I got this true life story on radio.

How can a man and his fiancee forget to check on the person whom they handed over the responsibility of cooking the food and making the cake?

It's the day of the wedding and no food was prepared and no wedding cake. They decided to buy ready made food from somewhere and a dummy wedding cake was used.

jmoore: I got this true life story on radio.

How can a man and his fiancee forget to check on the person whom they handed over the responsibility of cooking the food and making the cake?

It's the day of the wedding and no food was prepared and no wedding cake. They decided to buy ready made food from somewhere and a dummy wedding cake was used.

is ready made food, NOT food? is a dummy cake not a cake? all the extravagance in marriage is just the cherry on the cake, the focus on the day should be THE UNION.

MRbrownJAY:

is ready made food, NOT food? is a dummy cake not a cake? all the extravagance in marriage is just the cherry on the cake, the focus on the day should be THE UNION.

Can you eat a dummy cake??

If they did not invite any guests then they need not worry about the food and cake.
This post is about how people fail to plan, you are missing the point. It is like forgetting to get your wedding dress ready.

God works in mysterious ways.They've just saved somemoney that would be alot more beneficial than feeding people who won't come to their aid if the marriage hits a financial crisis.
Failure to plan or not,they should quickly go for their refund and invest in more productive things.wedding has come and gone,marriage is the 411.
Jmoore,mei sere.

ifyalways:
Jmoore,mei sere.

I be Igbo oh! I think mei sere is a greeting. Good day to you too

@OP
the issues is: did they get married or not? even the wedding dress is NOT a necessity. the whole issues is about getting married, nothing else should matter.

@MRbrownJAY, what happened to a sense of humour?

jmoore: @MRbrownJAY, what happened to a sense of humour?

my bad...... but i was more thinking of how some Nigerians are ready to kill themselves for a wedding. even going into debts to have all the "accessories"

Jmoore,I got it all mixed up,my bad.Thought twas Jmaine my Efik boyfriend.lol
O di nma."O" nile bu otu.

Remind's me of the wedding I attended the other day. I almost shit in my pant's due to the countless plate's of food I ate. But if I happen to come accross any of the couple's today I wouldn't even recognise them. The truth is I never evn bothered checking up their face's I was all for the food and nothing more and before you crucify me I was there to run the guitar. But wait, was that even necessary?

jmoore:

Can you eat a dummy cake??

If they did not invite any guests then they need not worry about the food and cake.
This post is about how people fail to plan, you are missing the point. It is like forgetting to get your wedding dress ready.

Guitarlife: But wait, was that even necessary?

I do not understand you. If your own excess eating was necessary?

jmoore:

I do not understand you. If your own excess eating was necessary?

on a more serious note now, I think the unnecessay show of affluence by couples on their wedding day's is particularly sickening. Some incur debts that even outlast the marriage itself. We ought to understand that the church programme itself if just a formalty just like its name 'wedding'. The real marriage takes place elsewhere maybe court or the bride's house. The whole charade of one man pronouncing you husband and wife is quite overrated as he does not have that license I mean, who gave him that license why don't we all emancipate ourselve's ehn. This is 2012 dammit.

^^^ well said but sadly the wedding has nothing to do with the union any longer, it is more about a show off (to show everyone how "great" life is). the fact that some are willing to go into debt to feed strangers till they cant eat any longer, proves to us all that this is just a charade.

it is not all about showing off. My purpose of this topic is about planning.
It is like asking a tailor to deliver you a suit you want to use for wedding only for you to find out on the wedding day that the clothing material you bought is still untouched in his shop.

Is it compulsory you wear a suit or that your clothe must be new? . . . . . . . . . Una go hear am today lol.

jmoore: it is not all about showing off. My purpose of this topic is about planning.
It is like asking a tailor to deliver you a suit you want to use for wedding only for you to find out on the wedding day that the clothing material you bought is still untouched in his shop.

wedding day bloopers i guess.

Longer throats. I have been to a wedding where food wasn't even significant. Are they not still married today?

Thank God for these comments. My marriage and wedding must remain simple, as we don't even have alot. My husband to be, you have nothing to worry about. Ppl must talk, so let them. All I need is a clean start and a lasting marriage. Amen.