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Re: After An Affair by dayokanu(m): 5:59pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
jennykadry: Jenny no be my fault o. Person no deylight make he say he heavy. I no fit h-afford eye-pad walahi . Thats why I have been scouting around for rich sugarmummies $830 gini? that would change my life forever |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 6:03pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
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Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 6:10pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 6:17pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
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Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 6:26pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
Re: After An Affair by moremi2008(m): 6:27pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
ftmom: The "draft game" is sarcastic. But the "lazy wife" story appears true. The ladies in this section (e.g. Aunty Big-Head Jenny) are pretty good at sussing out fairy tales. |
Re: After An Affair by ronkebp(f): 6:39pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
dayokanu:i thougt you are financially bouyant enough to be on the queue **** rolls eyes***** banaso talakawa faa!!! |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 6:40pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
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Re: After An Affair by ronkebp(f): 6:41pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
moremi2008: so the 'draft game' cannot be true |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 6:45pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
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Re: After An Affair by dayokanu(m): 6:51pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
ronkebp: I thought you are willing with standing my your man when money becomes funny? |
Re: After An Affair by ronkebp(f): 7:11pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
dayokanu: I can stand by my man, i can't stand by ale's pennyless pocket. why have the ale in the first place |
Re: After An Affair by kelz88(f): 7:14pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
If you can't forgive and try to forget then don't bother yourself cos you will never be happy. |
Re: After An Affair by dayokanu(m): 7:37pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
ronkebp: So the only reason we are having an affair is because of money? |
Re: After An Affair by ronkebp(f): 7:40pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
dayokanu:nope not only that!!! other reasons best known to us but it makes sense when the ale has the money to buy ordinary ''hi pard', because am not ready to be a ''sugar aunty'', upgrading you as you 'go'. |
Re: After An Affair by 9lifes(m): 9:39pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
ftmom: You are wrong.This is what i am currently facing right now,and this is just part of the whole thing.And i wish i dey dat creative to be a script writer,but far from it. Men the thread done turn ipad thread, na cheating or something like that cos am too, lol. @moremi2008 I don observe the way you dey ginger anyhow when woman talk comes up.Well,this is an online environment you can be anything you want to be.Na people like you dey fall in love anyhow.Imagine how the ipad thing keeps coming up again and again, i may be wrong. For those that are still contributing,thanks for your points.I have more questions than answers.I thought when people find out about affairs like this they get really mad.i mean fight,scream or something to make a point,I was totally speechless.I had high expectations you know,i bragged about her strength and all that,but she fall my hand scatter.I have forgiven her,but the damage has been done. i don't think it will ever get normal again,i am not sure its worth sticking around.She has really been a very good friend,i just don't know what went wrong. Moving on is not going to be easy.I have problem with trusting people and its getting worse.It's not going to be easy trusting another girl,or putting so much effort into something that may disappear one day-i may be reacting.But beyond this point,its really going to be different. But one question first,why do most women, even married women encourage double dating for young ladies?It's always ok as long as it's a lady involved. Pls, it's just an observation within my small sphere,don't get me wrong.Keep your options open (aka double date) is the normal slogan now. It's time to keep my own open too,like wide open.If you want to be with someone go all out for them or just stay away.if you can't totally trust,just have fun and let them have fun too, just saying. |
Re: After An Affair by Freesia(f): 12:20am On Feb 15, 2012 |
ftmom: Awww shucks!! me too 9lifes: LOL Welcome to Nairaland,I'm yet to see a post on NL that has never been derailed.People here are flexible like that |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 12:51am On Feb 15, 2012 |
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Re: After An Affair by moremi2008(m): 2:53am On Feb 15, 2012 |
9lifes: You're dumber than I thought! Are you even reading your own thread to understand the genesis of the iPad talk? So nah the stupid, irrelevant iPad talk you fit comment on? Misplaced priorities, much?! Now that you have officially pissed me off, I think it's high time you heard the unvarnished truth. You are an unfortunate excuse for a man! While you were slaving away for your post-grad certificate in Gynecological Hygiene, your woman spread her legs open for another man for 5 whole months, she recorded every detail via email exchanges and then sent you the password to her email account so you can read all about it. Even while this woman's congo was being mercilessly shined by her "friend", your poor mother was sending pounded yam to her office, happy that she had found a daughter-in-law for her mugu son! And what did you do, oh great FOOL? First, you jacked-off to every titillating detail in the emails and then came to Nairaland to ponder your love and devotion to a slut that any virile man would have sent packing ages ago! You ARE the definition of mugu and your DNA can be traced back to the very first mumu in the history of humankind! A fcking disgrace to manhood! Now roger this and then come back with another iPad insight! Dundee United to the power of googol! |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 2:58am On Feb 15, 2012 |
moremi2008: Oro nla! |
Re: After An Affair by cfours: 3:20am On Feb 15, 2012 |
go and kneel down for corner and thank God you are not married to her. you mentioned u brag and boast about her more than three times already. is she a trophy? if the purpose of being with her is to have something to brag about to your friends then I don't know. . .I'm just wondering what you mean when you say you brag and boast about her because you keep repeating it.
this, to me, is ultimately where the problem started. how often did you visit each other during that 2yr period? how old are you and how old is she? |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 7:17am On Feb 15, 2012 |
Watever hapend 2 2nd chance? 2 fgv is divine |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 10:35am On Feb 15, 2012 |
ROTFLMAO . . . . Ahh, I love NL jare! |
Re: After An Affair by debosky(m): 11:17am On Feb 15, 2012 |
Pure comedy. As for why girls 'double date', for some it's greed, but for many it's the fear of being left hanging with no man. Many guys have suddenly dumped girls and left them starting from square one so to mitigate unforeseen losses, they also have 'back up plans' in play as well. For me this thread has outlived usefulness - the decision is yours to take. Either start afresh on a clean slate or end things. |
Re: After An Affair by yme1(f): 11:35am On Feb 15, 2012 |
chidyhels:In this case that is not necessary The trust in that relationship is lost already, to avoid further love suffering by both parties they should move on because sooner or later that relationship is going to crash |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 2:02pm On Feb 15, 2012 |
chidyhels: pls dont get confused, it is divine to PUNISH people at fault. . . . . . . . .if forgiveness was "divine" then there wouldnt be laws about stoning people TO DEATH, duh!!! |
Re: After An Affair by 9lifes(m): 9:55pm On Feb 22, 2012 |
Thanks guys. I think this issued is settled.There are so many details i cannot not post here,i just can't.I have decided to move on with my life.i have called her to discuss my stance,she is not taking it too well.I am afraid i cannot proceed with the relationship,i don't see us happy in the future,i cant get pass the flashbacks,questions and more questions. She has been a wonderful friend,but the damage is just too much to bear.I am taking a break. Thanks again. |
Re: After An Affair by moremi2008(m): 10:19pm On Feb 22, 2012 |
9lifes: Congratulations! Don't fall for her "not taking it too well" acting. She should have remembered that when she cheated on you and sent you the password to all the evidence. Please make that break permanent stop talking to her immediately! Your own wife, one that will love and cherish you unconditionally, stoopid as you are , will come. Just give it time and prayers. May God give you the grace and strength to emerge from this storm stronger and better than ever. Good luck! |
Re: After An Affair by Youngpo413: 10:22pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
taryour:only a fool will forgive a cheating girlfriend |
Re: After An Affair by taryour(f): 11:20pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Youngpo413: are you just waking up to see this thread after 3 years my God you must be really deep in your slumber. 1 Like |
Re: After An Affair by Youngpo413: 11:36pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
taryour:so what difference does it make,I stick to my words,only a fool will take back a cheating girlfriend |
Re: After An Affair by taryour(f): 11:46pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Youngpo413: I wonder why you are this bitter. guess you have been cheated on. eiya pele shogbo. you opinion, your life. not mine. ....... 1 Like |
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