i have been dating a very young guy of my age for the past three years but the problem wit him is that he is not ready to take the relationship to another level.the worst part is that he gets scared of wedding gowns. fortunately or unfortunately for me, i met this guy who is ready to marry me but he has a daughter,although i dont have any problem wit him having a daughter but i am kind of confused cos i dont want to make a life time mistake.pls who do i choose

chose the one with plenty money,
flashy car, bigger JT, And you will not regret it.

[when babes don de talk like this, dem wan disappoint a guy be that]

@: creamdoll
Hummm!! this is serious!

We are talking about "young guy" & "A man with Kid"  me i'm also confuse!
but i suggest you choose from your heart  

another topic ,another woman needing help,i am gonna puke

@ hollandis
isn't that what the forum is all about ?? advisng people
i beg get lost & go puke somewhere else

@ Poster
you know the expression
the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know?
i can't advice you to do anything because it is your life
but if i was in your shoes i will stay with the guy that i love which will be probably be the 3 years old relationship guy

its funny nowadays dat ladies could not understand the nature of our country economy.Most guy in my age bracket are still trying to stand on their feet. it is not u man is afraid of marriage is just becos is trying to get something first be4 crossing the next level.
ladies need to start contributing to the man success, dont wait for him to get everything right be4 u cant him serious. help him out. it takes two to make relationship work not one. it is a mutual thing. so i advice you still be wit your man you knew since rather than the man with a daughter.
a word is enough for the wise.

sweetberry:

@ hollandis
isn't that what the foum is all about ?? advisng people
i beg get lost & go puke somewhere else

do u have to insult me.Am i not entitled to my opinion?and who says this forum is about advising people?anyway i understand where u are comin from.

well i didn't insult you i merely suggested u go & puke somewhere else

hollandis:

anyway i understand where u are comin from.

thank you

Oh mi Dios

well if u dnt mind choose me am available ready 4 marriage and with no kids

@ poster

when did you see him looking at wedding gowns

why is he sooooo scared about marriage? usually guys are not ready for marriage or commitment but it's not a usually a case phobia!

The guy with the kid may not be looking for a woman to love and be loved by. . . . he's probably looking for a cleaner, nanny, sex service. You get my drift?

personally I will take a step back from both guys and assess what it is I want from a guy, a man and then a husband. Rather than be available for some half arzed man.

lilrukevwe:

well if u dnt mind choose me am available ready 4 marriage and with no kids

Nice CV, just like mine. Poster the ball dey your court now.

You’re the one how is dating them so you should know which one of them takes you more seriously.

So my advise to you is that you follow your heart