Whether we accept it or not, being a girlfriend is now a paid job these days cos I cant imagine a guy dating a lady without spending a dime on her. I don't mean to generalize but the number of ladies who expect finacial benefits from the guys they date is so high that it is now unecessary to use the words "most" or "some".
The question am asking here is; If men are paying ladies their "salaries" which is the MAIN THING ladies want, why should men still bother to be nice, loving and caring? Isnt it unecessary going that extra mile since ladies are only after their "salaries"? Ladies telling men to be loving and caring after collecting their "salaries" only means ladies are asking for double.

another pathetic man whining and crying over the same old nonsense.
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeww

Don't you have more important things to think about? Like the trajectory on which your life is heading

This is serious. . .

Ije pays me salary.

sexkillz: This is serious. . .

Ije pays me salary.

really? That girl is cheating on you bro she pays me too

Is it not past your bed time yet?

WTH!
Killz u know I'd never do that.
Mynd na wetin?

Talk true jorh

How can u do this to ur friend? Is this how I'll fall for u

We foot their bills, they sleep with us afterwards. Some people will call it a symbiotic relationship, others will call it glorified prostitution. Regardless of whatever name it's called, it's a tradition that is for Africans, by Africans.

ijebabe: How can u do this to ur friend? Is this how I'll fall for u

Fall? Girl I don't believe in anyone falling.
I will rather have you standing with all senses intact then you can think straight and be able to take the best decisions

Men now pay women salaries , I have been missing in on the action. Abeg where can I find these kind of men and what job do I need to do to get paid? How much are we talking about here?

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Mynd_44:
Fall? Girl I don't believe in anyone falling.
I will rather have you standing with all senses intact then you can think straight and be able to take the best decisions

In that case most people will be single!

The only girl i will be paying is my office assistant. Anyone besides that can wait in line.

Pretending to think that this topic makes sense, are you telling me that you won't treat people nicely, just because you pay their salaries

damn right bro, bt hey its pretty necessary 4 u 2 b nice to ladies. Dem gurls love to be taken care of, attention and money, bt wen u ova deliver, u become a slowpoke.

Rocktation: Pretending to think that this topic makes sense, are you telling me that you won't treat people nicely, just because you pay their salaries

Does not bothering to treat someone nicely equate to mistreating the person? Think again.

I dont get this.Why create such a relationship that has nothing to do with respecting or loving each other

Blackteeth:
Does not bothering to treat someone nicely equate to mistreating the person? Think again.

Let me indulge you. Why don't you tell me what it is that you're doing then? I mean, it's either black or white. If you cannot be bothered to be nice to the persons that you deal with, it only means that you're not being nice to them, right? So in this context, if you're not being nice to them when of cos you're dealing with them, what is it exactly are you doing to them? Cos you sure as hell must be doing something to them. Think oga, and let me know.

Blackteeth: I don't mean to generalize but the number of ladies who expect finacial benefits from the guys they date is so high that it is now unecessary to use the words "most" or "some".

Wow!LMAO...... I almost fell off my bed laughing to this
If you think a monetary value can be placed on Love and caring; then your stance is 'right'.

ijebabe:
In that case most people will be single!

Being married has noting to with falling in love. You can be in love and still have your senses intact nah. It is the falling part that makes a woman stay with a guy who thanks she is a punching bag

Mynd_44:
really? That girl is cheating on you bro she pays me too

Liar pants on fire

@op
Dude get a life!

Blackteeth:
The question am asking here is; If men are paying ladies their "salaries" which is the MAIN THING ladies want, why should men still bother to be nice, loving and caring? Isnt it unecessary going that extra mile since ladies are only after their "salaries"? Ladies telling men to be loving and caring after collecting their "salaries" only means ladies are asking for double.

GARBAGE!!!!!!

cindyrella:

Liar pants on fire

@op
Dude get a life!

Be nice

Rocktation:

Let me indulge you. Why don't you tell me what it is that you're doing then? I mean, it's either black or white. If you cannot be bothered to be nice to the persons that you deal with, it only means that you're not being nice to them, right? So in this context, if you're not being nice to them when of cos you're dealing with them, what is it exactly are you doing to them? Cos you sure as hell must be doing something to them. Think oga, and let me know.

Who told you it must be black or white? Why can't it be grey? Think again.

SMH...

Mynd_44:
Being married has noting to with falling in love. You can be in love and still have your senses intact nah. It is the falling part that makes a woman stay with a guy who thanks she is a punching bag

How is ur girlfriend? You guys must fight a lot! And make up too