Lacrissa: I am about passing out this present batch and when people ask me what next, their emphasis is always on marriage. One told me, now I'm passing out, when am I giving them invitation and another talked to me when I plan on settling down. Is that what most people do, after NYSC, plan on getting married? Not like I don't want to get married soon, of course but I was just surprised when both of them at different times after congratulating me talked about marriage being next.

Jasiel: My parents and everyone else are doing exactly the same thing. Everywhere I turn questions are being asked about marriage and who I'm dating. If my parents' words could be recorded in six line paragraphs, each paragraph will have about 5 lines of "bone of bones" and "flesh of flesh". I do want to get married someday and because I love kids, I want some of my own too but I also feel like there's more to me and life than just ending up in a marriage without fulfilling my dreams....

Mynd_44:
If only all women think like this

slimyem: which is most def. hypocrisy ...and a lie.
Truth is most girls above the age of 20 have constant thoughts of marriage in their minds...among other things.
It is the girls whose only and sole purpose marriage is that i have a problem with...
...but saying you(as a girl above the age of 20) do not think about marriage even after Nysc...is a blatant lie from the pits of hell!
Op's just selling her self-righteousness...and i'm not buying!

Bisjosh: Dnt mind them as if marriage is the greatest achievement in life!!!!

Lacrissa: I am about passing out this present batch and when people ask me what next, their emphasis is always on marriage. One told me, now I'm passing out, when am I giving them invitation and another talked to me when I plan on settling down. Is that what most people do, after NYSC, plan on getting married? Not like I don't want to get married soon, of course but I was just surprised when both of them at different times after congratulating me talked about marriage being next.

slimyem: which is most def. hypocrisy ...and a lie.
Truth is most girls above the age of 20 have constant thoughts of marriage in their minds...among other things.
It is the girls whose only and sole purpose marriage is that i have a problem with...
...but saying you(as a girl above the age of 20) do not think about marriage even after Nysc...is a blatant lie from the pits of hell!
Op's just selling her self-righteousness...and i'm not buying!

Bisjosh: Dnt mind them as if marriage is the greatest achievement in life!!!!

fluid26:

Bros, dis ur grammar na wa o! I'm having great difficulty understanding it.

angiemartinez: its sad dat many ladies dnt practise wat day preach. A woman who has nt goten a man wil tel u she is nt ready yet. Lies! N as soon as she gets dat man, she stats preachn a diff sermon. I pasd out in feb n most ppl askd d same questns, so if d job cums nw fine. If he says weddn nw, fine 2.

ujchief: Thats peer and parental pressure. It didnt start now. Once u're giving birth to, next u're expected to crawl, then walk, then school. After secondary school, they expect us to further it, not minding if we're crafts men or not. After school, service, then we the guys are expected to get a job and star taking care of them! Next, mariage, when u eventualy get maried, they expect the kids, if it aint coming, them more presure. When it comes and its a girl, more presure, when the boy finaly comes, then u're expected to make them two, then they start asking why all these children, dont u know the economy is bad?
Bottom line, u cant please them all.

ujchief: Thats peer and parental pressure. It didnt start now. Once u're giving birth to, next u're expected to crawl, then walk, then school. After secondary school, they expect us to further it, not minding if we're crafts men or not. After school, service, then we the guys are expected to get a job and star taking care of them! Next, mariage, when u eventualy get maried, they expect the kids, if it aint coming, them more presure. When it comes and its a girl, more presure, when the boy finaly comes, then u're expected to make them two, then they start asking why all these children, dont u know the economy is bad?
Bottom line, u cant please them all.

Mynd_44:
yeah money first and then punny and the rest

sucezTP: Though, i'm new on nairaland but, i find dis vry interesting! Sincerely, marriage is nt wat most pple think it is..it's nt d merriments dat matters bt, d way u wil make a gud home afta evry1 has left..lyf afta NYSC shld b gettin a gud job worth livin wit..

pDude: What should they be talking about? Lecturers and Course forms?

captalex:
Please what is punny? And there is no romance without finance.how would a relationship survive if you both are corp members.
Most of the girls are lazy and lack foresight.they want everything shap shap,eventually when the guy benches them and goes outside ,they now start asking what does she have that I don't.base point,think deeply before you decide to walk down the aisle.marriage no be see-saw once your in,na till die o!.

ujchief: Thats peer and parental pressure. It didnt start now. Once u're giving birth to, next u're expected to crawl, then walk, then school. After secondary school, they expect us to further it, not minding if we're crafts men or not. After school, service, then we the guys are expected to get a job and star taking care of them! Next, mariage, when u eventualy get maried, they expect the kids, if it aint coming, them more presure. When it comes and its a girl, more presure, when the boy finaly comes, then u're expected to make them two, then they start asking why all these children, dont u know the economy is bad?
Bottom line, u cant please them all.