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To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by pendo89(f): 12:27pm On Mar 04, 2012 |
I never knew this girl but something about her death broke my heart. I was sure she was going to make it and I admired her strength and courage. But I guess we cannot fight God's plans. We cannot question Him either. I hate to post this on the suicide thread cz that is not where she is now. I cant find a suitable place either. So here I am. Perx case gave me strength to also keep praying for a friend who is battling brain tumour. Yesterday the doc gave him 4 weeks to live and asked the wife to take him home for the final lap. I read about Perx's lost battle and broke. Last time I read her thread she was shocked by the death of her bedmate. She promised to take more pics and made fun of the 'cage' she was put in to stop her from falling' I could only imagine the pain and the best I could do then was pray. It's okay to accept God's will. I am not sure if my friend will make it, but I am telling myself that perx fought hard and she had friends to urge her on. I guess when everything else fails, friends and comforting words keep one going.I wanna do that to my friend. I have realised how important it is after Perx's death. This song is to all her friends here on nl (ID,Ivy,Freecocoa,Mac etc) and family who are mourning. Take comfort in the knowledge that she held on to God till she breathed her last. You nlanders God bless you for standing with her. A comforting song by Don Moen/If you could see me now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QICc9bCRbTM My prayers have all been answered,I have finally arrived The healing that had been there,has now been realised No one's in a hurry,there's no schedule to keep, We are all enjoying Jesus,Just sitting at his feet, If you could see me now, I am walking streets of gold You could see me now am standing tall and Bold. you could see me now you'd know I 've seen His face You could see me now you'd know the pain is erased. You wouldn't want me to ever leave this place If you could only see me now. My light and temporary trials have worked out for my good To know it brought Him glory when I am misunderstood Though we've had our sorrows they can never compare,' What Jesus has in store for us no language can share You could see me now ,I am walking streets of gold You could see me now I am standing strong and bold, You could see me now you'd know I hv seen His face You could see me now,you'd know the pain is erased, You wouldnt want me to ever live this perfect place. If you could only see me now. If you got a comforting word,poem or song to encourage those who stood with her and family feel free. rip angel. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by Sijo01(f): 1:45pm On Mar 04, 2012 |
She fought n fought, yet she waz defeted by death! Wat a courageious being. No bdy has power over death. She has gone to rest. Rest frm all her pains n tears. May her gentle soul continue to rest in peace. Amen. To all her friends, family n well wishers, i pray God giv us d strenght to bear diz lost. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by freecocoa(f): 1:50pm On Mar 04, 2012 |
Pendo my prayers were not answered o and i know i prayed hard,why did jesus take her even when she didn't want to go na?his taking her only has left us heartbroken,I hate to hear she died for the best,that's not true,it really hurts. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by Idowuogbo(f): 2:28pm On Mar 04, 2012 |
Pendo her last words to me was *Badoskyyyyyyyy pray for me i dey hospital* I did, I swear to you i did, i had tears in my eyes praying. Deres something about her i loved, something about yellow mango!!! Dose that told her to kill herself on d suicidal thread are happy now shey dey sent coma to someone already healing abi Woteva we sow we shall reap. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by pendo89(f): 3:04pm On Mar 04, 2012 |
Sijo01: No dear she was not defeated by death. becz She will resurrect with Christ. Death was defeated when JC resurrected and the good word tells us that those who are in christ do not die but sleep. Perx is sleeping in the lord's bosom. I saw a book by her side written Woman thou art losed and a bible in most of her photos. Her strength was coming from God and God saw it fit to free her from physical pain and give her everlasting peace and rest. I think we that were left behind should weep for ourselves because Perx work is done. She is a true example of a fighter cz that pain was enough to kill a weak person. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by pendo89(f): 3:24pm On Mar 04, 2012 |
freecocoa: My dear take heart.I think your posts are making me shed tears the most.I can literally feel ur pain through the screen. I read ur posts and how you all kept each other going and it is okay to feel the way you are feeling. Death is painful,we all have lost one person I can tell u cocoa I almost went insane after losing my bro.Nothing not even scriptures make sense at that moment. God my dear,does everything with a purpose.That is one statement we hate to hear during such moments.Its easy to get angry at God by the way but always remember Job. Perx's death teaches us that human beings are weak. All our efforts can never surpass God's will. People prayed and contributed but she still died. Not fair, but who are we to question? Who understood perx better than her creator?Who just who knows what communication took place between her and God? I once told somebody that at times God wants to take somebody with Him but we hold them back with prayers like some guy in the bible who was given extra 30 years after much pleadings and prayers.But those extra 30 yrs were the worst of his life. There is there's what we call the Perfect will and the Permissive will of God. I guess God's perfect will was to give Perx rest. His permissive will would have been to prolong her life. But in many cases, He would not have shown himself mighty because it wasnt His perfect plan for her. That is all I can comfort myself with. Cocoa it hurts like crazy but give thanks to God for the time he allowed you to spend with her. Time heals wounds. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by pendo89(f): 3:37pm On Mar 04, 2012 |
Idowuogbo: Now you my dear.I wish I could just hug you. You have cried too much but its gonna be okay. Be strong cz it will be with time Cherish all the memories you had together. Forget the doomsayers.I feel sad she went to that thread but she was low and I understand. Funny enough she was still uplifting herself with songs.I love that. You want to know what you can do to ease the pain and make her live in our hearts forever? Put her songs from nl and poems into a lil book and give it some nice title. It can even be a diary . Let her journey of pain inspire others. There are many in her condition Id and many to come.They need to read what she went through,how she fought. And how she lost the battle. I read a place where she talked about wanting to start a blog and tell her story.Well that is still possible you know,her family can start a foundation in her memory,collect funds for cases similar to hers and keep her blog alive. That way her dream and vision will still impact many. Be strong ,it ill be well. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by pendo89(f): 3:45pm On Mar 04, 2012 |
GOD GIVES AND TAKES. WE SHALL MEET ON THAT BEAUTIFUL SHORE. BYE. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by freecocoa(f): 6:04pm On Mar 04, 2012 |
Pendo oo,oh pendo,I'm yet to come to terms with this please don't blame me, i really don't have the words now cos its paining me beyond my imagination but thanks for your kind words. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by Ivynwa(f): 7:48pm On Mar 04, 2012 |
freecocoa: Heavens should have allowed her to live as she wanted much to live but who are we to question God. She was an active person and didn't like that she was held down by that illness. You can feel it from her words. She wanted to be on the move but was held down. She has an amazing spirit, her songs inspired and ministered to my spirit severally. Only Perx can make a romantic song minister to one's spirit in a different level. I even jocularly told Idowu that Perx should be made a minister in Idowu's joky church. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by Ivynwa(f): 7:52pm On Mar 04, 2012 |
I can't bear to think of her still somewhere and unable to share and write anymore. It makes me crack up in tears again I will get a little sleep now. Hugs to you Baby. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by MarcAnthon(m): 10:02pm On Mar 04, 2012 |
[b]Farewell Beautiful I know I didn't know you Neither did I make any exchanges With you while you were here So why do I feel so sad? Why are we all stricken? Why won't we be comforted? And why has a bright sunny Sunday never seemed so gloomy? It is said that the spirit of one Speaks to another Even when no words have been exchanged Touches another Even when nothing has been felt Rivets another Even when no contact has been made I never quite knew what to make of that Unitil you left PERX That has to be the reason For the pain we feel For the sadness that beclouds our hearts For the gloom that has kept us prisoners These two days You spoke to us so kindly And touched us ever so gently And affected us ever so benignly That we can conclude we did KNOW you Now we can say for sure That you're a brave one In the words that you spoke to us You're a rare one In the way you touched us And you're beautiful In the way you affected us So farewell braveheart The host of heaven's choir In unison, welcomes you Into the bosom of your maker That you should rest henceforth In a place where there's no pain On a seat of unending bliss On a throne of eternal glory And we know That in the kindness of your heart You'll still say a prayer for us That He that keeps Isreal Will watch over us Until our own days be fully numbered Farewell beautiful You're greatly appreciated And will be sorely missed Adieu PERX[/b] [flash=450,420] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dq0llrCYtCQ[/flash] |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by lolaluv1(f): 11:58pm On Mar 04, 2012 |
Rest in the bosom of the Lord. . . . |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by agiboma(f): 5:06am On Mar 05, 2012 |
if she only knew how many lives she has touched, omg perx you are soooo missed baby |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by tessybaby(f): 7:42am On Mar 05, 2012 |
OMG am i getting this right? Perx dead? Rest in the Lord Perx you fought a good battle |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by pendo89(f): 1:29pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
[img]http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSy7GfWVfpKKQklnKcuhPiNrIcI8ZmAiOJUA_ekBXtI6GWqmAaCrg[/img] Goodbye Nairalands' Rose Now you belong to heaven and the stars spell out your name, And it seems to me like you lived your life like a candle in the wind Never fading with the sunset when the pains set in And your footsteps will always fall you along nigeria's greenest hills. Your candle's burnt out before your legend never will. Loveliness we've lost ,these empty days without your smile, This torch we'll always carry for our forum's golden child And even though we try,the truth brings us to tears All our words cannot express the joy your brought through the years. And it seemed to me you lived your life like a candle in the wind. Goodbye Nl's rose may you ever grow in our hearts Goodbye Nl's rose from a forum lost without your soul Who will miss the wings of your life more than you will ever know. You lived your life like a candle in the wind. RIP PERX Rest in peace. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by benvivi: 1:33pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
i am heartbroken i just saw her pics once, i am filled with tears, i remember her post the day one woman died by her side dat she said she was scared, father why pls why |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by deshclones(m): 1:48pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
pendo89: God punish you for calling the Holy name of Jesus Christ (JC), You are stup11d and have no respect wotsever for your creator, anim44l |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by niddamugu(m): 1:51pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
Peeps, was this person the one we raised funds for? Wow! Thanks be to God which gives us victory through our Lord Jesus Christ - 1 Cor 15v57 . Never knew her, never met her, but one thing may be certain - she has gained something better by dying, provided she lived for Christ - Phil. 1v21. May her soul rest in peace - amen |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by Idowuogbo(f): 1:54pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
deshclones:Thunder fire u as well , are u bipolar? F00lish child of a donkey, u see as i dey so my eye don clear ooo. If u no respect ur self u go follow devil dine 2day Oloshi! She's here trying to comfort us d important people , u jump comot from jungle con begin shout like sum1 starving. Answer me,are u mad? Infact 10 finger waka u anofia!!!! |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by deshclones(m): 1:59pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
bastard of a thousand fathers, animal, bring it on, you have the effrontery to defend ur losy friend, by the time am done with you two and any other id1ot that wants to join you guys, you will know its not everybody you insult on a public forum and get away with it, just dare me, am really boiling now, please, open your gutter filled mouth and insult me one more tym, , just do it, lets know the real anofia here |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by Idowuogbo(f): 2:18pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
deshclones:Ewo Thank u perx oo,thank u Nne u knew i needed dis stress ball to cool my spirit. Nne#1 chop peck u are d shitzzz walaiiiiii Now bck to this deranged monkey feeling like IT has a place in earth,come who release ur fada self, dem tell me hin dey epileptic and dem still let am reproduce ni .Otondo i seriously dint wanna take u dia but it b like say ur brain no gree wire correct, oya now skip to my beat u unwanted specimen due to be bisected for forensic evidence.Like seriously y were u screaming @ d innocent gal? all u needed to say was Pendo dats was disrespectful modify it, but NO!!! illiterates like u feel shouting and making a scene is d way forward.Mr stu-pid u berra do something about ur dented medular b4 ur case pass unbearable. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by slimyem: 2:26pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
deshclones:she probably abbreviated Jesus in a rush or in her grief. dont get all riled up over that. at least,respect what this thread is about. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by deshclones(m): 2:48pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
slimyem: let me not derail this thread, have made my point, and as for that idowuogbo, you will look for me and not find me, i will teach you lesson, watch out may the dead R.I.P, in Jesus Name, Amen |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by Idowuogbo(f): 2:54pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
deshclones:Woeva u have in mind to do will not affect me for am guarded with d blood of my creator. I am here grieving and u had d nerve to act a f000l! its not ur fault ooo Watch-out for u ke? dude i don close ur case b dat i dont have time for deluded lots. Now bounce msteeeeeew! |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by freecocoa(f): 2:58pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
deshclones:If I use the tears in my eyes and the pain in my heart curse you eh,you'll wish you were never born. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by Idowuogbo(f): 3:05pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
freecocoa:Nne cry ke? baby me it don do i don drop message for d oda cabarn. U see as i dey so, i don overcome , i don accept and i don understand. Listen my dear friend,d tin get meaning and if na d work of man repercussions dey na. So my asanwa mummy relax , solo for ur badosky , reverse dat cry to smile for me bikonu |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by freecocoa(f): 3:12pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
Idowuogbo:Paddy me i hear you o,I'm getting it together,its just that i haven't said my goodbye and reading all these RIPs brings more tears to my eyes,i think I'll be fine when i tell perx what i want to. I'm glad you are smiling again. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by itiswell1(m): 3:18pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
May the soul of the departed R I P. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by Idowuogbo(f): 3:31pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
freecocoa:Obianuju mummy ayam smiling bcus popsie threatened me ooo,d man said if I continue to cry he will deberately make himself sick and if he pass out make I no near him grave.Oh gal immediately I shout I say daddy ayam laughing,I begin laugh in different accent.Darling i understand u well,na mummy own u dey link to Perx own abi? Cool down now I still dey here we get contract.Oya bombard Bado wiv kiss joor,we strong gals let dem no we no look face at all. |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by dabrake(m): 3:44pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=njBU-QjVGEE RIP PERX. I'm just speechless, breathless and clueless. i will find the right words soon |
Re: To Perx's Friends And Family. Tribute by freecocoa(f): 4:02pm On Mar 05, 2012 |
Idowuogbo:You this gal you don kolo,you laughed in different accents of a truth cos i know wetin you fit do,omo eh mummy own just come join with everything but thanks to you paddy me,you have a way of getting to me,you are a source of strength,i don clean eyes,sempe for you mama,oya see the kissssss bebe take it. |
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