BlueDiva: She is already tired of the marriage.
Let them go for counselling. Nairaland can't solve their problem.

PrettyCindy: The mentality of most Nigerian men is quite funny. They treat their wives as their slaves. You want one person who you claim to love to be your wive, cook, dry cleaner, baby incubator, messenger, house girl, s£x machine etc etc.
I truely understand where she is coming from cos i have been there. My case was probably worse off as in after washing this man's clothes (up to handkerchieves), he would never say "thank you" or simple "welldone". One particular saturday i worked my a.s.s off in the morning before going to work (while he was watching a seasonal film) and still branched into the market to buy soup and stew items and prepared both same night, i was dead tired & the weather was hot that night. This man started talking about s£x, i politely told him i was extremely tired and besides the weather was terribly hot. So i pleaded with him to please hold on so i will get my strength back and by early morning or late night the weather would have been cold.......well he told me point blank that he would sleep with another girl the next day..

PrettyCindy: . I will recommend she talk to this lady @ auntieagatha..com. She is a marriage counsellor.

figures: Av been there and done dat. It can be very dehumanizing especially when you work and contribute substantially to the purse. Anyways, its d price we have to pay for helping d men.
I overcame by being patient. Its better now sha.

really have no advise for the wife cos I don't see what she is complaining about. For the man, if he is in Naija I[b] would advise him to send her away for a while to her parents house. He can meanwhile look for a newer model. Form what the OP said, this woman should be close to if not beyond her sell by date[/b].

toyemz: @Johndoe100



why should he be looking for a newer model,if he has only sent off his wife to spend just a while at home? what happens when she gets back home? hasnt more problems been created?
what are you advocating here? That he marry two wivies,or that he engage in an affair while his legal wife is out of the house?
Do you know the values of marriage? would you even like this to be done to you if you were married? or your sister?
pls think before advising

Johndoe100:

I know exactly what I advise. He doesn't need the expired puzzy. When he gets a taste of the new model he will realize that the so called wife is better off staying with her folks permanently. Most men understand this. It is called the co-efficient of QOT.

Johndoe100:

I know exactly what I advise. He doesn't need the expired puzzy. When he gets a taste of the new model he will realize that the so called wife is better off staying with her folks permanently. Most men understand this. It is called the co-efficient of QOT.

Johndoe100: I really have no advise for the wife cos I don't see what she is complaining about. For the man, if he is in Naija I would advise him to send her away for a while to her parents house. He can meanwhile look for a newer model. Form what the OP said, this woman should be close to if not beyond her sell by date.

Johndoe100:

I know exactly what I advise. He doesn't need the expired puzzy. When he gets a taste of the new model he will realize that the so called wife is better off staying with her folks permanently. Most men understand this. It is called the co-efficient of QOT.

peaceheartt:


See advice I beg

Johndoe100:

You have said this 2 or 3 times. I guess you agree with me.

Women who have either had kids or are no longer in their late teens to very early twenties are old models and never bother to ask why a man should stay and be managing their expired or expiring puzzies. Sometimes men who are married fall into stagnation and have not had fresh puzzy for some time and they forget what they originally wanted from the woman. When God intervenes and they get a taste of a real fresh puzzy, they realize what they have been missing.
If the men have friends, they usually help him to get the new model, some then advise him to keep the wife for the sake of the kids. However that is for the useful women, which this one does not appear to be.

Godmother:


Grow up pls or next time talk with more wisdom. How can u even give this kind of advice. I'm sure the woman's husband thinks exactly like you, that's why they re having these problems

Johndoe100:

You have said this 2 or 3 times. I guess you agree with me.

Women who have either had kids or are no longer in their late teens to very early twenties are old models and never bother to ask why a man should stay and be managing their expired or expiring puzzies. Sometimes men who are married fall into stagnation and have not had fresh puzzy for some time and they forget what they originally wanted from the woman. When God intervenes and they get a taste of a real fresh puzzy, they realize what they have been missing.
If the men have friends, they usually help him to get the new model, some then advise him to keep the wife for the sake of the kids. However that is for the useful women, which this one does not appear to be.

Johndoe100:

You have said this 2 or 3 times. I guess you agree with me.

Women who have either had kids or are no longer in their late teens to very early twenties are old models and never bother to ask why a man should stay and be managing their expired or expiring puzzies. Sometimes men who are married fall into stagnation and have not had fresh puzzy for some time and they forget what they originally wanted from the woman. When God intervenes and they get a taste of a real fresh puzzy, they realize what they have been missing.
If the men have friends, they usually help him to get the new model, some then advise him to keep the wife for the sake of the kids. However that is for the useful women, which this one does not appear to be.