I met this chick last year around this time. I went after her but she was blowing hot and cold. I took my leave. Actually she told of that she have a bf. I told her that i don't mind .we dated small but i couldn't hit home base . The bf found out and she ask me not to call her again so i chill out. About a month later i had accident and needed help to do somethings since i live alone and she helped out. We went out small ,yet again we felled out because she wanted a mugu from the things she was demanding from me. I refused to comply and told her plainly that my gf's are not my responsibility. And she ran. Lap week i ran into her many times and talked . On sunday she saw me in the evening as i was flexing and we started gisting. She took my number or do i say verified that she still have my number and say that even her picture and number is still stored in my phone. Today she flashed me and when i called her and asked what ? She was like so i don't call my ex. I told her that i don't regard her as my ex . She asked if it is i didn't sleep with her and that she will be my val tomorow and she knew that i don't have girl presently and since her ,have not bothered any girl . Since after the call ,i don't know what she want.

i dont think he is scared; rather, he doesn't want to be taken for a ride again  . OP i think she has broken up with her bf and she is presently on the reverse gear     if you still want her, then collide with her 

Hmmmm Na wa ooo

~Killz~:

You know what she wants, but you are scared that after giving it to her tomorrow, she'll hang on. You dont want her to hang on, and that's getting you scared.

i am not sure what she wants . Whether sex or some tlc or just she doesn't want to be alone on that day. Am not sacred of ,if she will hang on but on my terms . Am sacred of if  she will ran again .

De~Blunt:

i dont think he is scared; rather, he doesn't want to be taken for a ride again  . OP i think she has broken up with her bf and she is presently on the reverse gear     if you still want her, then collide with her 

you may be correct as she didn't mention of her bf. I remember before i decided to forget about her last  year around october , she was asking to wait so that she will finish with her bf but i got offended and you are also correct in that i don't want to realise in 18 months time that i have wasted my emotions,time and resources. I abhor waste.

She will break your heart. Be careful!!!

~Killz~:

Bro, you know what she wants. She wants the sex, the tlc(whatever that means), the companionship and everything you have to offer tomorrow. You want it too, and you wanna give it to her, but you are scared she'll run again. Well, after tomorrow, she'll high tail as usual. DONT fall for it! Dont think of a future with her. . . Dont be a statistic of Val's day shenanigans.

Btw, i've gotten a strong whip for peeps that'll complain from tomorrow!

lol @ whip . Well  let her bring it on ,am willing to burn upwards of 5k with her tomorrow . Let tomorow dawn . Been tied down with work since last year. I think i have earned the right to some merriment.

Dnt understnd ur post

Agybabe:

She will break your heart. Be careful!!!

i will be. I like the girl . You know there are times you will meet a person,it will be like this one was meant for me. Could have easily fallen in love with her then,infact was half way there then.but i still like her though .she left an impact even then. . .

Haven't had the time or too busy or refused to play on their terms. You won't believe the things the girls requests for. Sorry there will be no heart break ,i will not spend what i will miss.

Play along with her but be careful.

I understand what the op is going through
Op sef na my brother from the same town (Ikom town).
Bros just know that many ladies out there are devilish and unavoidably wicked. BE CAREFUL!!!

Agybabe:

I understand what the op is going through
Op sef na my brother from the same town (Ikom town).
Bros just know that many ladies out there are devilish and unavoidably wicked. BE CAREFUL!!!

i will take her to ebusan around 8 ,eat ,drink ,club till mama calls. If she wants to fu3k, no problem . But issues will come up latter. She called this afternoon telling me that she is free.

Na near my aunty house you wan go do am. Enjoy jare!!!