sparta:

2 to 3 weeks and they are out, i no want wahala. Th next thing you know she will want to run your house and tell you the meat in your soup is too big.

lol. . . . . .

busybody20:

lol. . . . . .

abi busybody no be so?

They can stay for as long as they want. Though I expect them not to abuse the privilege.
Particularly in old age, they need someone to take care of them. I will never place either of our parents in an old people's home.

One Month is good enuf.

it dependz on the kind of person she is

Best relationship is the one from afar.
Wont even want my mother living with me and my wife for more than one month.
too stressful for the man.

@ biina,
dont you think old pple home is good? if you can afford a good one, i think there are old pple's home that are good. they will be able to take care of the person very well and have friends to hang out with, just my thinking though.

biina:

They can stay for as long as they want. Though I expect them not to abuse the privilege.
Particularly in old age, they need someone to take care of them. I will never place either of our parents in an old people's home.

Bless you, neither will I.

Its the selfishness of the modern western generation that makes them want to always take their parents into homes so that they can enjoy themselves. How they leave their parents in homes because they want to enjoy is beyond me. It's all about selfishness.

where is the homes in Nigeria anyway

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My parents and his parents can stay with us in old age as long as they want to. They can live with us if they wish.They can be surounded by grandkids and have their friends visit. I hate the idea of people sending their parents to old people's homes, like they're a nuisance to be conveniently dispatched tither. They're vulnerable when they're old, and they should never be sorry they had you for a child. You're going to be old too, and life has a funny way of coming full circle. But right now both sets of parents aren't old. They're busy hustling. So I don't have to deal with that yet, thank God.

Ofcourse as long as they want

If she would still be alive, my MIL would be welcome anytime for as long as she desires!

My mother inlaw will always be welcomed and can stay as long as she likes

@ seun ure ryt.wen someone older dan u stays in ur house 2 much d person becomes a parasite n gives u unnecessary advice especially wen u dont nid it or ask 4 it.privacy is important