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Re: You Must Get Pregnant Before We Can Wed! by ne4real(f): 6:51pm On Nov 06, 2007 |
it is left 4 both partieds to decide on wat they want for themselves |
Re: You Must Get Pregnant Before We Can Wed! by Rhea(f): 10:18am On Nov 07, 2007 |
Most couples consent to that; knowlingly or unknowlingly. How else can you explain child delivery six months after wedding? Let's be realistic. Some couples resort to that as a means of consolidating the marriage or arm-twisting domineering parents. Some women however resort to that in getting the man to 'hurry up and settle down'. While it goes against the 'no-sex-before-marriage-thingy', how many virgin brides, and grooms do we have these days? |
Re: You Must Get Pregnant Before We Can Wed! by 1regina10(f): 3:13am On Nov 08, 2007 |
I am a woman and really, I'd be very confused. I mean what is his reasoning |
Re: You Must Get Pregnant Before We Can Wed! by mystikalb2(m): 7:50pm On Dec 06, 2007 |
@SHOWBOBO ur really said it all, come all this yoruba's boys and girls way ful here, u wan tell me say u don 4get ur traditions, |
Re: You Must Get Pregnant Before We Can Wed! by nikynike(f): 1:56pm On Dec 10, 2007 |
High rise in childlessness-High rise in divorce. If pregnanting is the best for the man let him go ahead. |
Re: You Must Get Pregnant Before We Can Wed! by luluosas(m): 12:58pm On Dec 28, 2007 |
He is not a Christian and besides, he does not trust himself of fathering a child after holy wedlock. |
Re: You Must Get Pregnant Before We Can Wed! by odiaseo(m): 8:21pm On Dec 28, 2007 |
We do not know the full details and circumstances surrounding the guys desire for the bride to get pregnant. The fact that he demanded that, doesn't automatically make him a non christian. He may not have matured to take a stand against tradition which makes the word of God of no effect. Is the girl in question a christian? If she is, she should consel him based on the bible. A medical examination should be able to clear any doubts about fertility. |
Re: You Must Get Pregnant Before We Can Wed! by ThoniaSlim(f): 8:51am On Dec 30, 2007 |
That can't be an option, instead i wouldn't get married to such a man, cus its obvious he has security and trust issues i would not want to deal with. |
Re: You Must Get Pregnant Before We Can Wed! by Winnergal(f): 3:41pm On Jan 04, 2008 |
what if you get pregnant for him and he dumps you even before he marries you? |
Re: You Must Get Pregnant Before We Can Wed! by stag: 3:31pm On Jan 07, 2008 |
sharp man |
Re: You Must Get Pregnant Before We Can Wed! by JustGood(m): 5:26pm On Jul 22, 2009 |
Matter of choice |
Re: You Must Get Pregnant Before We Can Wed! by samparian(m): 3:41am On Jul 23, 2009 |
@poster but you'll have sex before marriage? Dont tell me you're a virgin. since you've agreed to marry the guy, whats wrong with that? you've both been sleeping together for the fun of it, so what difference does it make. its just a matter of no longer using condom or contraceptives. As long as the guy has paid your bride price, carry goooo |
Re: You Must Get Pregnant Before We Can Wed! by deeteeneey(f): 11:35am On Jul 23, 2009 |
, sorry u're not ready to marry moi. |
Re: You Must Get Pregnant Before We Can Wed! by Nobody: 10:01pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
thank God its condition.at least condition by force n really it won't make sense 4 me especially when its a gal dat has neva had sex all her life n some insecure dude is already giving her a condition of pregnancy b4 marriage.some galz fall 4 such cheap blackmail anywayz but me refuse 2 fall.i remember when i convocated.my ex (benin man) told me 2 get pregnant n i told him dat can wait till after marriage.he begged,persuaded n called his mother 2 convince me i still stood my ground.b4 he gave up he asked me 2 name d state i'll have my baby i said i'm not going 2 change my mind,eventually he said if i'm not ready 2 get pregnant b4 marriage then i dont think i can continue making arrangements 4 wedding n i said i'm okay with dat,dat was how we went our seperate ways.i can't be threatened or go against my values 2 please anyone cos all dis nonesense of getting pregnant b4 marriage is just a ploy invented by men 2 some dumb women laid.some guys will take off after d gal claims she's pregnant,4 d gals dat r lucky enough 4 dia pregnancies 2 be accepted after a short while d same men dat said dey want pregnancy b4 marriage will start saying i'm tired of rice i want 2 eat eba n egusi.after marriage infidelity will start n d answer is simple d foundation of their marriage is sex n kids,not God |
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