me attention and sex, most of the time ignores me as if I don't exist. I even overhead a guy asking wether she has seen her period on phone
I am so heartbroken... This is my first ever relationship, she kinda approach me first although indirectly I was kinda thinking it will last. She left today.... Please advise me it's really tough

Congratulations, you have taken the first step towards scattering your future. You may not believe but you'll see it.
Except you quickly forget that girl and anything sex entirely.
Sex cannot add anything to you, it will destroy you and you will never have enough of it. The more you have it, the more you want more.
Your future is officially in DANGER.
Don't say all your friends are doing it.
You're in serious danger.
Danger! Danger!! Danger!!!
Good luck

Pls ask him how much is in his bank account?

Can he feed himself for 3 to 6 months should whatever he is doing currently to earn money stops?

If both answers are negative then he should focus more on making money and leave women alone.


Damnn what is wrong with men of this generation??

brain54:
19 years old is actually an adult...



Responsible for her decisions in life irrespective of whether she is in secondary school.


Though I suspect the op might have not been entirely truthful about her age!

How 19yrs old do you find in secondary school in this Gen Z age

This no be 90's o ! If you go into university naa kids full campus now, i doubt the gurl is 19, nd we understand he lied buh doesnt justify child abuse

25 and still a compound naama

Orisirisi.......
You dey depressed over girl wey another guy dey chop anyhow.
And your parents dey house dey hustle make you for succeed for school.
You sef ask yourself
Are you that useless......?
Baba leave woman oooooooooo
Face your studies ooooooooo
The girl don dey chop better gbolaaaaa
Move on, ignore her too

behave as if she doesnt exist too....You will claim your ego back with that

Subhanallah

Op, your third leg has finally done this to you. Anyways, it's never too late to pass the message, that any man that allows his preeqq to control his brains, is termed a simp. You are a simp and you can be a non simp by controlling your third legs. Bye

Speedstar7:
I am still a student of the university of uyo 25 years of age, I am writing this with deep pains in my heart . Our tenant ( a single mother) in our compound has a 19 year old daughter who stays with her father in another town oku iboku. She do occasionally visit her mother and spend at least a month with her mother (she's in ss3 though),Well when she do come to see her mother I normally don't talk to her because of my introvertedness untill she started asking wether I have a girlfriend, talking about sex etc it then got to a point she indirectly asked me to sex her. After the first sex we started having sex almost throughout that month last year ... I later proceeded in asking her out of which she agreed. Her mother bought a phone before she returned to the place she is schooling ( she wants to write waec) fast forward today she came two weeks ago.. she has stopped giving me attention and sex, most of the time ignores me as if I don't exist. I even overhead a guy asking wether she has seen her period on phone
I am so heartbroken... This is my first ever relationship, she kinda approach me first although indirectly I was kinda thinking it will last. She left today.... Please advise me it's really tough

YOUNG MAN AT UR AGE NA SEZ U DE GET FROM THESE GIRLS....if u give her belle now no body go see u ...u go jakpa....enter wahala let me warn you ..she is now for the street ..another guy self de bang her.....oga run from her make u no go carry disease......

Upon all the knowledge in this site and the internet at large, sorry but I can't help but laugh

Speedstar7:
I am still a student of the university of uyo 25 years of age, I am writing this with deep pains in my heart . Our tenant ( a single mother) in our compound has a 19 year old daughter who stays with her father in another town oku iboku. She do occasionally visit her mother and spend at least a month with her mother (she's in ss3 though),Well when she do come to see her mother I normally don't talk to her because of my introvertedness untill she started asking wether I have a girlfriend, talking about sex etc it then got to a point she indirectly asked me to sex her. After the first sex we started having sex almost throughout that month last year ... I later proceeded in asking her out of which she agreed. Her mother bought a phone before she returned to the place she is schooling ( she wants to write waec) fast forward today she came two weeks ago.. she has stopped giving me attention and sex, most of the time ignores me as if I don't exist. I even overhead a guy asking wether she has seen her period on phone
I am so heartbroken... This is my first ever relationship, she kinda approach me first although indirectly I was kinda thinking it will last. She left today.... Please advise me it's really tough

She's not your girlfriend bro!!!!! Please always make sure you use protection while on it with her to avoid stories that touches the heart.

Revolva:
YOUNG MAN AT UR AGE NA SEZ U DE GET FROM THESE GIRLS....if u give her belle now no body go see u ...u go jakpa....enter wahala let me warn you ..she is now for the street ..another guy self de bang her.....oga run from her make u no go carry disease......

Omo na true and I been no dey even last long when I dey knack her self na waoh

koladata:
Next time you want to try relationship , try someone much older and someone that has already started future plan.

A 19 year old girl (which i don't think she's even 19, but this keeps you out of jail) someone still in secondary school will still be exercising her youthful exuberance.

Find someone around 23 - 24 who is already done with university or at least 300 level if you want someone to that will take relationship serious

He's 25 for crying out loud, those 23, 24 girls will look much older and matured than him.
The 19, 20 yr old is ok just that he didn't play his part well

brain54:
19 years old is actually an adult...



Responsible for her decisions in life irrespective of whether she is in secondary school.


Though I suspect the op might have not been entirely truthful about her age!

They're still 19,20yrs old in secondary schools by default

Stephen0mozzy:
A whole brain equating age with maturity?
Egbon, a 30year old secondary school student is still an infantile legal adult.

Legally, she has a right to her decision, but come on, are we now lowering the bar? For undergraduates to be taking advantage of puberty-driven ho-_-rny secondary school students?

My friend secondary school is just a name and title. Some matured and knowledgeable people both men and women still go to secondary schools either by default or something or maybe late

Speedstar7:
hmmm. Omo one day like that I find her go farm as I reach there she say guy rape.... Guy rape you your back no dirty, clothe no tear she come tell me say make i know confront the guy .... Omo I just weak


The girl is a hoe.... Small girl ... Chai

Then leave her nah. She don already become public thing. Though I understand it's kinda hard. But you have to let go of her, shebi you don chop inside

Go get funds first my brother, Na she go Dey chase you up and down

Stephen0mozzy:
You wan beat me?
If you see, I was having a conversation with someone else.

And of course you didn't take advantage of her. A girl in secondary school you don't talk to, started drawing close to you, talking about sex and asking you if you have a girlfriend, and you didn't start a relationship, you started having sex.

What's it sef, is it the secondary school thing that's the problem or her age, cus I don't get.

brain54:
You should be happy to have dodged a bullet...


Instead of getting broken hearted!

Abi nah, he's just pained about the free sex missed. Sooner or later he'll get over it

Time heals all wound

Speedstar7:
I swear and she no allow me make a knack her that day .....e be like that day she collect heavy knacking that day .......after a 2 weeks I come lie give her say I don ask the guy that thing Omo she come the para oo...fear girls abeg....and this girl been the promise me true love and loyalty she even been they show am by constant check up on me....I dey pained I swear

Better move on, she don use you

Starz825:
You must learn from this experience or perish..

Listen: Woman love no dey reliable...As a man, its a terrible thing to rely solely on a woman's love....you will become miserable if you do...

You are a man and this is what no one tells you: Your life is bigger than what a woman can offer...
So now focus on your life and women will surround you....I repeat focus on your life...not just making money....

Focus on your:,

Confidence
Appearance
Positive energy
Project/purpose
Ideology/Psychology of life


Women go surround you like flies...cos at this point...

>you would have learnt how to handle rejection and still feel good while moving on with life

> you will come to know that as a man, you need more than a woman's attention or affection to survive this harsh world..

All of these are naturally going to attract women to you....

So Bro brace up.. you the man

Thank you teacher for I have learnt too hahaha

Speedstar7:
I am still a student of the university of uyo 25 years of age, I am writing this with deep pains in my heart . Our tenant ( a single mother) in our compound has a 19 year old daughter who stays with her father in another town oku iboku. She do occasionally visit her mother and spend at least a month with her mother (she's in ss3 though),Well when she do come to see her mother I normally don't talk to her because of my introvertedness untill she started asking wether I have a girlfriend, talking about sex etc it then got to a point she indirectly asked me to sex her. After the first sex we started having sex almost throughout that month last year ... I later proceeded in asking her out of which she agreed. Her mother bought a phone before she returned to the place she is schooling ( she wants to write waec) fast forward today she came two weeks ago.. she has stopped giving me attention and sex, most of the time ignores me as if I don't exist. I even overhead a guy asking wether she has seen her period on phone
I am so heartbroken... This is my first ever relationship, she kinda approach me first although indirectly I was kinda thinking it will last. She left today.... Please advise me it's really tough

The guy Nak her waiting no good... Her head don burst. So you look like a riff raff right now. Ghost her too because, no amount of chase will bring her attention to you. Just get another babe as soon as possible, take all the risk of rejection but whenever she comes, invite a babe no matter how much it cost even if sex is not involved. This is for your mental health and happiness not for anything.

She is in her hoe stage and you are in your productive stage. Ghost her completely and don't simp around her.

No matter what don't masturbatee. If the konji like make him kill you. It will restore your masculinity full time. I repeat, don't masturbatee no matter the level of konji.

Step 1 - don't masturbatee

Step 2 - ghost her completely

Step 3 - try get another but don't be serious with her. You are in your productive age. Don't Joke with your 20 to 30 yrs. You will never recover it again.

Step 4 - make all the money, buy any avaliable assets... Crypto, land, stocks etc


Step 5- don't take any woman serious, the right one will start encouraging you to your direction.

Step 6 - marry the good friend by 30 when you are financially stable but don't miss any free opueh wey no carry ogbanje for body.

Heartbreak kee you there. My friend enjoy and relish the ones you don already chop from her and move on. It's obvious she used you to satisfy her sexual urge that month she stayed with her mother.

Starhearts:
I
U dey knack person daughter wey still secondary skool....

What's it with all these secondary school stuff you guys are yapping about.
They're many above 20 yrs girls still in secondary school. They're there either by default or late starting.

Ur redemption and healing go long pass 3rd mainland bridge...common face ur front and be useful to urself

Kalulu44:
What's it sef, is it the secondary school thing that's the problem or her age, cus I don't get.

Oga leave me. If you're struggling to understand my stance, then the message is not for you. Because you're extrapolating information not aligned with the current context.

He needs to stop with the "woe is me", hustle and make money, that same girl would be chasing him like flies follow sh*t.

That is when he would know her true character and be glad she moved him on initially.