fresh_dude: With due respect I disagree, and IMVHO the above is wicked and evil and at best grossly misleading. This lady's misdeeds are now being watered down to a trivial misdemeanour(wickedness and talking of iregbe). This lady (Ogbeche hear me well well) SCHEDULED an appointment with another man(and by man I mean a male with a functioning d...ick and a gameplan on how to use it on easter monday) and then LIED(the purpose of which was to eliminate any and all obstacles to said schedule) and you are here(in full glare of the whole country, nay world) telling this scorned brother that it was 'harmless flirtatious fun?' I cannot believe it/you ma. For all intents and purposes this girl has been straffed by this dude(though not physically), if ever Jesus' thought-sin rule of adultery applied to humans this is a perfect example.

Adaeze003: Read your story sha. What you did was kinda right (a lil childish in my opinion). Lets reason together, she thought you were cheating on her so there is a possibility that she decided to flirt 'online' out of anger. So unless you have proof that it extended to the real world, you should reconsider i mean 3 years is too much to give up for online flirting if you truly loved her. Don't get me wrong o I'm not in any way supporting what she did.

obasijoy: I have been following this thread, my advice to the POSTER is that, first you are having double mind about her now because all your mind is now on that your old school mate you met online. Do you truly. Know her? Do you know if she will be worst than your x? For her to tell her people to beg you means to loves you so much. Any girl that doesn't love a guy will feel to big to beg the guy, she will always say after all there are many fishes in the ocean. Secondly, she is a human being and you don't have to treat her so bad if you actually love her, nobody knows tomorrow, for the fact you are giving her help today in return of the sex and relationship should not make you to treat her like trash, this is a small world. I will advice you to pick her calls, tell her you wanna see her, both of you should talk one on one, I promise you. She has learnt her lessons, at least she didn't sleep with them even if at that, still forgive remember the story of mary mandalen , pls nobody is perfect even that your old classmate that has occupied your heart you think she is a saint. Pls don't do something you will do today and regret it tomorrow. And start saying had I know!!!! Thanks

obasijoy: I have been following this thread, my advice to the POSTER is that, first you are having double mind about her now because all your mind is now on that your old school mate you met online. Do you truly. Know her? Do you know if she will be worst than your x? For her to tell her people to beg you means to loves you so much. Any girl that doesn't love a guy will feel to big to beg the guy, she will always say after all there are many fishes in the ocean. Secondly, she is a human being and you don't have to treat her so bad if you actually love her, nobody knows tomorrow, for the fact you are giving her help today in return of the sex and relationship should not make you to treat her like trash, this is a small world. I will advice you to pick her calls, tell her you wanna see her, both of you should talk one on one, I promise you. She has learnt her lessons, at least she didn't sleep with them even if at that, still forgive remember the story of mary mandalen , pls nobody is perfect even that your old classmate that has occupied your heart you think she is a saint. Pls don't do something you will do today and regret it tomorrow. And start saying had I know!!!! Thanks

This is the height of discombobulation. . . Did you actually type this?

Kingsleyinfo: bros na which kind advice u dey find again?
now let me share this with you. Am not trying to say that my girl is good o, but here it goes.
I and my girl were having some issues that we couldn't really resolve. The issue was so bad that we were both toying with the idea of seeing other people.( but I didn't know how bad it was untill that day.)
Then one weekend my girl calls that she is coming over, I said ok. In the night things got heated, but I just couldn't do anything, . My gal noticed and started asking me what was wrong. After a while she started by accusing me of seeing other gals, I just sat there staring at her, then she said something that suprised me. And I quote "my dear I am sorry I accused u of seeing other people, but due to the problems we have been having I started getting close to a guy at my work place and I feel really guilty cos I was giving him more consideration than was neccessary. I have let the issue btw us to blindfold me, but I came this weekend so we could have time to trash things out." yours truely also had to confess his own plans.....
Now I had no idea that I had pushed her that far with my stubbornness, that was how we resolved the issue.
Sorry for my long story, but a gal that is really repentant for any deed done, would not defend her actions.
So bro trust me no woman cheats by accident. Its a carefully thought out process.
So please runaway now, this your own does not deserve a second chance. I know you might be tempted to take her back, but u do so at ür own peril. Even my own that confessed to me I still sleep with one eye closed talkless of her that was caught.
but at the end of the day its ür call.

joe4christ:

A defination of an average nigerian lady's mentality.
So shallow for my liking!

Aluta continua!!

ogbeche77:
This is exactly what I don't wanna fall into... Now she's playing d last card she has.. Saying now we re even.... Digging into my past after years dat we ve sorted issues out & she claim she has forgiven
Like a poster said some one who is remorseful ll not defend his/her deeds

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