Help ladies I need advice. I need a househelp soon. I have been a sit at home mum for a while now, and need to start work. Please advice on where to look. I don't care where she comes from, as long as she is God-fearing, decent, respectful, hardworking and able to communicate in English. Thanks in advance.

Goodluck!

Please how do I get the omo togos? I prefer big girls o (from 18), make them no come catch me for child trafficking o! Please advise dear lady nairalanders. Thanks for the advice so far.

I believe the bet nannies are older women, my friend has made use of girls in your age description from Togo severally without much luck until she changed for an older woman. They might be quite expensive but you would be sure of a very good hand on your kid.
i would link you guys up if you do not mind

Why not get your younger sibbling to stay with you? Househelp is not someone you get on the street. She must be someone you can trust.

olanajim:

Why not get your younger sibbling to stay with you? Househelp is not someone you get on the street. She must be someone you can trust.

That is another very good idea that could be exploited, nothing as good as using your family in this issues really ,

I agree that your younger ones are the best bet but they'll have to go to school that's why the Togolais who do it for the money come in handy.

I'm not comfortable with maids at all. No matter how well you treat them, somehow, they still can't be trusted.

If you stay in Lagos and work late, I'll advice you to look for a very good day care, there are some very good ones in V.I. but they are pretty expensive. They charge and average of 100,000 for 3 months. Choose one that operates an open door policy where you can walk in anytime and check on your child.

It's pretty tedious but I think it's the best. Your child gets to mix up and people friendly at a very young age and mixes up with the right set of children.

Goodluck!

goodluck

Yimiton,
Don't tell we you ll take my nephew to one of those places you mentioned. I'd rather do the papi, than let the innocent mingle with sharks no matter how much they are charging.

Yimiton,
Don't tell me you ll take my nephew to one of those places you mentioned. I'd rather do the papi, than let the innocent mingle with sharks no matter how much they are charging.

a 100k for three months---? kai. house maids cnt be trusted especially the ones above 16(new wife), just pray for God's leading sha, a family member staying in the village might come in handy. who says all of them wants to go to school? my distant cousin wld run away from home rather than go to school

Dear Yimiton, I honestly don't mind your idea, but I can't afford it right now. Besides I live in Ikorodu. Too far. Thanks all d same sis.

Pls Seunspice, how expensive are these older ladies, n do they go home afterwards? My location may be a problem too. What do you think?

My younger siblings are all big men, off to school or work. My only sis is not around these parts. Thanks girls, really appreciate your contributions. Pls keep them coming.

Sorry guys, just realized you are part of this too. Appreciate you all too. Bless you.

My people, could it be that you have abandoned me? Please don't o! Really need your help. Dear Seunspice, please link me up like you said, with these older women. Thanks.