my hubby is expressing love to his 1st love via txts and calls.i got to know about on his phone.i felt bad when i read it on his phone and i think they're abt to renew their luv

so what do you want us to do? should we call him for you or do you want us to tell her to back off SMH

My advice, let him know that you know what's up and ask him plainly if he wants her or you.  You cannot compromise. Then call the said ex and let her know what her actions are causing issues and let her know ur hubby is not for her. If she no tree, then do what I did. Tell everyone she knows she is a slut. Hack into her fb,  post on her wall she is a slut. Print fliers and share it in her office and just generally make her life hell. She will back off, I can assure you.

You should confront him about that

It never ceases to amaze me, the pattern of thinking as described by Daresh.
lacks long-term credibility !!! !!!!


There is always a presumption that the other woman seduced the man.
Heard of a man thinking with his d, ick.
I have always said to female friends, identify and address the issues behind ur man's errant ways.


Chasing some chick(s) across town will only bring health issues to the wife.
How many women are you intending to scare off, both on-line and offline??
What happens if you were to meet a lady who can equally be as bad or worse in your bully tactics??

My advice will be to identify the issues behind his impending return to his 1st love,
( did u snatch him from this 1st love initially and this is payback time ?)

Deal with your husband, he is the one responsible to you, not her.


Seen so many women chasing off husband's several girlfriends or mistresses, without manning the homefront,
only to find an unassuming lady somewhereelse looking after a football team of illegitimate children sired by hubby.


What next

Send a WMD?

^^ nice one
only wish women ll jst love dere kids n 4get dey v hubbys
men cld b smtyms so annoyin n provokin yh, bt we gotta control ourselves n dont let dem get 2 us one bit

I am so sorry, I have a contrary view.  Are you sure your attitude at home is not driving him out?  Try to be more caring and make the home conducive for him.  If you try anything with those ladies outside, you may be the one that will lose.

Omega25red if u dont have anything to say just shut up.The poster came here because she is confused and needs advice/suggestions on how to go about her problem.it was not compulsory for u to make a comment.so instead of you being insensitive and sarcastic you could have left the thread when u saw the post

D moment u start surfing ur spouses fone, d soonest u die.
Respect is reciprocal, dont get worried abt wat ur spouse does wit d opposite sex, but rather, pray 4 ur spouse n jokingly course all intruders.

Posta,its hurtn yeah buh ask ursef if d gal is aware of hubby's marital status,some men dnt own up 2 been maried.talkn wit d girl is going 2 worsen evrytn.u have ish wit ur hubby.have u tried talkin wit his mum.

omega25red:

so what do you want us to do? should we call him for you or do you want us to tell her to back off SMH

Abi. . .she no give us chop. .make she sort herself out.

Do the same with me, when he also reads your text messages, he would get jelox and wanna av u back, By den i 4 don shank u sha

u too,do same

amber222:
my hubby is expressing love to his 1st love via txts and calls.i got to know about on his phone.i felt bad when i read it on his phone and i think they're abt to renew their luv

How did you resolve it? Or are you divorced?
Cc
Lefulefu
Mrcork
Ishilove

NgcoboP:

How did you resolve it? Or are you divorced?
Cc

Are you in same shoe?

Dyt:


Are you in same shoe?

Do you have any advice

NgcoboP:

Do you have any advice

Narrate your story

amber222:
my hubby is expressing love to his 1st love via txts and calls.i got to know about on his phone.i felt bad when i read it on his phone and i think they're abt to renew their luv

1st love to me never truly does off, this I know cos im in the same dilemma I can't forget this girl like she my best friend ever n I love her, my gf has been vexing with me over me talking to the girl.

To be sincere I think u r in for something big

the play 'our husband has gone mad' comes to mind

chiraqDemon:

1st love to me never truly does off, this I know cos im in the same dilemma I can't forget this girl like she my best friend ever n I love her, my gf has been vexing with me over me talking to the girl.

To be sincere I think u r in for something big

Really?

He's tayad of u....

redbeans:
the play 'our husband has gone mad' comes to mind

Our Husband Has Gone Mad Again by Olá Rótìmí, you mean?

echobee:
u too,do same

And you are for signs and wonders?

crismark:
He's tayad of u....

Wrong assertion

Allow him to marry her. it's good, every body to his/her space. polygamy is not a sin

NgcoboP:

How did you resolve it? Or are you divorced?
Cc
L.efulefu
Mrco.rk
Ishi.love

since 2012
iyam sure op go don divorce her husband tey tey so any advice now is fruitless

lefulefu:

since 2012
iyam sure op go don divorce her husband tey tey so any advice now is fruitless

Who knows... She's ishilove's close pal or her alternate Monika

NgcoboP:

Who knows... She's ishilove's close pal or her alternate Monika

alternate moniker?
na trouble u dey look for so

lefulefu:

alternate moniker?
na trouble u dey look for so

I am in my house!

NgcoboP:

I am in my house!

Ishilove come an beat him

NgcoboP:

Who knows... She's ishilove's close pal or her alternate Monika

.

lefulefu:

Ishilove come an beat him

I no wan kee person pikin