Girls with standards anyday.

Being a "free-spirit" is honestly an euphemism for having very little sense of discipline.

ayobase:

Expatiate!

u sef know na

talina: This question is kind of vague. Free spirited can have different meanings to different people. It sounds like here,free spirited is eqivalent to selfish and easy to get in bed.

Some one adventurous...she does what best suits her at that moment...

queensmith: a free spirited person cannot have standards? what is this?

I mean a person who does not set standards for what she wants...she jus goes where the wind blows her...she is into trying out new things...anytime,,,anywhere

sosoluv:
Some one adventurous...she does what best suits her at that moment...

Ok, but like I said, there are different meanings of free spirited. This one sounds selfish to me.

[b][/b]I'd go for a cultured lady with standards anyday. That means she also knows how to hacken to my own standards too. . . It would also be easy for us to reach a compromise on serious issues.

And what do you mean 90 day rule? Was that a joke? [/size][/font][/color][/quote]
Very funny. The guy no fit hold body

90 days rule
#Justhinkin, Some guys I knw will go all the way acting all nice until dt 'Golden Kitty Day' and move on the very minute the deed is done

90 days rules?

standard ko! 90 ni

cindyrella: A 90 days rules?

My friend do you speak english?

flanrey: 90 days rule
#Justhinkin, Some guys I knw will go all the way acting all nice until dt 'Golden Kitty Day' and move on the very minute the deed is done

The rule is trying to build intimacy without being sensual...trying to see how far he can go with a woman where sex is not involved. Trust me somewhere along the line he will give it away

sosoluv:
I mean a person who does not set standards for what she wants...she jus goes where the wind blows her...she is into trying out new things...anytime,,,anywhere

I just don't get 'low standards' when I hear 'free spirit'. But I see what you mean.

Free spirited for me! Women with standard are the type that will kill you as soon as they suspect you. Or make your life miserable with their stupid standards.

graluxxy054: Gals wt standard are d best anytime. And hey mister, 90 days rules or nt, premarital sex ain't proper

What's wrong with premarital sex ?? Do you even know that humans and (I think) Dolphins and the only animal that enjoys sex, the other animals just mate for reproduction. Marriage is just part of civilization and a bondage IMO

sosoluv:
A woman does not sleep wit a man until she has been with him for a solid 3months...jus enjoying each other's company and getting to know each other

keep watching movies n wishin.

freecocoa: My friend do you speak english?

Typo error I guess!

cindyrella:


Typo error I guess!

Cingrella. are u a spirit?

9-zeros:

keep watching movies n wishin.

So we should all settle for less and end up wit AIDS or unwanted pregnancies simply becos because some rat does not have self-control?

B4 I used to think that it was only girls that sed something with the intention of meaning another thing.....but from what I see....Guys like gals with standards morewow..where did that come from.

I hope y'all are being honest coz its usually not the case in the real world..they r always shoving the whole idea of being free spirited and open down our throats....its all good tho


But the topic isn't being very clear eithr...u r depicting. Free spirited gals as selfish and gals with standards as Rigid..and pls which movie did u get the whole 90day rule from.

vilively: I hope y'all are being honest coz its usually not the case in the real world..they r always shoving the whole idea of being free spirited and open down our throats....its all good tho


But the topic isn't being very clear eithr...u r depicting. Free spirited gals as selfish and gals with standards as Rigid..and pls which movie did u get the whole 90day rule from.

Steve harvey's book 'act like a lady, think like a man'
Let's make it easier if pple don't understand free-spirited they should consult a dictionary before putting a comment....
A girl who has standards has certain qualities she expects a man to have, she has certain expectations from her relationships,,,she does things in a formal manner,,, she doesn't compromise with certain things,,,

sosoluv:
Steve harvey's book 'act like a lady, think like a man'

That book is the definition of coonery. . . .that book is the devil. Eurgh I couldnt pass page 5. I couldn't fill my head with such nonsense.

Mr..Cork:



Cingrella. are u a spirit?

Huh??

queensmith:

That book is the definition of coonery. . . .that book is the devil. Eurgh I couldnt pass page 5. I couldn't fill my head with such nonsense.

Cool so have managed to find a real man by jus opening them legs wen he demands for it

queensmith:

That book is the definition of coonery. . . .that book is the devil. Eurgh I couldnt pass page 5. I couldn't fill my head with such nonsense.

Cool so have managed to find a real man by jus opening them legs wen he demands for it

sosoluv:
So we should all settle for less and end up wit AIDS or unwanted pregnancies simply becos because some rat does not have self-control?

dats y dey made con/doms! hv fun.

talina: This question is kind of vague. Free spirited can have different meanings to different people. It sounds like here,free spirited is eqivalent to selfish and easy to get in bed.

I was thinking the same thing, I mean you can keep the 90 day rule while dating a rude, jobless thug? Does that mean you have standards? The 90 day rule might not be one of your principles whilst dating respectable men is, that doesn't make you free spirited. You can strictly adhere to your own rules?

I think what the OP means is a conservative person vs a liberal one. Someone who adheres to 'dating rules' vs someone who goes by her own personal principles.

Most won't realise adhering to dating rules is actually a form of manipulation rather than an indication of discipline. The whole point of following that rule is to 'make' the dude fall for her or want her more or whatever other reasons people do it I forget.

queensmith:

I was thinking the same thing, I mean you can keep the 90 day rule while dating a rude, jobless thug? Does that mean you have standards? The 90 day rule might not be one of your principles whilst dating respectable men is, that doesn't make you free spirited. You can strictly adhere to your own rules?

I think what the OP means is a conservative person vs a liberal one. Someone who adheres to 'dating rules' vs someone who goes by her own personal principles.

Most won't realise adhering to dating rules is actually a form of manipulation rather than an indication of discipline. The whole point of following that rule is to 'make' the dude fall for her or want her more or whatever other reasons people do it I forget.

Do you read the posts, before making a comment?

sosoluv: Yes 90 days dating but not sexual intercourse! Having standards includes certain qualities she expects in a guy....is he sucess driven, is he goal orientated, how he values his woman, is he gentleman,,, stuff like that

^^^The OP already explained what she meant by standards there...

sosoluv:
Steve harvey's book 'act like a lady, think like a man'
Let's make it easier if pple don't understand free-spirited they should consult a dictionary before putting a comment....
A girl who has standards has certain qualities she expects a man to have, she has certain expectations from her relationships,,,she does things in a formal manner,,, she doesn't compromise with certain things,,,

Thank you....that's the core definition of women with standards. I think the illiterate meant cultured or refined women. Cultured and refined women usually follow what is societal acceptable in their society albeit their village, town, or country.

sosoluv:
Steve harvey's book 'act like a lady, think like a man'
Let's make it easier if pple don't understand free-spirited they should consult a dictionary before putting a comment....
A girl who has standards has certain qualities she expects a man to have, she has certain expectations from her relationships,,,she does things in a formal manner,,, she doesn't compromise with certain things,,,

As gals we both know that either ways don't work..a little of both works mosttimes. but I'm just surprised at the number of guys that prefer gals with standards...but its a good thing
But do u hoNestly believe that steve Harvey book....I hate having to read bOoks that forces me to accept that this is how I am as a lady.makes things just complicated for us all.gals don't get to discover themselves truly coz they stick to what's in those type of books.....but HEY!!!its just a book right

9-zeros:

dats y dey made con/doms! hv fun.

The whole point of having guidelines or rules is to find a keeper not a shagmate

Y'all Nigerian ladies can keep on dreaming about imaginary perfect men encapsulated with all your so-called "standards". I just dey laff dey gol very soon age go overtake una so much so that nah una go dey beg ghetto riffraff for marriage!

vilively:

As gals we both know that either ways don't work..a little of both works mosttimes. but I'm just surprised at the number of guys that prefer gals with standards...but its a good thing
But do u hoNestly believe that steve Harvey book....I hate having to read bOoks that forces me to accept that this is how I am as a lady.makes things just complicated for us all.gals don't get to discover themselves truly coz they stick to what's in those type of books.....but HEY!!!its just a book right

I totally get u but I jus wanna know if u found a real man without any guidelines...a guy who still loves u crazy without the sex