outline: She wants to marry a nerd because shes scared of cheating husbands, and as a matter of fact she thinks; no man is faithful anymore!

outline: She wants to marry a nerd because shes scared of cheating husbands, and as a matter of fact she thinks; no man is faithful anymore!

luckgames: [color=#990000]

Nigerian Women cheat big time too
From Old woman in the past to young women of today
Apple doesn't fall too far from the tree

outline: She wants to marry a nerd because shes scared of cheating husbands, and as a matter of fact she thinks; no man is faithful anymore!

busybee24:


That my be so... but the issue is that if she gets caught.. its pretty much game over.. she can say good bye to her kids, her home and so.. A man cheats.. its business as usual back home and dont pretend otherwise.. and as the woman you are just supposed to take it.. because it is what men do... you know very well its true..
I initially decided that I would marry a Nigerian for sure.. but now im not so sure..

busybee24:


That my be so... but the issue is that if she gets caught.. its pretty much game over.. she can say good bye to her kids, her home and so.. A man cheats.. its business as usual back home and dont pretend otherwise.. and as the woman you are just supposed to take it.. because it is what men do... you know very well its true..
I initially decided that I would marry a Nigerian for sure.. but now im not so sure..

luckgames:

Don't let that discourage you
Men cheat of all race, color and nationality look at (Clinton, Edward, Stanford and Schwarzenegger)

9lifes: The same ladies will see the nerds and call them boring..may be she is her late twenties,it is usually this period they can marry anything..just saying what I have seen from years of observation.

Fulaman198:

Exactly, Kennedy, and a few others as well. If women had the same power as men in this world, women would be no different.

luckgames:
Correct
I am not trying to go back that far
Just present day Issue

Fulaman198:

I love how this thread is full of broad generalizations.

It is the woman's fault for marrying a man that cheats if you did. You must first ask yourself why did you get involved with this person in the first place?

luckgames:

Don't let that discourage you
Men cheat of all race, color and nationality look at (Clinton, Edward, Stanford and Schwarzenegger)

MRbrownJAY:

if thats what she thinks then she should try marrying a woman OR other species.......like animals, plants etc.
even if a great guy was in front of her eyes, she wouldnt notice him, thanks to her backward mind.

busybee24:

See the thing about the way the world works is that the brain works with generalizations. Particularly as a way to act as a short cut, ordering process. Look up Walter Lippman.. you prove it by your own post by saying.. "It is the woman's fault for marrying a man that cheats if you did. You must first ask yourself why did you get involved with this person in the first place? "

That's a broad generalization if I have ever heard one. Infact that's the motherload of them all

Did it occur to you that there are situations where women are not given the chance to choose?
That perhaps a change in the socio-economic frame of the marriage is to blame?
That the widespread acceptance of the cheating as permissible could have played a role??
perhaps the man is just a dirty low down snake
There is unhappiness in the marriage due to neglect or abuse


See my point?

Fulaman198:

Then that marriage is not based around love if something changed within the socio-economic frame.

A marriage should be based around these fundamental things in the following order:

1. God
2. Love
3. Stability (socio-economic related things)

If God and Love are not more important than #3 then there should be no marriage. God and Love is supposed to get a couple through the tough and bitter. However, people marry for the wrong reasons these days without even thinking why they marry the person.