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Re: smiley :-))) by mamaput(f): 10:46pm On Nov 27, 2007 |
Am not asking you to stay with him am just thinking loud. The man will not change then he has no respect for black people. I know many of his kind |
Re: smiley :-))) by almondjoy(f): 4:50am On Nov 28, 2007 |
No, your marriage cannot work because of the way you are feeling. I do not understand why you got married in the first place. Not to bring up a racial bais--but the instances of black women marrying white men--have never been successful world wide. Look around you. Or take a survey. It is easier for a "black man" to please a "white" woman--and vice veras, than for a "black woman" to please a "white man" and vice versa--unless you are from Edo State. ---Just Kidding! But just use your imagination for a minute! So sister, keep a-stepping and find you a another--and please do not make the same mistake twice! Thank God you do not have any child by this man. You really would have been miserable exponentially speaking--to the higest power!!!! Please get out fast! I frankly do not understand the type of orientation you have whereby you definitely have missed the first lessons of maintaining a successful marriage------NEVER GO OR STAY WHERE YOU ARE NOT WANTED! Honey, when you see the hand writing on the wall--please do not ask "who wrote it"! The wisest thing to do is the [b]"READ THE MESSAGE"![/b]In this case you have read the messages and you recognize the hand writings on the wall. So what is your problem? No body is worth that kind of attention from you. So get a-stepping I say and learn to put your own happiness first! This dude has decided that his ex-wife beat you hands down---in several areas. It is only a matter of time before this dude leaves you. Unless he is plotting to kill you for insurance money with his ex-wifey! White people do not hang around people for nothing--so be very careful/ Go watch you some forensic science clips! I say move! And move fast if you love yourself. And please learn to recognize when you are needy as opposed to when you are in love! Might just cost you your life. Needy--getting in a relationship for the wrong reasons Being in love--getting in a relationship for the right reasons! Nothing in between! |
Re: smiley :-))) by Evept(f): 1:28pm On Nov 28, 2007 |
@patsy782, i know how u feel about this situation,i am also with a white man that has kids from his previous marriage to be honest it was'nt easy at all with his ex-wife it's obvious that his ex is trying to get back to him and using his child as an excuse and she will be using anything she can to destroy your marriage and try to make ur husband trust her more than u,she might even be telling him that because your younger that you only married him for money and she is the only one that truelly love's him and he will start believing her and start getting intimate again with her. and she will try to make ur life with him difficult,if you want your marriage to work try talking to him about limiting the closeness he has with his ex cos his life is with u,him and his child not his ex and try to make him understand how u feel .as sometimes when they had a good relationship with there ex ,they dont realise the boundaries after divorce or seperation. be patient and give him time to come to his senses and try to get involved in everything his doing with his ex and child as u will limit them from the closenest when ur there. because even if she re-marry to someone else ,she can still do the same thing that she is doing now it's obvious that she is jealous of u with him and want to get him back if ur husband dont listern after talking to him,dont ask for divorce but seperate for a while ,then if he really love's u ,he will beg u to come back during this period that he is desperate to have u back use the opportunity and give him conditions on the kind of relationship he should only have with his ex . as i think his is confused at present but he love's u. dont let any single african girls get too close to u and your husband as they are only out to destroy people's marriage and relationship . i personally wont ask u to get divorce unless u dont wont the marriage anymore. if im in ur shoe now i will fight to keep my marriage .as weither ur married to black or white there are times when u will have difficulties in ur relationship and u should work it out not walk away from it. cheers, Evept |
Re: smiley :-))) by Blackcat(f): 6:56pm On Nov 28, 2007 |
'Evept ' God bless you. You hit the nail on the head, |
Re: smiley :-))) by FBS: 8:49am On Nov 29, 2007 |
don't let any single african girls get too close to u and your husband as they are only out to destroy people's marriage and relationshipThat is very wrong, I mean when will we start to see that been African does not mean been negative in thinking, I personally have not advised her either to leave or stay, only she can make that decision and ONLY SHE will take the consequences of her decisions. It is very wrong to label anyone be it African or European negative. |
Re: smiley :-))) by jankaraman(m): 5:52am On Nov 30, 2007 |
Since you are in the United States take your husband to watch the movie "Why Did I get Married" by Tyler Perry. You should find your answer there although none of the couples is inter racial . After the movies have a discussion with your husband about what u feel right now. |
Re: smiley :-))) by Evept(f): 1:35pm On Nov 30, 2007 |
@ FBS , dont get me wrong,experince is the best teacher so i know what im talking about especially from nigerian girls. |
Re: smiley :-))) by Evept(f): 1:39pm On Nov 30, 2007 |
@Blackcat , im sure u agree with me since ur also in interracial relationship .lol |
Re: smiley :-))) by RealT1(f): 4:48pm On Nov 30, 2007 |
I think u should take it easy with him. try your best to talk to him in a condusive environment and talk to him. |
Re: smiley :-))) by FBS: 10:22am On Dec 03, 2007 |
don't get me wrong,experince is the best teacher so i know what im talking about especially from nigerian girls. @Evept, and who told you that only Nigerians girls do that? a beg I know what I'm saying, Not all Nigerians girls are the same. |
Re: smiley :-))) by lasmiles(f): 9:50am On Dec 10, 2007 |
hmmmmmmmmmmmm, thgis is a pathetic story, and such stories make me get scared of marriage the more, they pretend to be real but after the marriage they tend to show their true colour, all u need do is prayyyyyyyyy, but with the way things are going, they are pushing u aside bit by bit, b4 u know it , she will pack to ur matrimonial home, and one more thing , she has a greater advantage over u and another thing u have taken lots of shit, and this mite even be a spiritual matter sefffff |
Re: smiley :-))) by odiaseo(m): 1:36am On Dec 23, 2007 |
Re: smiley :-))) by JustGood(m): 5:24pm On Jul 22, 2009 |
This marriage has probably broken down by now. Wetin you sef find go meet oyinbo? You no see all the correct naija bobos wey full everywhere? Oju e a ja |
Re: smiley :-))) by samparian(m): 3:51am On Jul 23, 2009 |
Check yourself, before you wreck yourself and find yourself all by yourself. Get a divorce sharply. He's clearly not yet over his ex |
Re: smiley :-))) by DaZiddo: 3:59am On Jul 23, 2009 |
Any marriage is redeemable, IF , |
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