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Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by chucky234(m): 11:32am On Apr 19, 2012 |
I often wonder if love worth all the pain,sacrifices and trust,you maybe wondering why I asked but read the below experience from a friend and you will understand “PING!!! where are you? you know its my wedding tomorrow right?” I didn’t reply the message, I knew what she was going to say and I must say the phobia I have for the BBM and that screen muncher thing is hilarious. I don’t disclose even my whereabouts in a chat with friends. Munching chats. they will soon start recording phone calls and feelings… Anyway, I called her and she starts to tell me again about how she’s getting married because the guy did this, the guy did that but she doesn’t love him and he doesn’t satisfy her blah blah… I said OK no problem but you’re getting married to this same guy's flaws and all so he must definitely have some good attributes. she said yes. he’s rich. I laughed my ass off literally cause I toppled over the chair I was sitting in. I consoled her or something. I don’t know, but I said some sooothing words to her and wished her the best then rung off. This girl and I had been in a back and forth relationship for over four years. We were the definition of “its complicated” I know she loved me, but her greed got in the way and she became the chairlady of aristo association of Africa. She will go to Dubai, Malaysia, London etc. and bring me back stuff from her “cousin” “uncle” :family friend”… We broke up constantly because of the many falsehoods and dirty behaviour, but there was always something bringing us back together.. Then at 25 she noticed all of her friends were getting married and it became apparent that I wasn’t planning on settling down any time soon so she got herself a boyfriend and was getting married now. After we got off the phone she sent me another BBM… ”I couldn’t say this over the phone. Femi I need to see you desperately” Well, I called again and asked where she was. She said she was staying at a hotel with her bridesmaids and co. I booked a room in the same hotel and needless to say, I was with the bride to be all night long. I was there when her groom called and professed love, gushing about how happy and lucky he was. I cant even word what I was doing to her when she said he loved him too. Lol! End times people, I tell you!!! I left early morning and went back home to get ready for the wedding. I’d been invited of course and party rice has always appealed to me. So I called up a few of my guys and we all went together. Looking at how serious and solemn she seemed as she took her vows, as she said “I DO” I shook my head in wonderment. Is this how life really is? mehn, home-boy no go marry again O. I cant imagine standing in front of a babe and promising my whole life not knowing she had just given somebody else a few hours before. Marriage just scares me now. Trust is a thing of the past. Love is proper bullshit and commitment is a one off. I know if I eventually fall in love enough to want to marry some girl, I”ll treat her in such a way that I’d want to be treated. Give her all I want to receive,and pray she feels the same way I do too. At the reception, the new wife came to me and said for all to hear “so good to see you again, thanks for coming” In my ear she whispered, “l’ll see you after the honeymoon for a real honeymoon” then she squeezed my arm and walked away to go kiss her husband, still smiling. Oh Lawwwd! The end times are here people. The devil is taking Over and started with the women |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by slimyem: 11:49am On Apr 19, 2012 |
....so wetin you want make we con talk now? U no know say e don tey wey nyash don dey for back ni? |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by chucky234(m): 12:06pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
slimyem: ....so wetin you want make we con talk now?Why is it that a woman cannot take a decision and abide by it in every aspect,I think any man who make up his/her mind marry should be sincere with the man or woman he/she is getting married to. To decide to marry one and spend romantic time with another on your wedding eve is despicable. It happens daily but how do we stop this trend,its common among women. |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by Hotsnow1989(m): 12:07pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
Yap!!!it tru d end of d world is near,,,,,,,,,,since u knw she is getin married u shud let go of her.....instead of takin advantage of d situation...........bt u cant judge all kadies by a bitch act,i knw a decent girl is out their somewhere |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by Killz3(m): 12:16pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
chucky234: I often wonder if love worth all the pain,sacrifices and trust,you maybe wondering why I asked but read the below experience from a friend and you will understandI can't believe i actually read this bullshit in expectation of something meaningful . . . |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by slimyem: 12:34pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
chucky234:shut tha fcck up! Which trend is common among women? Who are the women sleeping with? Cats? Do men not do the same things u accuse women of ? My friend,find somewhere go sleep jejely.u need rest! Nonsense! |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by Nobody: 12:54pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
@OP. Ladies and money are inseperable. It seems like you bleeped her overnight at the hotel before the wedding. Kai, u sef na sege daboroba! Eating what is not yours? If you see and you know all the things women do before they get married, you just feel sorry for the husband to be. The other day i chatting with my friends and i was advocating that i would never marry a dis-virgined girl. They laughed at me because they knew i was requesting for what is 90% impossible. Yes, i know. But how do you want someone of my status to marry another man's chewing stick? M'banu. It's suicidal. You get it right? How many d1cks have been down there? Those are part of the reasons are aint in a relationship. And i don't think how would be in one soonest. When you can get the milk at affordable price, why bother about the cow? |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by joanana(f): 1:01pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
chucky234: I often wonder if love worth all the pain,sacrifices and trust,you maybe wondering why I asked but read the below experience from a friend and you will understand I thank God that there is Karma..... it will bite u back in ass n ur situation will be worse than the groom as for the stupid bride... i pray u change ur ways!!! |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by slimyem: 1:14pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
bennyraz: @OP. Ladies and money are inseperable. It seems like you bleeped her overnight at the hotel before the wedding. Kai, u sef na sege daboroba! Eating what is not yours? If you see and you know all the things women do before they get married, you just feel sorry for the husband to be. The other day i chatting with my friends and i was advocating that i would never marry a dis-virgined girl. They laughed at me because they knew i was requesting for what is 90% impossible. Yes, i know. But how do you want someone of my status to marry another man's chewing stick? M'banu. It's suicidal. You get it right? How many d1cks have been down there? Those are part of the reasons are aint in a relationship. And i don't think how would be in one soonest. When you can get the milk at affordable price, why bother about the cow?typical! You want to marry a virgin eh? Are you one yourself? How many girls have you slept with? How many times did you sleep with them? Hypocrite! You will NEVER find a virgin to marry..NEVER! I swear by my keypad! |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by Nobody: 6:11pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
slimyem: typical!me i swear by my mouse. i'm a proud virgin |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by chucky234(m): 6:17pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
slimyem: shut tha fcck up!I am sure you are guilty of this sin,I can sense that in the tone of words. Hmmm |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by chucky234(m): 6:20pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
bennyraz: @OP. Ladies and money are inseperable. It seems like you bleeped her overnight at the hotel before the wedding. Kai, u sef na sege daboroba! Eating what is not yours? If you see and you know all the things women do before they get married, you just feel sorry for the husband to be. The other day i chatting with my friends and i was advocating that i would never marry a dis-virgined girl. They laughed at me because they knew i was requesting for what is 90% impossible. Yes, i know. But how do you want someone of my status to marry another man's chewing stick? M'banu. It's suicidal. You get it right? How many d1cks have been down there? Those are part of the reasons are aint in a relationship. And i don't think how would be in one soonest. When you can get the milk at affordable price, why bother about the cow?You are on point bro,the love of money begin with women. |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by chucky234(m): 6:21pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
bennyraz: me i swear by my mouse. i'm a proud virginNever hard to spot a virgin,I think you are truly one. lolz |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by Rocktation(f): 6:24pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
Mumu. |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by Chimezie198(m): 6:34pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
** Rolls wheelbarrow across d thread** |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by chucky234(m): 10:26pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
Rocktation: Mumu. |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by cowgurl: 10:32pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
U'v js ruined a nice topic, ow sad! |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by Rocktation(f): 10:45pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
chucky234: Hehehehehehehe. Wasn't even referring to you. Bwahahahahahahahahahahaha. |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by Nobody: 10:51pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
Poster you are a fu.ckin.g hypocrite its different if she slept with someone else but you slept with someone's wife to be and now questioning the act you committed, anyway three of you guys are foolish(third being the groom) for being a sucker, have a good life whatever is left of it. |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by chucky234(m): 12:49pm On Apr 20, 2012 |
pc guru: Poster you are a fu.ckin.g hypocrite its different if she slept with someone else but you slept with someone's wife to be and now questioning the act you committed, anyway three of you guys are foolish(third being the groom) for being a sucker, have a good life whatever is left of it.Well the story says a friend's experience and didn't say it happened to me,always read before commenting |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by chucky234(m): 12:53pm On Apr 20, 2012 |
Rocktation:Got it,keep it coming |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by Riodiao(m): 3:48pm On Apr 20, 2012 |
bennyraz: @OP. Ladies and money are inseperable. It seems like you bleeped her overnight at the hotel before the wedding. Kai, u sef na sege daboroba! Eating what is not yours? If you see and you know all the things women do before they get married, you just feel sorry for the husband to be. The other day i chatting with my friends and i was advocating that i would never marry a dis-virgined girl. They laughed at me because they knew i was requesting for what is 90% impossible. Yes, i know. But how do you want someone of my status to marry another man's chewing stick? M'banu. It's suicidal. You get it right? How many d1cks have been down there? Those are part of the reasons are aint in a relationship. And i don't think how would be in one soonest. When you can get the milk at affordable price, why bother about the cow?my brother,u get sense die. E be like u b my twin bros. Nigerian gurls r ruBbish.Simple as dat |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by Nobody: 10:33am On Apr 21, 2012 |
But it baffles me, why is the lady the culprit here, and not you who are treading on untouchable ground? |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by Nobody: 10:43am On Apr 21, 2012 |
bennyraz: @OP. Ladies and money are inseperable. It seems like you bleeped her overnight at the hotel before the wedding. Kai, u sef na sege daboroba! Eating what is not yours? If you see and you know all the things women do before they get married, you just feel sorry for the husband to be. The other day i chatting with my friends and i was advocating that i would never marry a dis-virgined girl. They laughed at me because they knew i was requesting for what is 90% impossible. Yes, i know. But how do you want someone of my status to marry another man's chewing stick? M'banu. It's suicidal. You get it right? How many d1cks have been down there? Those are part of the reasons are aint in a relationship. And i don't think how would be in one soonest. When you can get the milk at affordable price, why bother about the cow?This is crass, idiotic thinking! I can't imagine. You want an angel for a wife? Why not die first!? Seriously, the common opinion among Nigerian guys that their wives must be someone descended from the heavens, a virgin, pure, with no children from another man, and ever willing to please their sexual fantasies is just plain dumb and wrong! When I think of the many better enlightened people in Europe, Asia and the Americas who marry plain women, single mothers, divorcees, (name it!), I just realize how "different" we really are as Nigerians! |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by Nobody: 3:25pm On Apr 21, 2012 |
sauer:honestly am laughing. What is good for you aint gud for me. Ok. I don't copy the western world traditiom when it comes to dating ok. I maybe selfish, irrational but hey sauer, thats what i want. You either deal or don't. If you or any other guy in the world wants to marry a single mother, divorcee, albino e.t.c thats your business not mine ok. Its your life not mine. Its your choice not mine. Mind you, i live my life the way it pleases me. I would never ever go down on my choices by God grace. Amin |
Re: Is Love Worth All The Pain And Trust by chucky234(m): 5:41pm On Apr 21, 2012 |
sauer:European,Asia and American are whiteman's land where culture hold no value,in Africa things are done differently and women are required to maintain that cultural value at all time. |
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