Greetings to the house.
i actually received a text message and sender claimed the test was a joke, The text was actually sent to me by my boyfriend and he claimed it was a joke. The textmessage does not relate to me in anyway because there was nothing like a disagreement between us.
THE TEXT GOES THUS----"U KNOW IT ISNT FAIR.U SWITCH OFF YOUR PHONE WHENEVER WE FIGHT. IT DRIVES ME CRAZY. WE SHOULD SETTLE DISPUTES WHENEVER THEY OCCUR NOT AGGRAVATE IT. I LOVE U SO MUCH SWEETHEART.""
We dont have any disagreement at all and i tried to ask him who has the text because it was so glaring that he mistakenly sent the text to me. Yet, he claimed the text was for me that he was actually trying to see how i will react to it, I find it hard to believe him, i feel he is lying to me.
What do i do

even a 5 year old child will tell you that your boyfriend was probably sending that text to another babe of his and mistakenly hit the send button on your number. wake up girl and sure it was a mistake it got to you. but surely peep will always have a suitable lie to tell.

it is a joke yes
the kain joke women joke wen you catch them with another man
that become their uncle, just friend, etc
so take heart, relatioship is all about jokes o jare

There is no sweet words for this Ur Guy is cheating on u

He would lie though, but watch him closely.

ettehgate:

relatioship is all about jokes o jare

really! i no know o
@ poster
dat ur guy no sabi lie at all (no offence) jus be more observant,and the truth wount be too far from you.

This one be joke like this? my sis this one na mis-sent message, but u know guys must be guys and they gaz to lie about it so take heart and be aware dat no be only u dey on board

i know he is lying cos i ve heard that line before and i was not buying any of it. i said point blank "u are lousy liar"

He should find a better lie,
He cheating on you girl

, you better rise up to the challenge before its too late, a word is enough for the wise,

@poster, tell your bf to contact me,I'll teach him how to liar without thinking. He no sabi scope.
If it's me, in two minutes, u go chop my lie

Eh ya, the broda just got things twisted.It happens though but take it easy with him aight.

The handwriting is clear - your guy is cheating

pull d same stunt on him and see his actions.

calmosas:

pull d same stunt on him and see his actions.

u took the words right out of ma mouth

@poster

Make yours a lot more raunchier

I said many times , there is noone sincere, they, men or women, are all cheating behind each others back. play along.

try him another test my dear, dont jump to conclusion pls

your boyfriend is a born liar, infact a bastard just beware okay?

Make yours a lot more raunchier

Am a man but i just dont know when some men will stop lying and stand to thier responsibility,even the deff and dumb can discover such lies,yeparipa ur man BORN LIAR SECOND TO DEVIL IN THE HIGHEST PLACES.

u didnt even need to put up the post to be able to tell. he is obviously cheating on u, and lying on top of that sef.

@poster

Wait till you catch him again

my own advise to you is for you to becareful because AIDS is real.Sharing yourboyfriend with another lady which you don't know is HIV status is too risky to your own health,it is not that he should not cheat but he should becareful.And moreso you can hardly know his plan now for you ,it is very glaring that the guy is cheating on you.You cannot expect you to tell you that sorry is for another babe ,the only thing he can do is to lie to you ,pls try two can play the game along with him.be nice to him like you use to do and be smart i think you understand ,avoid sex with him for now ,don't quarrell about it .gulity conscience will kill him

I think the guy might really have been joking. If he is a very humorous guy, then I guess that might occur funny to him and wanting to test you and all.

I have done worse, Believe me! Never judge a book by its cover, why not catch him red handed before making any decision(s).

@poster

Sometimes l wonder why most ladies bring up there home problems in public, please l will advice you pull off this topic immediately and go on your knee OK.

Jst take it as a joke from him but if you think this advice is not good enough then call it off and get a better guy that will not cheat on you. or are you saying you never cheat on him too? am sure you did jst that the result is yet to come up.

Take heart and move on part of live

Funke, I'm sure you're intelligent enough to know, that was no joke!

He's had a row with his "other bit on the side", and that text was intended for her.

I know you know he's cheating, but you'd rather not believe it, and try to come up with a logical explanation, as to the meaning of that text. But deep down, you know there's no other explanation, other than the obvious. . .

believe him that it was a joke but believe in yourself that the text was meant for somebody else mistakenly sent to yoy.U ve to watch him closely because u ll still caught him.take ur time in dong this.

joke

Omo u need to thank God for exposing that ewu to u.

Dont even let him try and wriggle himself out of this.

Another explanation could be, he sent it to you deliberately. He'll say it was a joke, knowing no one, not even an idiot child would believe that!

Then, he'll start trying to cajole you, (but not trying too hard). If you decide to end the relationship, he'll say you were the unreasonable one, who couldn't take a joke!

So, it COULD be he wants to end things, but hasn't the courage to do so.

Reverse psychology at work.