MsDarkSkin:

Exactly. If only we could block users...

MsDarkSkin: I agree with the OP on this..
I am a woman and I think it's unreasonable to have a whole shopping list of the qualities you want a man to have but don't expect to do anything in return. What every woman wants is to feel secure, loved and appreciated. BUT REAL WOMEN NOT ONLY want these things but are willing to return the favor.

Why must we beg for "mr. perfection" when we are not? Hell! Some of us aren't even half decent but want "Mr. Perfect" aka "Sir do it all". I've always been a 50/50 woman and I hope I will remain that way.

My thing is "do right by me, I will do right by you". Period.

pendo89: Everything the man brings.May not be in balanced proportions but equals.

queensmith: You see the problem with Nigerians, they are very selfish people. Everything is transactional, everything is a trade everything is a competition. Everything a gender war on who is the greater/stronger/important sex. Very tiring.

@you are obvioiusly battling with homosexual tendencies. If you have never enjoyed the company of a woman and cannot see the point of being in a relationship with one then it's about time you step out of the closet and pursue relationships with men.
A woman will offer you nothing more than you have mentioned, have sex with prostitutes, remain childless and enjoy the company of your man friend.

Good luck to you with all that.

luckgames:

You are a selfish woman
Who don't want to contribute but receive
Relationship for sale
dumb B
You have two hands and two legs
Men have four hands and four legs?

Mrs.Chima:


You GOTDAMN RIGHT I didn't contribute anything WORTHY on your SHITTY ARSE THREAD. Duh dumb arse!

Do you even know what a truth sayer is? I bet your dumb arse thinking it means fortune teller. Truth sayer is a person who speaks candidly or honestly about a person, place, or thing. I spoke candidly and honestly about MEN NOT BRINGING A GOTDAMN THING [/b]to the table. You can't get anymore candid than that [b]DUMB ARSE.

True talk that nigga!

Rocktation: Kai. Kevin don shite for church this time?
Chicks c'mon now. I know the romance section critics have made us edgy and set to spit out fireballs at the slightest provocation. But as opposed to a whole lot of them, he asked a question. He didn't just put it out there like that. I suspect that he's not in the running to be the next bad boy on NL, pinky swear. Lol.

Hmmpph...Jaybee must be in over his head today. The entire section is babel.

ijebabe: ^ What are you still doing here? Oya, to the bedroom!

Rocktation: Infact ehn, Spartacus de learn for where you de. Jeje laye sha oo.

Mrs.Chima:


There is a big difference between girls and women.

Kevin_II:


Why the dilly dallying? Anyways didn't know I could ever agree with anything you say, but that was on point. Unfortunately most Nigerian girls are receivers with nothing but pucci to contribute. How sad. What is even more tragic is that they don't think there is anything wrong with that. You only have to read through this thread to see that.

MsDarkSkin:

I know some American, Jamo, Hispanic; etc women like that.
A sorry woman is a sorry woman. The only problem is, they seem to outnumber the good ones and are on the rise.

chidyhels: @poster,dats wat u get frm a patrilineal society;evr woman's drm wil be 2 end up wit a man of idea,whil she serves him..Bt i think bringin smtin 2 d table has 2 do wit individual perceptn of life,havnt u seen men witout ambition?
If ur babe no get ambition get her 2 hav 1..evr1 got d potentials, we jst nid 1 or 2 tins 2 trigger it off,n belv me she wil alwayz be grtful 2 u,marriage or no marriage

Rocktation: Kai. Kevin don shite for church this time?
Chicks c'mon now. I know the romance section critics have made us edgy and set to spit out fireballs at the slightest provocation. But as opposed to a whole lot of them, he asked a question. He didn't just put it out there like that. I suspect that he's not in the running to be the next bad boy on NL, pinky swear. Lol.

Hmmpph...Jaybee must be in over his head today. The entire section is babel.

Kevin_II:

On point! Sad that this has to be another non-nigerian girl!



Bla bla bla. Coming from a public dog I expect nothing less! Did you say very tiring? How so, since you are the unrepentant feminist? You should be a lesbo to know that I have 'tendencies'. Lol. I have been with more women than the number of my fingers and toes combined, and all they do is nag nag nag. Aside the free sex there's nothing to 'enjoy' so far hence the questions. Do me a favor and stick your finger in your anuss and lick it thoroughly afterwards. I don't give a shitty fcck what you think! bwahahahaha. arindin oshi!

Kevin_II:

True, obviously - taking this thread as a case in point.



Nice viewpoint. But as they say, you can only lead a horse to the stream, you can't force it to drink water. Some of these girls cannot fathom WHY they have to have any ambition at all, aside from being someone's wife. In which case your efforts will just be in vain. #truethat

Kevin_II: And I'm very serious about this.
I asked this girl I'm seeing (who's quarter to being dumped really) that question and hear what she said:

1. Sex, good sex - biatch pls. I can get better with a love peddler
2. Mother to your children in future - in which life?
3. Take care of your home - i have been a bachelor for 3 years. I think i have done a good job taking care of my home.

At this point she goes silent. What else? I ask. What else do you want? She retorted, matter of factly. In my mind I smh. She has no clue, this one. How sad. Meanwhile we had spent the last hour having her list all she expects from me.

So ladies in the house what do you really bring to the table in your relationships? I am waiting for the answer that will make me take notice, not the usual ramblings from the usual suspects. Over to you

MsDarkSkin: I agree with the OP on this..
I am a woman and I think it's unreasonable to have a whole shopping list of the qualities you want a man to have but don't expect to do anything in return. What every woman wants is to feel secure, loved and appreciated. BUT REAL WOMEN NOT ONLY want these things but are willing to return the favor.

Why must we beg for "mr. perfection" when we are not? Hell! Some of us aren't even half decent but want "Mr. Perfect" aka "Sir do it all". I've always been a 50/50 woman and I hope I will remain that way.

My thing is "do right by me, I will do right by you". Period.

queensmith: You see the problem with Nigerians, they are very selfish people. Everything is transactional, everything is a trade everything is a competition. Everything a gender war on who is the greater/stronger/important sex. Very tiring.

@you are obvioiusly battling with homosexual tendencies. If you have never enjoyed the company of a woman and cannot see the point of being in a relationship with one then it's about time you step out of the closet and pursue relationships with men.
A woman will offer you nothing more than you have mentioned, have sex with prostitutes, remain childless and enjoy the company of your man friend.

Good luck to you with all that.

Idowuogbo:
all dis feminist blah blah blah! If Adam no channel d oyoyo Eve dem go get mouth? Abegiiiiiiiii

Idowuogbo:
I have noticed d same, Dey pounce on him like unfed tigers when he asks a simple question that actually always makes sense. I think d problem wiv folks is, dey find it extremely hard to digest reality. I mean all dis feminist blah blah blah! If Adam no channel d oyoyo Eve dem go get mouth? Abegiiiiiiiii

Rocktation:
Badoskyyy! As always, dancing ayangba on thin ice. Hehehe. Nofin do you sha.

buJu-234:
if an average single lady can answer this question well; many gud men are looking 4 u.

because i think most guys see women as either sex tool; financial burden or both.

i always tell women; that there are more u re created 4 than this sex doll and give me give me give me stuff...

Orikinla: They bring LOVE without which LIFE is meaningless.

queensmith:

You see now your response only further proves my point, you have been with many women to try and prove something to yourself, the truth is you do not enjoy women. You are a gay man, just own it and embrace your sexuality. Life is too short.

OK/2/NV:
pussiey!
that shitt is worth more than gold and crack !

Kevin_II:

Young man, you can get better with a love peddler without all the added complications if that's all you want.

luckgames:

Relationship is a partnership = transaction ( Business)
Men Please see marriage as a partnership of a business transaction
If you fail to see marriage or relationship as a business transaction
You are going to pay off

queensmith:

You can never be satisfied viewing a relationship as a partnership because someone will always end up with the short end of the deal. If the rewards of the partnership were to be more sentimental than always trying to maintain a degree of profit then it is completely different.

If life was as simple as 'plug in some money' 'be gratified' then there won't be many struggles. bottom line is there is no successful relationship with your point of view. There are just miserable people and their manipulators.

queensmith:

You can never be satisfied viewing a relationship as a partnership because someone will always end up with the short end of the deal. If the rewards of the partnership were to be more sentimental than always trying to maintain a degree of profit then it is completely different.

If life was as simple as 'plug in some money' 'be gratified' then there won't be many struggles. bottom line is there is no successful relationship with your point of view. There are just miserable people and their manipulators.

Killz.:
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