acidtalk: With ALL honesty and truthfulness, i am not starting up this thread to diss any lady as i have promised to try not to. But sincerely why do ladies actually find it extremely difficult (except few of them)to take themselves out for a treat.

Fast food, Cinema, shopping, lounges, game houses and the rest it is mostly ladies coming with the company of men.

i grew up knowing that my parents used to give my sisters money to go out doing shopping, eatery or even window shopping to go and see want they might want. when myself and brother got upset, they always made us know they did that so that NO MAN will ever use material things to deceive them.

i Grew up loving pizza through my sisters as way back in the 90s they used to go buy pizza from Double4 in awolowo road in ikoyi and bring it home. Things like Suya, Pizza, Shawama, Hot Dog and french fries are things that my sisters made me love because my parents always gave them money to go buy or bring home for us all.

If today i meet any lady, my major turn off is when she always demands to be taken out or demand for a refund of whatever she buys to eat inside her own stomach.

coogar:

you must have been staying around riff-raff chics.
ladies actually take themselves out more than men....shopping malls, cinema, etc.
these days, they go to male strip clubs, nightclubs, pubs, etc.

i think you need to leave the cocoon you have shackled yourself into and go out more.

Flashaldrin:
nah, you are the one to leave the cocoon you are bound in.
Most girls and i mean like 95% will always demand from guys, its kinda irritating, i mean when you're with a guy and food is the first thing that comes to your mind, it makes a strong statement!

Flashaldrin:
nah, you are the one to leave the cocoon you are bound in.
Most girls and i mean like 95% will always demand from guys, its kinda irritating, i mean when you're with a guy and food is the first thing that comes to your mind, it makes a strong statement!

tpia@:
^i think you're lying.

tpia@:

in any case, na you sabi- still wont prevent yall from disrespecting women.

tpia@:
most times the going out is still with the hope of meeting a male.

Flashaldrin:
nah, you are the one to leave the cocoon you are bound in.
Most girls and i mean like 95% will always demand from guys, its kinda irritating, i mean when you're with a guy and food is the first thing that comes to your mind, it makes a strong statement!

acidtalk:

I don't think the homeboy even needed to be noticed.
Its a known fact that even in America and Europe Nigerian girls (most not all) are highly demanding.
When i traveled last to UK, a female friend who i haven't seen in over 15years said she wanted to take me round town only for me to realize she was only satisfying her needs.
Me wey come from naija na me almost feed she and her friends (one a serving senator and the other an immediate past minister's daughter)

These girls are from very comfortable backgrounds but they think demanding is just part of our culture.

coogar:

you're a product of your environment....
when you are surrounded with vagrants, whores, sluts, skanks, etc....you are bound to see such
nonsense.

in the last 4-5 yrs, i have not experienced a chic asking me for a meal ticket.
most actually bring out their cards to pay almost immediately after i bring mine out.
going dutch is the norm these days, i dunno about your razz cocoon but the babes on mine
are freaking independent!

Bro, on a more serious note--These gurls you speak of, are mostly not from/in Nigeria

tellwisdom:


Bro, on a more serious note--These gurls you speak of, are mostly not from/in Nigeria

slimyem: the reasons for going out could be anything ..socialising,fun or whatever.
Besides that's not the point of this discussion!

coogar:

that babes stay in the uk, america or anywhere else does not mean they have their
heads screwed rightly. majority of them are razz but got lucky with their visa
applications. i think it's a phase of life. at a point, you would date students(who
are mostly broke) and after a while, you would date proper professionals.....

that's when you'd see the difference.

tellwisdom:

Your hope of going out are mainly banked on a man's pocket!

Just few amongst you from Nigeria, 2% takes the risk

coogar:

i am not......maybe because it's the brand of
chics i am attracted to. a babe has to be a professional
to even qualify. i don't do "recharge card" babes, "travel
card" babes or "i need £150 to buy brazilian hair" babes.

slimyem: the reasons for going out could be anything ..socialising,fun or whatever.

Besides that's not the point of this discussion

slimyem: this is nonsense!
Please speak english!

You've got to start brushin urself up, so u dont remain a liability fr the rest of ur life

Flashaldrin: Coogar we aint talking about professional babes here, most of those professional girls you are yapping about are either married, seriously engaged or plain azz ugly!
Most single girls in naija are unprofessionals!

acidtalk:
Guy, i won't wanna reveal too much but let me let you know i dated a student last like 7years ago.
All the ladies i have had anything to do with from then till date have all been working class and a professional.
A recent relationship with a lady 5 years older and an executive in a bank (senior management position) even got carried away once a while demanding for deliveries of pizza, flight ticket and the rest. of course these are things she could well afford a thousand times over, but i guess she was just being a Nigerian lady.

So mr man carry your sophistication go siddon for corner. Don't come here and start bragging about nothing because you don't know who is who okay? Empty Barrel they say does what??

tpia@:

well ,so far today alone two women have opened threads (within one or two hours of each other) to announce they got scoped by a man.
Not the first time they'll open such either.

so, i'm guessing the chicks in question (ie your girlfriends) offer to pay probably because they saw you dont look like the paying type.
this stuff doesnt depend on nationality either, before you go off on a tangent!

tellwisdom:

You've got to start brushin urself up, so u dont remain a liability fr the rest of ur life

slimyem: blah!
Next please!

acidtalk: With ALL honesty and truthfulness, i am not starting up this thread to diss any lady as i have promised to try not to. But sincerely why do ladies actually find it extremely difficult (except few of them)to take themselves out for a treat.

Fast food, Cinema, shopping, lounges, game houses and the rest it is mostly ladies coming with the company of men.

i grew up knowing that my parents used to give my sisters money to go out doing shopping, eatery or even window shopping to go and see want they might want. when myself and brother got upset, they always made us know they did that so that NO MAN will ever use material things to deceive them.

i Grew up loving pizza through my sisters as way back in the 90s they used to go buy pizza from Double4 in awolowo road in ikoyi and bring it home. Things like Suya, Pizza, Shawama, Hot Dog and french fries are things that my sisters made me love because my parents always gave them money to go buy or bring home for us all.

If today i meet any lady, my major turn off is when she always demands to be taken out or demand for a refund of whatever she buys to eat inside her own stomach.

Mynd_44: People are different. Most girl don't do it cos guys harass them when they go out alone

tpia@:
most times the going out is still with the hope of meeting a male.

tpia@:
^i think you're lying.

in any case, na you sabi- still wont prevent yall from disrespecting women.