Hi ladies, pls what do you consider romantic most??
your responce will be highly appreciated

[b]Romance has to do with love. Its all about ones feelings for another, how it is shown or expressed.
If he is in love with you he ought to be romantic i.e gentle, exotic,passionate,simple, imaginative way of loving you. Ways of expression could be by a massage, lovely poetry, text messages,phone calls( Mtn midnite calls ), love making, kissing,smoochings, general care. It is expressed even in his attitude towards you. For instance when you annoy him, he would get angry definately but how he expresses the anger tells alot about how he feels for you. Note: A guy who opens doors for you is not romantic its just courtesy (good manners) so there is a big difference.

I took time to explain the above cuz am tired of Naija guys who keep saying they cannot be romantic. "its not our culture" etc yeye! whose culture is it It all depends on yor feelings, if you are not romantic, it goes to show you do not really love me. That is my new submission on this issue now. No more excuses i have had enuff.

I would consider a full body massage romantic anytime (loving it!)
Phone calls and text messages (juicy calls and messages o!, dnt call me up and ask about the weather!!)
Surprise visits
Surprise gifts from him and cards (no matter how cheap)
attention (God bless a man that gives his woman undivided attention always)
public show of affection (e.g say you go clubbing together he should be all over you, even if you cannot dance, not staring at babes doing the vulgar dance)
A man who helps with the household chores is definately romantic (romance is not all about smooching my body)
A man who waits for you to come first during sex is a plus!!!
A man who takes his time to know and understand you, your moods, your attitude,your goals,ambition in life, your dreams, your joy,your sorrow, your sentiments, even your body is definately romantic!!!!!
A loyal and faithful guy is a big Romantic!
Most of all a friend, a true friend you can go to when in need, when you are sad, to cheer you up, when you are happy to rejoice with you and many more.

I hear someone say A LONG WISH!!!!! i hear you my sister, if only they come like this rite!

@ poster thats my list for you. Hope you make sense out of my madness.[/b]

this romance issue has been overflogged in recent times,  however i always wonder why it is always directed at guys,  can't women be romantic i believe it is a mutual thing,  the way they act will stimulate the romantic nature of a guy,  blah! blah!! blah!!!, we could go on and on, but if we must be romantic, our ladies must put up acts (naturally though) as seen in TNT movies,  don't get me wrong,  i aint saying we arent romantic, but the ladies shldnt just sit back and expect it all from us,  what can they do to help us be more romantic

@bebe2007
Thanks so much
i really appreciate this God bless

adekennis:

@bebe2007
Thanks so much
i really appreciate this God bless

adekennis, i can see i wasnt appreciated at all, speechless

I think dancing can be romantic especially if both of you can dance.

A girl who'd look you in the eyes when talking to you

Attention to detail helps a lot because we men don't like to hit the nail on the head   For instance, if i enjoy a meal and want to show it without swelling her head, i'd prefer to ask my girl if she cooked it or bought it from the African restaurant    and when she asks "why? do u like it?" I'd probably say "its Ok"

When she dresses specially for you! I'm not talking of all those traditional clothes made for man and woman with the same material oh! I'm refering to special ocassions, evening dresses and bring out exceptional beauty, and makes you proud to be the man.

If she watches me eat. . . I could feel a bit embarrassed but none the less, it is very romantic.

I think a girl who'd do certain things when u least expect, like an unexpected hug or kiss. . .  Thats romantic!

adekennis:

Hi ladies, please what do you consider romantic most??
your responce will be highly appreciated

thank you my bro,

romance can be anything that can be classified as romantic even sleeping can be romantic.

the koko na say make two of us dey romantic.

if my guy is romantic, i must liven it up with mmy stlye and vice verca 
u know wot i mean [quote][/quote]