Nice thread. I must confess, I think this is meant for me. We kinda have the same issue. My gurlfriend of 5years is exactly like the dude mentioned above; extremly beautiful and nice. That is it. We just don't flow. I have had sex without other gurls more than I do with her (sex with her is like wanking). And I am planning on ending this charade of a relationship before I end up like this Lady.
What ya think?

Teach him on hw 2 romance hes ur husband

Kai i hope you have not identified romantic guys around your area or office?.This could be dangerous.That means romance outside and sex inside.Can you manage?

Honestly dont blame your hubby..That is the way he knew how to do the thing...@Op, do you know that this issue can destroy your home? if care is not well taking? Dont tell him in a harsh way, tell him when you are in the mood that he should romance you before he dips that thing there. secondly, be mindful of which kinds of advice you will take from pple, take the good ones and leave others. DONT GO OUT BECAUSE YOUR HUSBAND CANNOT ROMANCE YOU. THAT IS A BIG SIN PLEASE,DNT BE TEMPTED MY DEAR. you can make your man the way that suit you best with patience and endurance. Ire oooo.

Must he be romantic?9ja women sef

Ur husband do not just need education alone but deliverance cos it not ordinary

I think she needs some romantic advice not blame pls, even i wit right kind of woman I go on a good 5-6 rnds a day in romantic styles...! So any one wit good experience let share it so that we can learn 4rm each other...

I dnt knw y a resposible person wil post a trash like this,first!did he marry u 4m d hotel?because dis ur post shows dat every thing between ur leg(pussy) is already warnout if u can open ur leg 4 him after birth wthout feeling of pains.secondyly! Did u knw that ur husband was able to go 7/8 round because he was nt romancing u' now let me advice u. If tell him to be romancing u then u shd be ready 4 just 2/round of sex,bt if u r contended with that 7/8 round then do nt force him 2 do otherwise because i believe ur husband understand where he married u 4rm and he knws u r robot in dat erea that is y is given u d needed dose.

Being a mother, i don't think it's posible to have sex immediately afetr giving birth.

9lifes:

May be the guy get money..lol..Just saying.

That's the only possible explanation.

ode remo: that is hard on you mehn, no love, affection and what not only sex,your hubby need education. sit him down and find way to talk to him on your feelings. 7/8 rounds a day, what is he ? a robot. marriage is more than sex.

Well said!

Aah!! 7-8 times a day?does he actualy goes 2 wrk...he's such a sex machine,i wonda hw beautiful u might be....al u hav 2 do is let him knw ur feelins..nd watch dese romantic films lyk..merlin,seeker nd beast masta 2 learn hw 2 kiss.

@op; buy your husband energy 2000 or burantashi. Your next thread will be a testimony of how hard he bleeped u last night. Thank me later

ronkebp: tOO BAD!!!!!! A man that cannot kiss??!!!!! oh no!!!!! can't survive there, he can't roborebe?? am sure not even ***snail** haba, so what is sexy about him then?

you bad!!!..

Na dis kind thread guys adrenalin dey pop up!..lol...d poster don spark una..

I nor just understand o, u mean he just raise ur skirt/ remove wrapper/nighty/ remove panties and straight to the scalistos?

Poster...you married a sex addict!..

Never tell him he is not romantic. Your marriage may fail that same moment. Instead, tell him subtly that you like to play before sex. Delay it a bit and show him how by actually doing it. Okay, you can turn off the lights also. Now to another point, do you both have jobs? If yo both have jobs, that should keep you away from each other for at least 8 hours a day. During that time, send him romantic sms and demand a reply. Over time he should learn. I assume he has a job, if you don't, get one!

he nids treatment for sex addiction!haba d day you gave birth?both of u r crazy.if u like allow am carry hin mojo take kill u,na ur pickin go suffer. I gave birth 3 months ago,n till nw i no let my husband near me!my newborn needs me,any mojo can go to hell for all i care.shebi e don do d work wey i send am make e do?abi? Mshwwwwwwww. Some women sef too like prick,na food?

@OP I hate to say this but you seem to be lacing in that field as too.
You didn't mention how long u've been married but making babies is a no brainer. If he has no respect for the women
who just gave birth to his kid before asking for a pice of a$$, he could care less about how you feel when you tell him how you feel.

Somethin is wrong with this picture. You have let it go way to long.

Good luck to showing an "old dog new tricks" NO POINT INTENDED

Ability12: Aah!! 7-8 times a day?does he actualy goes 2 wrk...he's such a sex machine,i wonda hw beautiful u might be....al u hav 2 do is let him knw ur feelins..nd watch dese romantic films lyk..merlin,seeker nd beast masta 2 learn hw 2 kiss.

Merlin,Seeker and Beast master as romantic films?
Lawd have mercy!

Zilja: @OP I hate to say this but you seem to be lacing in that field as too.
You didn't mention how long u've been married but making babies is a no brainer. If he has no respect for the women
who just gave birth to his kid before asking for a pice of a$$, he could care less about how you feel when you tell him how you feel.

Somethin is wrong with this picture. You have let it go way to long.

Good luck to showing an "old dog new tricks" NO POINT INTENDED

slimyem:

Hehe I chuckled too. I think she meant "no pun intended" but I still don't see the pun.

IYA NGBALI: abeg ask the btch for us.

@OP ȋ̝̊̅† Is Ω̴̩̩☹† gud for him †̥ sleep wit you after birth!for D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ sake of Ūя̲̅ health

if u dnt knw wat to do then kindly go nd romance a monkey nd come back to ur husband fr d sex.. simple logic

The day you gave birth indeed!

9lifes:

May be the guy get money..lol..Just saying.

you meant maybe he HAD money, and doesnt any longer, right? because if that was the reason she was with him, and he still had money, then she wouldnt complain, lol!

Ouch!! 7/8 rounds of hot sex daily? I would like to see ur pix b4 and after wedding. Na food?

What do women want? ...... i wonder why women just rush into saying "I DO" without considering the necessary things required.....you knew this before you married him so why complain now cos bending him to your taste now will be extremely difficult....i suggest you be the director in your next love scene, lead on what to do cos just confronting him might let hell loose( you know men n their ego)

ifemiduro: The father of my child he is the shy type I do practically do everything for him, he doesn't know how to kiss, no smooching and every other thing. All he knows how to do is sex all day long even the day I gave birth to my baby . Back from hospital and he is on me and at times he will go 7 to 8 times but he is boring to be with but he is handsome and sexy

you self to like f**ck, both of you are thesame.

SAFO:

Hehe I chuckled too. I think she meant "no pun intended" but I still don't see the pun.

Having sex with you 7/8 times in a day and even having sex with you the day you got discharged from the hospital after giving birth and not romantic goes to show that something is wrong. Maybe he is using your destiny. I knew of a woman who ran way from her husband when she noticed that her husband only makes love to her when she is menstruating. The guy suddenly became rich, built a company and opened a pure water factory, employed workers and opened a shop for the wife. The wife was always growing lean and falling sick The mother went to church and was told that she needed to call her daughter back and that the source of her son in-law's wealth is bad. When the daughter came back, she disclosed how her husband was ONLY interested making love to her when she is menstruating.She took her children and left. Within few months, all the business the guy opened collapsed with the cars having all sorts of problems and grounded. What is left with the guy now is only the house he built. So watch out. Your husband, is he dog that he runs you 7/8 times everyday and even when you just gave birth Maybe he is even sleeping with you when you are menstruating. Be careful.