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Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 7:00am On Feb 14, 2012 |
davidylan: David, I was in naija sometime ago and i am telling you that the first time my hands ever held an iPad was when I visited, to me it was useless cos it didn't have a USB storage or a place to play my DVD's. Could I afford it? Yes maybe with a days work I can, But did I want it at first? Nope cos thought it was a waste of money. Even the first GPs i ever got, i waited until it was on correct low price special before i bought it .These people in Nigeria are rocking the thing like no man's business and this is real deal not some cheap aba made rubbish. So if a student can afford it, then a man shouldn't make a big deal out of it if he buys it for a woman. I mean, I am just saying. Would I buy a Mac computer when I can get a low priced toshiba that works very well?Nope. Can I afford a Mac? Well yea, maybe if I steal from someone's account I don't believe in wasting money on gadgets, but emmmmmmmm shoes and bags are not gadgets are there |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 7:03am On Feb 14, 2012 |
jennykadry: my sister, that thing cost well well oh. if i were to buy it for a woman she better be my wife! $800 for a few romps in the hay? lai lai! I feel moremi's pain. I dont know how the naija guys do it but i would rather put that money in stocks than buy an ipad . . . oh well that depends on what ipad3 looks like. |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 7:10am On Feb 14, 2012 |
^^so you cannot buy a gf an iPad? Then there is no hope for a car then Like RR evogue. See them, ijebu people's blood still flows through some of yous veins, where is saga mite, dayo, debosky e.t.c. I don't waste money oooo,recently my man was talking about getting a blu ray DVD player in our room and I was like for what? What is wrong with the one we are using now? I am not blind and can still see so ki lo de But ermmmm if he wants to buy me my first gucci bag, I won't say no Just one is all I am asking for |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 7:17am On Feb 14, 2012 |
jennykadry: for where? na me born am? |
Re: After An Affair by dayokanu(m): 7:23am On Feb 14, 2012 |
$830? Thats like times 100 of my moms dowry $830 when I still dey struggle to pay rent How many month rents be that one? Abeg me I no dey make mouth, I no fit afford $830 hi-pard oooo jennykadry: Why would I connect them, when I can connect my third leg to their kini |
Re: After An Affair by moremi2008(m): 7:30am On Feb 14, 2012 |
Aunty Jenny, you need to go back and re-read my post. Although I think an iPad is relatively expensive (from a value stand-point), I never said an ipad was expensive in my post. Nah simple reading comprehension, haba! chika98: Yes, it hurt like hell but nothing dulls pain like a rebound partner. We men know how to ignore unwanted emotions and thankfully, my family members knew better than to keep bringing her up. |
Re: After An Affair by Metalgoong(m): 8:42am On Feb 14, 2012 |
@OP Welcome to the playaz world. . . . Please go get as many girl friends as possible, bleep them all, and then choose the best wifey material amongst them. My guy no dulling!! |
Re: After An Affair by 9lifes(m): 9:16am On Feb 14, 2012 |
Metalgoong: Most of the guys here are on the same page.Men i fear the devil in me ooh, I am not sure i want to take that path. moremi2008: I hope no be me u dey call mugu? because if na me,u are describing the wrong person.We are both independent people.She hardly ask for anything and that's one aspect of her life i love.I don't spend any how cos i got a lot on my table,so its either you deal with it or u bounce.This is my first serious relationship,and i had a lot of expectations.well shit happens, Right now,i am channeling all my energy into my postgrad, no time,when my head is cool i'll face the matter squarely. From what i have seen in most relationship around,the cheating,games,double dating e.t.c .,they are just chain reactions of what lack of trust can do, or something like that.People just want food wey don done,no body wants to build,and when someone is trying to be good,people just take them for granted. We are all angels until we are caught, na the pattern. |
Re: After An Affair by moremi2008(m): 10:43am On Feb 14, 2012 |
9lifes: Sorry, but I don't buy your philosophical nonsense. You love her because she doesn't ask you for anything considering the significant strains on your finances? That's a poor excuse for loving a woman and if this is the reason why you're staying in the relationship, then you're in for a long and bumpy ride. I just re-read your posts about how you found out she cheated and all I can do is shake my head in disgust. Bros, this woman isn't your future wife. She doesn't love you but can't let you go because you're her most serious prospect. Instead of walking away honorably, she decided to cheat on you and leave the ball in your court. That's EXACTLY why she gave you her password without getting rid of all the damaging evidence. How else can a woman communicate to you that she doesn't want to be with you anymore without actually dumping you? It's like she wanted to torture you, get you really angry and force you to break-up with her! She made you read through ALL her email exchanges with this guy for chrissakes! It wasn't even a one-night stand but a full-blown love affair that lasted months! Were both of you still talking and telling each other "i love you" while the affair was going on? And you're still whining about staying with her? Where is your pride, for God's sake?! If this isn't mugu, I honestly don't know what is. I suspect that the real problem here is that you're the sort of laid-back guy that values stability and avoids embarrassment. Once you find a "good-enough" or "stable" thing, you want to stick with it by force. You have gotten used to this woman, your family loves her, she was your girl while you were away for post-grad and you can't imagine starting all over and potentially becoming the butt of your friends' jokes. Unfortunately, even the best laid plans often go awry. The sooner you accept this, the better. This woman has absolutely no regard for you or for your family. If she did, she would never have started a love affair with another man while still eating your mother's food and telling you lies on the phone. Bros, you're going to have to man-up big-time. I know it's painful and heartbreaking but things will get better if only you give it time. You will meet somebody else that will love, cherish and value you. Like they say, it's better to have a bad relationship than to have a bad marriage. With this woman, you will always be afraid that she'll leave you for another man and there's is no point continuing the relationship. |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 10:48am On Feb 14, 2012 |
jennykadry: ROTFLMAO Abeg I no send bad belle people jare . . . moremi2008: Me, upset ke? Abeg o, why should I be? I just wonder why you are acting like a child. Dey there dey call me aunty, you fit don reach to born me sef! First of all you claimed you bought a 'red ipad' . . . someone called you out on that and then you claimed it was the pack that was red! As if the girl cannot change her ipad pack. Please spare us the 'real story', we all know it's a big lie. Grow up please! |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 10:57am On Feb 14, 2012 |
Ujujoan:Lol, Dont I just love Nairaland |
Re: After An Affair by moremi2008(m): 10:58am On Feb 14, 2012 |
Ujujoan: Grandmother Uju, abeg believe what you want! I don't give two fcks! For all we know, you might be a muscular hairy man in real life forming brand-new mum on the internet! Baby ko, bread ni! |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 11:07am On Feb 14, 2012 |
moremi2008: Yes oh oga moremi, I'm a muscular hairy man . . . and you bought your gf a 'red ipad'! ROTFLMAO |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 11:11am On Feb 14, 2012 |
davidylan: Chei . . . Anwu kwa'm oh! Davidi so you are this stingy eh? Thank God say I no know men like una . . . You and this moremi clown! |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 11:11am On Feb 14, 2012 |
Ujujoan:una no go kill me here |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 11:22am On Feb 14, 2012 |
moremi2008: Gosh, you are so on point I can hardly stand it! I should have just bolded the whole dam.n thing! |
Re: After An Affair by moremi2008(m): 11:31am On Feb 14, 2012 |
Ujujoan: People like you annoy the heck out me! Why on earth would I lie about giving someone an iPad! Even market women in Naija have iPads for goodness sake! Abeg, comot jor and go breastfeed your imaginary baby. |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 11:38am On Feb 14, 2012 |
moremi2008:Abeg which market you dey go? |
Re: After An Affair by oluite(f): 11:53am On Feb 14, 2012 |
9lifes: She broke up with the guy only because she thought you were coming back. She wanted you to cheat so that you can be on the same page or maybe guilty conscience. She[b] graciously[/b] allows you to see all evidence of her cheating. And people here says she is remorseful. 9lifes:Really?So you think she doesnt ask someone else.Morever there are many independent women. so what are you saying?Its alright to cheat? @ OP It is solely your decision but i think you need to walk away. |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 11:57am On Feb 14, 2012 |
debrief08: Ahan nau, why you dey ask that kain question? Na the kain market wey dem dey sell red ipad. It's located inside his father's compound in Ikoyo. Even akamu sellers there have pink, blue and purple ipads! ROTFLMA! |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 12:01pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
Ujujoan:Uju God go bless you for adding so much flavor to my already wonderful day. |
Re: After An Affair by blank(f): 12:22pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
I need 3 ipads stat, preferably red. Which market woman can I ask 2 get me one? I need market woman price o not Shoprite price. |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 12:25pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
Blank go to iyana Iba, agboju, oto, or mile 12 market you will even find green iPad |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 12:32pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
blank:Me i need yellow and purple jennykadry:Jenny thanks but which Market can i get it in Abuja? |
Re: After An Affair by blank(f): 12:37pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
I don't trust these your market women. I will wait for the authentic source but I need it stat. (Sad face). |
Re: After An Affair by oluite(f): 12:42pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
^ chei, ROTLMAO |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 2:09pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
Debrief, go to any cat fish market, I bet you, you will find what you are looking for. @uju Stay diaaa, I say people work now is to come here and beg for life partners, it's a Pity the good ones are taken, the ones left are just stingy men(dayo, dafidi, saga, e.t.c). So those single late 20's frustrated girls looking for husbands on NLD should Better look elsewhere cos very soon their shop will close automatically, it's called ticking clock See dayo and dafidi acting like supermen. How much is iPad sef that all of you are here making noise? Even small SUri cruise has got one and you people are here talking.These people are the first to complain If a woman refuses to open legs for them, why would she ? You guys are not even offering to pay for the l'oreal lotion she uses to moisturizer that area and you want her to open it for you? Unserious species |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 2:22pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
jennykadry:Make I rush go before stock finish. I will get a blue one for hubby dearest and yellow for me, Purple for pickin. E didnt easy |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 2:36pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
This blank is very ungrateful, I spent my time researching markets where you can buy your green and blue iPad, typed and posted it here and all you can say is you don't trust my market research? Shame on you, I got me a green iPad in one of those markets |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 3:25pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
jennykadry: my sister na the economy oh. things don cost. Ipad ke? Abeg make everybodi bear im papa name. |
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 5:35pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
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Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 5:49pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
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