Why do girls always prefer guys that are strict and very harsh on them to those who treat them with so much tenderness?? is it their nature or are they always so blind to see it.

Protection , or because it sounds so cool to be with d baddest guy in d street uhhh spooky

Well,

You cannot be softer than the girl you are dating.

Ladies are like a horse, they need a little push here and there, and even when they fail to admit it, they enjoy a certain thrill when you ride them a bit. _{ONLY THAT YOU HAVE TO GET INTERESTING ABOUT IT.}

If not, if you allow them dominate you and ride you instead, then you are no different from the average girl.

It communicates that you are not in control. _{That you are not a man.}

You need some certain psychology to handle a girl man.

Otherwise, wait till you grow up and can handle it. _{THAT'S WHAT THE SO-CALLED BAD GUYS HAVE THAT MANY 'WUSS' DON'T.}

Why do girls always prefer guys that are strict and very harsh on them to those who treat them with so much tenderness?? is it their nature or are they always so blind to see it.

Girls and guys were never made to think and act alike. Tenderness is a girly quality, no girl wants to date a guy that will remind her of herself. Women are right brained and guys are left brained. Gilrs want their men to be in control, not domineering or forceful.

We want a guy who knows how to be a guy but is also sensitive at the same time.
we want a guy who knows and loves God but is not too churchy.
Girls want a romantic not a sex maniac
I could go on and on and never finish but the truth is the strict guy will not start crying in public or start any form of dramatic display (that is our turf and we don't like to share it with guys), someone has to take the lead.

@topic,
I don't like bad guys. . . i like real man, i mean a complete man. . . not a woman is a man's body

Opposite Attracts Kapish!

The decent guys are the lonely ones

jkpretty:

Opposite Attracts Kapish!

plain and simple! i mean what would u do with 2 left legs?

husu:

The decent guys are the lonely ones

that's an absurd generalization. there are universal laws of attraction but there are also exceptions.

abeg, make una no kill me with big gramma o. I do appreciate ur comments though but one more thing, Why are the good girls always taken?

lick_69:

abeg, make una no kill me with big gramma o. I do appreciate your comments though but one more thing, Why are the good girls always taken?

look at ya name sef. . . how r u going to get a good girl with such a name it's a scarecrow u kno

it's not my fault that my name sounds so scary. The truth is that i'm very adventurous, as in i love to explore, If you know what i mean. Don't get me wrong o, I am not that bad but i am definitely not a saint either, I am Mr spontaneous but i've been out of the whole relationship/dating thing for a while, would it be so bad giving it a shot once more? Hola back y'all

very nice topic i must say.

the main reason being that so-called "bad-boys" do not behave like WUSSIES which is common with "good boys".

Being a Wussy means being too soft, wanting to do anything just to please a lady, even if it means going out of your

way. LADIES DETEST SUCH. Bad boys always keep the power.

Ladies are like little children, they do things to see your reaction, if you're soft, they ride ride on u. Be Tough (not wicked

though), and they play by your rules.

Bros abeg which wetin be the name of that school again? I mean the school where person fit learn how to be a bad guy??