mamaput:

so from this one man you judge all nigerian men.
are you sure that the lady was not the bossy kind that would not even have allowed the man to carry her bags for her.
are you sure he even wanted to go shopping for her.

MP007:

what a man can do,, i woman can do better,

JustGood:

If you don't like the man, leave him. Na by force?
Why bashing Nigerian men everywhere? If you don't like the ways of Nigerian men, please go and find men from wherever you like and you can come back to tell us how much they respected you and your relationship.

My point is, there are different personalities to people and no single person or group of people is 100% perfect. While you are seeking out the negatives in Naija men, start looking for the positives in other men. Please go and be with those others.

Looka here, what i posted has nothin' to do with me. Go back and read correctly but when d time comes for my marriage, u can bet it's goin' to be a naija dude.don't let that be your personal problem now. Besides, i never said they were disrespectful just not sensitive. c'mon. english is really not that difficult.

londoner:

Justgood, I agree with you. Chiogo, there are many men from other nationalities who don't do that. South Africa, Ghana, Cameroun, Ivory coast, Ethiopia etc. There are plenty more fish in the sea.

Exactly, u're right about that but unfortunately, i am not from any of those countries and d people am talkin' about here are not from those countries u mentioned either. I would have said "African men" but this has to do specifically with a Nigerian dude.

mamaput:

so from this one man you judge all nigerian men.
are you sure that the lady was not the bossy kind that would not even have allowed the man to carry her bags for her.
are you sure he even wanted to go shopping for her.

davidylan:

You'd think men from other nationalities were made of divine gold.

Nobody said that. I prefer naija dudes to other dudes from any other country or even continent. This just has to do with bein' sensitive or not. simple question. why do people make life so difficult, huh??

Ralvy:

If I decide to say something here, It'll just end up wyv beef. .

@poster; whats wit d question?

what u mean?? i can't ask a question?? just answer, jare.

hbrednic:

yeah some women works more than their men,
but you shouldn't have generalised.
simply put (your friend is married to a lazy nigerian) thats more understandable.

@chiogo
marry a naija man and you will live happly ever after

don't worry, i'll do just thAt.

mamaput:

No
in the good old days when we used to go shopping for cloths with our dad. we would never have allowed him to carry those cloths even if he had begged on his knees.
for the simply reason.
we did not feel that bthey were importat enough to my dad to take good care of them.
he may have lost a bag or let one get stolen etc etc,
am some how sure that woman would never have allowed her husband to carry those bags she would have felt the same.

true for my father but my husband?? he gotta carry it. am sorry.

true for my father but my husband?? he gotta carry it. am sorry.

hbrednic:

in any average naija famly
who works all day?                           the husband
who takes the kids to school?          the driver
who makes the food ?                        the cook  (ikaete)
who  takes care of kids?                       the maide
who  pays all the bills?                        the husband
who gossips all day on the phone and put on the latest wears   the wife
now tell me who is the lazy one?