binger: Ahh the woman got it wrong...your husband is your other half for Christ's sake,why should you do something behind his back and tell him few months later.i would feel like a fool if i were the one nevertheless,i hate guys who beat up there women.He should have forgiven her

if my wife does, I send her packing d next second

Bontee:

And what would you be then? . . .

Did she ask for her money back or is she not the one that gave it out of freewill? So helping your husband with that money entitles you to a share of the property which has been a personal project from the onset?. If she wanted a share of the property then make that known to the man at the point you are giving him the money and not leaving things to assumptions.

Yes because she is trying to reap where did not sow as i doubt if the 300k makes even up to 5% of the total cost to build the house.

You are a person!

She what if she gave it out of freewill?

Is it not her freewill she used not to tell him that she is building a house, why does he have a problem with her freewill then?

FOOOOL!

There is no need to quarrel. She should simply go to the Lands bereau and declear the docs missing. The procedure to get another set of docs and the old one becomes invlaid. He can keep the old docs for as long as he likes. No room for dictatorship--- End of story.

Please, tell your aunty to carry her bags and go.

So because two become one a wife cannot have her own personal investments especially when the husband puts everything in his name?

Did she not go to school to have a career of her own? Was it a joint career with her husband?
This thing dey pain me, sef!

In this world we are in now, who said the marriage would last? No one knows.

I will have my own capital investments with my husband's knowledge whether e like am or not and also joint.


If God forbid, we have to divorce we won't have to fight excessively on which half each should get.
In fact, the joint investments will be for the children because we made them jointly.

Its not a bad thing for a woman to have a capital intensive investment but average women with such grace tends to capitalize on it and using it against their husband

It depends on the man in question for me I have no problem with my wife having investments be it capital or not....