I was told its better to be in relationship so you will know how to handle them later on, but I think you should just do what you want to do

If you don't want to then don't, its not complusory

Sincere4u:

Whaaaat?, in this modern times. Marriage without prior relationship could be suicidal. All you need do is to set the boundaries of a well defined relationship/dating/courtship.

Thanks. Contemplating on that.

AngelJennifer:


Thanks. Contemplating on that.

That's cool. Final advice...if u really mind the looks of your children or better still having adorably very pretty kids, not only must you mind the looks of a man but most importantly HIS AGE!. You read me well, yes his age. The older a man is, the more likely he is in having ugly kids even if he looks handsome. For women, they just lose the ability to conceive but for men, they get you have uglier kids.
Men below 40 are adviced....though handsome men above 40 can implant sweet looking kids in you but it never can be compared to how the kids do look if the man was younger.
On the other hand, you know older men are richer than younger men on average. So it's left for you to strike the balance for yourself.
One last thing I do add....forget all those love-love thing ooo. Money!, yes money and enough of it matters in a relationship such as marriage. Love only last for a while without cash and becomes moribund.
AngelJennifer!!, if you see a man with deep pockets who is reasonable and loves YOU!, Marry him oooooo!!!!!. For your own good, your kids and all around you; even if you are in love with a struggling man.
Love will come later. Yes, you'll live to love your rich husband.
Your poor lover will live to appreciate you and you two can always be friends. When his time comes he will always find who to marry according to his pocket.
Some ladies have made stupid sacrifices only for the poor lover to marry some other lady the moment he makes money. However majority of the struggling lover boys never make it, forget what you watch in the movies.