It is sad that I have not insulted anyone just told the truth to you ladies and let you in to how the menfolk see the world, and what do I get? Insults left and right. Why are you women like that?

ferhyntorlah: You people should ignore Johndoe100, he is playing the Devil's advocate here. Can't you feel the sarcasm in his post? I was just lol as I read his post. He is always like that when he drops his comment;thinking outside the box in an anticlockwise manner.

If all men think the way he does, this world would be in a state of quandary.

My dear take it from me I represent the mainstream in male
thought. The problem is you women don't want to listen to the truth. I find it utterly amazing that a woman/girl/female can get up and tell me that she is more clued up to what men think and tell each other than I. Do you understand how this sounds to a man?

Johndoe100:

You have said this 2 or 3 times. I guess you agree with me.

Women who have either had kids or are no longer in their late teens to very early twenties are old models and never bother to ask why a man should stay and be managing their expired or expiring puzzies. Sometimes men who are married fall into stagnation and have not had fresh puzzy for some time and they forget what they originally wanted from the woman. When God intervenes and they get a taste of a real fresh puzzy, they realize what they have been missing.
If the men have friends, they usually help him to get the new model, some then advise him to keep the wife for the sake of the kids. However that is for the useful women, which this one does not appear to be.

OMG!!!

How can you think or talk like this . . . I am in great shock. And please, most men do not think like you. We have a lot of responsible men out there.

What happens when you men also expire in the heart of the woman? Get a newer version, I believe . . .

And what happens when the new model you get also expires? You get another model abi?

I can only imagine!!! *SMH*

Somehow, i want to believe you said this just to get under the skin of the women . . . you don't mean it, do you

Tgirl4real:

OMG!!!

How can you think or talk like this . . . I am in great shock. And please, most men do not think like you. We have a lot of responsible men out there.

What happens when you men also expire in the heart of the woman? Get a newer version, I believe . . .

And what happens when the new model you get also expires? You get another model abi?

I can only imagine!!! *SMH*

Somehow, i want to believe you said this just to get under the skin of the women . . . you don't mean it, do you

Why would you take this guy seriously? The so-called tranny-lover? Hahahaha! The guy is probably mentally unstable. Abeg, leave am.

@omoale aka moremi
Going around bothering men will never compensate for being a b. astard. It is your mother you should hold responsible.

@Tgirl4real
What I said is the truth. I have already stated that men keep their homes together because of the kids.

I got this from a lady in the social club i belong to, she openly narrated dis to us at our last meeting and varioius kinds of advice from my fellow club members have been flying here and there to her, I decided to bring it here cos I believe we still have good people with useful advice on NL, especially dis family section.
Pls ur advice would be forwarded to her.

This is her story:

"Pls I nid a 'very urgent advise' on dis mata. Mysef n my husband have not bn in talking terms for a long period of time. Instead of loving him more these day, its hatred dat feels my heart. I have just decided to keep to mysef 'cos am tired of giving my best to d marriage n in return receive disappointments every day. He's the kind of man dat believes that helping a woman in d house is bad and unheard of, no mata how stressed out I am, he'll stil find one thing or d other he'll ask me to do 4 him, sometimes even at odd hrs of d day, while i'm trying to sleep. Now I want to change my attitude to him too (bt i dont mean infidelity, not because of him, but God, who sees everything), I know I've bn a loving wife to him and all his people, am planning to start acting as it pleases me no more as it pleases him, because my niceness and pleasant attitude has not been yielded any positive results, instead he makes me sad all the time.
Recently, without informing me, I came back from work one day to meet his elder brother in d house, when i asked, he told me the brother was here to stay, not a visit.
We live in a 2bedroom apartment and my privacy have been invaded as i had to vacat the other room for his brother. (i sleep in the same room with my hubby, but the other room is where a few of my stuff areI did agree to move out, but i'm thinking of moving my few stuff from his room to the other, while i move his brother's stuff to his, afterall there has not been any sexual activities btw us for some time now, so I see no reason in sleeping in d same room wit him anymo. Pls help me wit ur advise, I don't want to be blamed for any action am taking"[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]



She desperately need our advice before she makes the gravest mistake of her life.

Thank you folks.

She is already making the grave mistake. She is internalizing the hatred. Soon enough the hatred will become unbearable and only a divorce will settle the matter. The lack of affection in her home is rooted in mutual carelessness and demonic oppression. I know some will ask how demonic oppression comes into this matter but the truth is that it is not normal that someone who once professed love all of a sudden becomes the source of hatred. She needs to turn to God, abandon all ungodly options demons are marketing to her and discuss with the husband concerning the issues in the home.

No need to complain any more

Chat this councilor up

09094281482 Mr Hudson