When you meet someone for the first time.  There is something that attracts you to that person which usually is the looks. And if you do not like what you see, you won't even bother taking a step of getting to know that  guy/lady.

Do you think you can love someone without being physically attracted to that person. How do such relationships work?

Note: You can be physically attracted to someone but not love that person.

whats the point in placing so much emphasis on the emptiness of beauty?, u can actually love someone too and not like the person
physical attraction runs deep, but compared to inner beauty, physical attraction is just skin deep.when Ur hearts click,physical attraction only becomes a constant, unnoticeable

if you have boobs [i mean big boobs]
am already inlove with you.
and am ready to marry you

that's why people like you keep jumping from one skirt to another because if you fall in love with a lady with big boobs, if you see another who has a bigger boob, you will switch to that one . So i belive you are awomaniser.

tobigirl:

that's why people like you keep jumping from one skirt to another because if you fall in love with a lady with big boobs, if you see another who has a bigger boob, you will switch to that one . So i believe you are awomaniser.

or when gravity takes its toll on the big boobs

I usually don't look at the outward beauty of a person.  You could be attracted to someone who is not handsome, but there is just this 'connection'  between you guys that makes you always want to be together.

The other case is where this 'connection' is missing but you love this person just for who he/she is with or without any reason i.e. either because of his character or just unconditionally

I dont care if the boobs is firm or flappy
so far the apple juice is big with a big B

winnergal r u in luv?

BABES ARE DIFFERNT TOO IN THEIR CHOICE OF MEN

SOME LOVE JAMES BOND LOOKING GUYS FOR HIS DRESSING
SOME WILL GO FOR HULK HOGAN FOR HIS BODY BUILD
WHILE SOME WILL GO FOR OBJ FOR HIS MONEY AND CONNECTION

iice:

Yes physical looks are important and even paramount to some.
True, we are attracted to what a person looks like, the manner they carry themselves, their li'l gestures and how well or not the look put together.

Yes, you can love someone without being physically attracted but i don't one will be in love with that person even more i don't how that one works especially if you aren't attracted to their bodies .

Personally, i have to be attracted physically and mentally to even consider a serious relationship. Don't think i can be in one, if i find his body repugnant or his brain patterns repulsive

i quite agree with u. i believe attraction stems from the senses but love is a sync between pple and it comes from the heart. i av bin crazily attracted to pple but it neva went beyond that, cos deep inside it was all hollow. its good when its a combination of both

ettehgate:

BABES ARE DIFFERNT TOO IN THEIR CHOICE OF MEN

SOME LOVE JAMES BOND LOOKING GUYS FOR HIS DRESSING
SOME WILL GO FOR HULK HOGAN FOR HIS BODY BUILD
WHILE SOME WILL GO FOR OBJ FOR HIS MONEY AND CONNECTION

excellent analogy! u be brainy guy o!

who cares about looks - p ussy looks the same - there is no ugly or pretty p ussy - what the hell am i concerend about beauty for - beauty is so vain - but p ussy is as sweet as anything imaginable - so to hell with all the pretty ladies - but hey give me the p ussy and cover the eyes, i am game.

OL BOY
take care o, some pusssy smell pass pit laterine o
some the chemical inside, gold circle no fit witstand am o
the oil inside some pussy will tear the best condom o

davidyland@yahoo.com:

who cares about looks - p ussy looks the same - there is no ugly or pretty p ussy - what the hell am i concerend about beauty for - beauty is so vain - but p ussy is as sweet as anything imaginable - so to hell with all the pretty ladies - but hey give me the p ussy and cover the eyes, i am game.

I cant believe this some guys definitely don't belong to this planet.

ettehgate:

OL BOY
take care o, some pusssy smell pass pit laterine o
some the chemical inside, gold circle no fit witstand am o
the oil inside some pussy will tear the best condom o

GEEZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

what?
I lie?

Why the sudden lewd twist to an otherwise intelligent thread?

love goes beyond the physical trait.when u love some1 u dnt look at the beauty or handsome.my love wasnt handsome when i met him. he was actually very big and am a small person.but because i couldnt over look his physical trait i could see more than his physical person which i makes me appreciate him more.

@poster,

to b honest with u, physical appearance count 4 me, even if i have to be in love with a lady, there must b something i see about her that will drag my attention, could b her hair, face, boobs, frame, etc. i mean there must b some kind of physical connection b/4 the love thingy comes in.

ettehgate:

BABES ARE DIFFERNT TOO IN THEIR CHOICE OF MEN

SOME LOVE JAMES BOND LOOKING GUYS FOR HIS DRESSING
SOME WILL GO FOR HULK HOGAN FOR HIS BODY BUILD
WHILE SOME WILL GO FOR OBJ FOR HIS MONEY AND CONNECTION

omo, o paro jare; na true u talk!

ettehgate:

I don't care if the boobs is firm or flappy
so far the apple juice is big with a big B

lmfao, ol' boy u dey crase o but funny sha!

davidyland@yahoo.com:

who cares about looks - p ussy looks the same - there is no ugly or pretty p ussy - what the hell am i concerend about beauty for - beauty is so vain - but p ussy is as sweet as anything imaginable - so to hell with all the pretty ladies - but hey give me the p ussy and cover the eyes, i am game.

Lol, so u dey say wetin consign agbero with overload heh? ya comment reminds me of one of my childhood friends back in naija.

lamidebaby:

Why the sudden lewd twist to an otherwise intelligent thread?

abeg, give us a break o jare! all this love n wan tintin talk don dey played out and too dry jo. Besides, who cares? efry1's got their personal preference and as humans, we'd be lying if we say the physical attraction doesn't matter because we know DARN well it does. Peace!

oh Joey, kinda fact there . . . na me, all joey said, plus sense of humour. . . ahhh brains!!

MoOdYLaDy:

When i meet someone, what attracts me the more is his personalities, i mostly look behind looks but that doesn't mean i will date someone am not physical attracted to.
Moreover I don't make physical appearance that big of a deal because I've always have these thoughts that after a while your beauties are always going to fade away.

Wow! You're such a genius to have figured that out! Thanks to you, we wouldn't have known that.

Chei! ettehgate, e be like say you don live too close to aso rock when "obo"sanjo, sorry! i meant Obj was in the house. Decorum plz!

@snugle

How can you love someone and not like the person?