i am really confuse

if u have idea, pls teach

am ready 2 learn and know.

thanks.

one love.

Happy people get married---when they are prepared to do so psychologically.

Sad people get married----when they are not prepared to do so psychologically.

Marriage makes some happy--when they are already happy people before they get married and they get married for the right reasons

Marriage makes some people sad--when they are already sad people before they got married and they get married for the wrong reasons.

For some--it is a combination of all of the above depending on where you are at any given point in your life.

Definitely not for everybody.

@ almond joy:
well said.
kpom.

@ almondjoy. thanks

but someone told me that

marriage is about walking in the spirit.

walking in the spirit?hmm, well, dont know about dat but i think it works both ways, dear.

SOJ:

walking in the spirit?hmm, well, don't know about that but i think it works both ways, dear.

WHAT BOTH WAYS?

@Ufo,

are you married or intends to marry? What does walking in the spirit has to do with marriage?

fatty27:

@Ufo,

are you married or intends to marry? What does walking in the spirit has to do with marriage?

a counsellor said so.

No!

am still single but soon shall be double.

i really have 2 know now.

You would soon be double? That is great to know. I hope the lucky guy is a nairalander. Right?

That counselor must have a reason to say that. Did he explained?

fatty27:

You would soon be double? That is great to know. I hope the lucky guy is a nairalander. Right?

That counselor must have a reason to say that. Did he explained?

yes! he is a nairalander.

well, i don't know 4 her. she did not xplain.

jonah swallow fish or fish swallow jonah no different since swallow dey. both ways happy pple marry and pple are happy when married

samix:

jonah swallow fish or fish swallow jonah no different since swallow dey. both ways happy people marry and people are happy when married

thanks.

trust you

ufobabe to

come up with a confusing thread,

so my best shot here goes ,

marriage doesnt necessarily make people happy

and happy people dont necessarily get married

there have being cases of people in wrong marriages where depression sets in,

and also cases (ideal) where the bar of happiness is raised

and some people are happy for the singular fact that they are not married

believe me serial monogamist exists!!

almondjoy:

Happy people get married---when they are prepared to do so psychologically.

Sad people get married----when they are not prepared to do so psychologically.

Marriage makes some happy--when they are already happy people before they get married and they get married for the right reasons

Marriage makes some people sad--when they are already sad people before they got married and they get married for the wrong reasons.

For some--it is a combination of all of the above depending on where you are at any given point in your life.

Definitely not for everybody.

i agree with that, i totally do.

almondjoy:

Happy people get married---when they are prepared to do so psychologically.

Sad people get married----when they are not prepared to do so psychologically.

Marriage makes some happy--when they are already happy people before they get married and they get married for the right reasons

Marriage makes some people sad--when they are already sad people before they got married and they get married for the wrong reasons.

For some--it is a combination of all of the above depending on where you are at any given point in your life.

Definitely not for everybody.

*claps* soo very true

@Ibkaye
How would you know? You look like a juvenile ! Shouldn't you be studying for school ?

ufobabe,dont mind the last poster am sure he got married at age 40. Am sticking with ariblaze the guy has said it all.

marriage! marriage!! marriage!!!
@ufo
hu could this lucky nairalander guy be?
the guy don win jackpot ooohhh

just wandering why overdue singles are not really hapi.
does it mean that marriage gives some form of hapiness?

also someone once told me that married men are happier
than single guys.does it also apply to women. hw tru is this?

does marriage make pple happy?
are you referring to the PROCESS or the PRODUCT of marriage?

for me i believ your hapiness is your sole decision.either single or
married,make up your mind to be hapi AND YOU SHALL BE HAPI
shi ke na !

@topic
i guess it goes both wayz.

rosquare:

marriage! marriage!! marriage!!!
@ufo
hu could this lucky nairalander guy be?
the guy don win jackpot ooohhh

just wandering why overdue singles are not really hapi.
does it mean that marriage gives some form of hapiness?

also someone once told me that married men are happier
than single guys.does it also apply to women. hw tru is this?

does marriage make people happy?
are you referring to the PROCESS or the PRODUCT of marriage?

for me i believ your hapiness is your sole decision.either single or
married,make up your mind to be hapi AND YOU SHALL BE HAPI
shi ke na !

na watin come be ur own naaa?

ok! the guy na ROSQUARE.

ariblaze:

trust you

ufobabe to

come up with a confusing thread,

so my best shot here goes ,

marriage doesnt necessarily make people happy

and happy people don't necessarily get married

there have being cases of people in wrong marriages where depression sets in,

and also cases (ideal) where the bar of happiness is raised

and some people are happy for the singular fact that they are not married

believe me serial monogamist exists!!

i believe u.

@ ufobabe
i am honoured.
i think say ONE DAY I GO MAKE AM
i thot i was waitin in vain, but now
it looks like i've made it, look how
far we don go.
i'v updated my profile.

Rosquare weds ufobabe!

Happy married life. So you guys had been flirting behind the land? No wonder, happy people must get married. I am sure your respective partners are reading this.

@Almondjoy
ure brilliant and i should have noticed someone like you

@Topic
when i get married, ill be happy cos i would have married someone that will add to the happiness.

fatty27:

Rosquare weds ufobabe!

Happy married life. So you guys had been flirting behind the land? No wonder, happy people must get married. I am sure your respective partners are reading this.

NO BI LIKE THAT OHHHHHH.

rosquare:

@ ufobabe
i am honoured.
i think say ONE DAY I GO MAKE AM
i thot i was waitin in vain, but now
it looks like i've made it, look how
far we don go.
i'v updated my profile.

abeg ohhhhhhhhhh.

no make people begin eye me one kind ohhh.

chei!!!!
@ ufobabe
y u won break my hart 5mins after saying yes to me?

@tkb417
dont mind her.she is internet shy.
lets toast to my new bride

i may kissss the bride

sori tkb417,
actualy meant fatty27.
guess i'm just xcited about kissing the bride

rosquare:

sori tkb417,
actualy meant fatty27.
guess i'm just xcited about kissing the bride

don't worry!

u shall kiss enough

rosquare:

chei!!!!
@ ufobabe
y u won break my hart 5mins after saying yes to me?

don't mind her.she is internet shy.
lets toast to my new bride

i may kissss the bride

yes!

my lord.

i have seen a married couple not happy. they wish it was just a boyfriend and girlfriend.



i have seen a single brother and sister, they wish it was marriage.

pls i still want 2 learn and know.