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Brand new Mountain bikes now available for sale in Lagos.

Price: 190k


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did you say #190k or #19k

RavagedHeart:
I had to create a new account for this thread. Please try to read everything, so you would know what to say

It's been more than a year now, but I still hurt badly. I entered a relationship with this girl when I was in my 200L and she was still a jambite. She was beautiful, but it didn't show because she was suffering at that time. I was equally a handsome campus guy. Everything was fine between us and the journey was so sweet. In her, I found all the important things I needed in a relationship, and the love blossomed. Though she's got her bad sides, which is pride and stubbornness. I overlooked this believing love conquers all. At some point, I began to give her a third of my upkeep every month.
Fast forward to early last year, she was already in her final year. One thing led to another and we had to cohabit, and this required me to move to the state she schools. I quit my job in my state and focused on getting something better in the Internet space, and it worked for me. The whole arrangement felt like it was made in heaven. We lived happily like in the movies and more money was starting to flow in.
All this while, everything I earned was channeled to seeing her through the university, as she's got almost no financial support from her home. I'll say I was her provider 85% of the time all through her school days.
When I got the big job online that paid roughly $1,500 per month, money became surplus. I began to polish and furnish her with everything she needs to look good. She responded well to the spending and within months she dressed and looked like the daughter of a politician. During all this time, I never thought to invest or even polish myself to look better. I was only focused on her happiness.
Before we began to cohabit, I had some girls I do with, because of the distance between my state of residence and her school. Besides, she is not the type that fancies sex. Because she knows she's not giving me enough shots (like once in 4months), she doesn't make serious quarrel when she finds out I am doing other girls.
Within a few weeks of staying together, she asked me to stop sleeping around, that she's not comfortable with that anymore. She said I should leave all my girls that she would give me anything I want from a girl. I was convinced and that was what I even wanted all along. Cheating has never been my ideal. So, I left all my girls and clung to her. We both agreed to marry and everything was good, at least for a while.
After two months of this faithful arrangement, and about 3months into my dream job. Something happened.
Out of curiosity, she went searching through my phone and reading all my chats with other girls. She did this for weeks especially when I'm asleep after some shots.
What she found in her search made her believe I was still dating one of the girls.
One morning, she broke up with me saying that I still cheat on her. She broke up a 5years relationship. I tried to explain and make her understand her assumptions are wrong. I even called the accused girl in her presence with the phone on speaker and asked her to tell my girlfriend my position in her life. The accused girl confirm it to her that we are now just casual friends and nothing more than that. But my girlfriend didn't believe that. She changed overnight. She began to disrespect me she stopped doing anything with me and even left the house and stayed where I believe is her girlfriend's place (though not sure). I took her as my everything and when she left, my whole life crumbled before my eyes. I turned from a vibrant intelligent and happy lad, into a depressed, unproductive, and confused person.
The emotional blast caused me to lose concentration and I began to make mistakes with my job. I woke up one morning to see a sack email sitting in my inbox. This was the second blast and at that moment I wished I could die. Everything that made me happy was no more with me, and I cried most of the time.
When she comes home to take clean clothes and drop dirty ones, she'll just walk in and out of the rain like I wasn't there. Even when it's written all over me that I was dying for the heartbreak, she seemed very happy unconcerned seeing me in that state.
This went on for like 5months. During this time. She still comes home only to eat the food I cooked and to change her clothes, after that she's gone again. At some point I noticed a little remorse in her as she began to come home more frequently, but her pride won't allow her talk to me, not to talk of apologise.
One day I thought I should apologize for doing nothing. I called her to come home. She came home that evening and I asked her to forgive anything I did to annoy her and come back to me. She reluctantly accepted with the clause of no more sex and no extreme romance. I objected to this because I can't stay without doing something once in a while. She said that I'm not yet serious, packed some clothes and left the house. She never talked to me except she needs money which I still gave, thinking it would bring her back. But I thought wrong.
This was how it went on till I went bankrupt and completely broken.
I continued trying to get her back as that seemed to be the only thing that can restore life to the creature I have become. But the more I tried, the more I was burnt.
Because she's now polished and looking the path, she began rolling with very rich men as some used to drop her off with exotic cars when she comes to pick clean clothes. When I try asking she'd tell me he's just asked her out but nothing is happening.
After one year of suffering from heartbreak induced depression. I decided to help my self. I began to pick up girls again, I tried having a lot of sex, but it only helped for a moment. No matter how good my new girls are, and how well they do the do. No one seemed to fill that hole in me. I still hurt and I'm still depressed.

Fast forward to this day. She's gone, my money and dream job also gone. But the hurt and emotional damage remain. I had to go back to my family house as my finance doesn't permit me paying rent, and my new business is not receiving the best of efforts.

Now the problem is. How do I move on? How do I get to heal? How do I find the vibrant and happy me that once was? How do I erase her memory so I can find love again? How do I become a man again because time is no longer surplus like that for me?
It's been more than a year but I still feel betrayed and broken, as if it all happened yesterday.


Mods please. Let this get the maximum exposure

what job exactly
was it that you were doing again

davedy:
Good evening Nairalanders

I'm sorry for bringing up to this platform but is of necessity for me to bring it . I've been hearing it from people but I don't know how they do feel about it. I've heard stories about how a lady cheating on her guy and a man cheating, but all these stories I do see them as fantasy or something that is not real. I've heard about a lady killing herself because of her boyfriend and I've heard about a boy taking sniper because of a lady.
Recently, I was in love with a lady in my office and this lady she is 35 years of age, I am 37 years of age and I asked out, we started dating after a period of time, she told me about herself, after all in the place of her work, she has dated about three different persons that she had sex with them. People in the office do gossip about her because of how waryward life. They do call her prositute. With all that, I still love her. Before I came on board, she told me about her neighbour and all what they've done like touching and kissing was the highest they have done and I said ok. We started dating and working towards marriage. At a time, we got intimate. I never knew that she was still seen her neighbor. She do go to his room to charge her phone. I never knew that they were having sex and she was having sex with me. she always claim that I'm the only person she is having sex with but I have this kind of feeling that she is cheating on me. I do always argue and challenged her faithfulness and at the end , she will put her.a defensive mode accusing me that I didn't trust her. Some days ago, when i challenged her with evidence if cheating. she confessed to me about how she and her neighbour been having sex and I was heartbroken, that night, I slept in a house I couldn't get it, I never knew that I love her so much, that was a period I knew that I was deeply in love with her. I feel like dying, I feel like everything is over. I love her so much, I want to marry her. Few days ago, I travelled to meet with my parents and discussed my marriage issues with then. I told my girl about it but she didn't blive. With all these, she didn't feel remorseful. I wish I had never met her. I am in pain.. What should I do? I am a confused man now.


Please Seun move to front-page. I will appreciate it. Thanks.

what job exactly where you doing?

[quote author=pappysk post=93012803][/quote]oya talk price

waleco2008:
Ac Alloy Fabric 3 seater Automatic drive Power window Price 750
08022219777

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Tremple8v:
No no sir

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handzomee:
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Contacts:08141662666,08028297594

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Mikel4xrist:
Problem
True love is hard to find. Many people have lived and died on this platform without finding it. Some family lineages have never had it before, and there descendants might live and die without finding it.

Love is a privilege. I tell people that it's not for everyone. It's for those who are privileged to get access to it. Getting access to it means knowing what it is, where it is and how to get it.

Todays world is full of fake people. Most of them want love but they can't give it. They don't know what love is, they don't know how to love, they don't believe they are worthy of love and they're so miserable that they'd hurt others who want to offer it to them.

These people are in abundance in today's world, and unless you're smart, you'd be caught up in their web.

Solution

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I'd do this for absolutely free. If I ever charge you a dime, call me out on this platform as a scammer.

I'd do the following for you

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2. I'd connect you to potential lovers. Youd be matched weekly to random people so you'd see which of them fits you best

3. I'd be your counsellor for these relationships. Id be your crying shoulder, your friend when things go wrong and your guardian in cases of sorrow

4. I'd support your wedding if it works out fine. YES, YOU HEARD THAT RIGHT. If you pass through my romance course and get married, I'd sponsor your wedding. (There's a limit of people I can support their wedding monthly though.)

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I will advice you drop the link

Godoverevery:
please I need an advice.
I have 4million and treasury bill is really worst right now and fix deposit which I do before
so please which other bank investment can I put money into that is profitable ..... thanks

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gen2lpat:
I AM IN NEED OF A TOYOTA COMMUTER BUS. DIRECT BELGIUM.

LET ME KNOW IF YOU HAVE ANY. WHATSAPP ME ON

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this number ain't on WhatsApp

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ThirdWorldThug:
Odozi Obodo, the nation's foremost home and city improvement company is looking for two skilled individuals to fill the positions of Hardwood Floor Installers on a full-time basis.

Hardwood Floor Installers place solid wood floor coverings in both residential and commercial buildings.
An ideal candidate should be able to work with measuring materials and carpentry tools, and should be able to prepare floors for solid wood flooring, removing imperfections, and consulting with clients.
Hardwood flooring Installers should demonstrate physical fitness, stamina, the ability to work in a leaning position, and attention to details.
To fill the two vacant Hardwood Flooring Installer positions at Odozi Obodo, candidates should also be able to:
*Prepare an estimate for the work, taking into account the material and labor costs.
*Organize the area to be floored by cleaning it of any dust, fixing the cracks with putty, padding the concrete subfloor with builder's felt, and leveling the ground prior to flooring.
*Plan and execute work with the proper tools and materials to maximize efficiency.
*Provide accurate measurements and estimates for all projects.
*Accurately lay hard wood flooring.

Salary is far above minimum wage.

Applications should be emailed to olaohaezeja@gmail.com, and should contain CV and a letter detailing the candidate's trainings and experiences, and every other proof that shows they are the best fit for the job.

you should have dropped location

SlahJoe:
Visit the Treasury bill, Mutual fund and NSE forums under Investment section of Nairaland for quality and sound advice, good luck to you.

At the present moment mutual funds Treasury bulks are no go area, contact a financial broker for details

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Emma you have tried. drop the link with parenthesis while we copy it

feeddhung:
Work From Home Job Opportunity -- ONLINE CUSTOMER SUPPORT STAFF

PLEASE READ CAREFULLY!!

If you are:
-internet savvy (strong skills in internet browsing, word processing, graphics)
-Excellent Communication
-have a functional internet-ready laptop
-a good power supply that allows you to work 8-10 hours a day without any interruption

then this could be a good opportunity for you. Kindly send your resume to feeddhung@gmail.com

To be considered for this role, you MUST answer the below questions in your email:
• State your expected monthly Income for the position
• Do you have your internet-ready laptop that meets requirement stated above? If yes, provide the specification/ model of your laptop.
• Do you have a power backup/generator that will allow you to work 10 hours a day without power interruption?

sure, do how do I contact you

theo07:
Automatic transmission Keyless entry Leather seat Reverse camera Thumb start Navigation 4x4 Fog light Alloy wheel Factory ac cd player Airbags complete First body new tires Low miles
For more information
Contact: Olaolu 08069034877 / 07010762472 Whatsapp:07010762472 / 08069034877

what is the asking price

Seikiri1:
Bro if you have the link just drop it,. Who is interested will contact and connect no need for many talk.

I teya ooh, tell him to group link and see sumtin

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Too bad
Rest in peace



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