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Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jul 10, 2012
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Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by GODSLOVE2(f): 11:49pm On Jul 10, 2012
na whoa oh,,,wonders will never stop ending,,,,,thank GOD FOR U MA,,,,,GOD WILL SURPRISE U BEYOND U EXPECT,,,GOD BLESS U AND GIVE U A DISCERNING SPIRIT.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Sike(m): 11:55pm On Jul 10, 2012
omotohdarajugbogbolo: u are very right gal. Met one of recent too. There are gold digger men everywhere angry angry angry angry angry angry angry
Abegi! Shattap there jor!!
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by subnormal: 12:04am On Jul 11, 2012
@dazzlingvixen, I feel u were really into the guy or would not have gone thru all the trouble to test him (shame the guy no code) you could have just ended the thing without wahala shikena!
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by antitpiah: 12:10am On Jul 11, 2012
@ OP who or what is the gold in this story? The wimpy p/u/s/s/y or the pesky /b/o/o/b/s or the Indian wig?
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by pleep(m): 12:14am On Jul 11, 2012
why is your name antitpia ....? undecided
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by realpeople: 12:22am On Jul 11, 2012
Who likes broken bottles? lol.....
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Dimples316(f): 12:26am On Jul 11, 2012
The poster's story sounds genuine to me and not something she made up, I don't understand why most of the guys here are girrating all over the thread and talking trash. There are male & female gold diggers, please deal with it guys and let us hear word.

@ dazzlingvixen

That was a really smart move and I give you credit for having enough sense to do what you did. Most of us (women) get carried away when we meet someone new and end up doing stupid things that only hurt us down the line,kudos and 25 gbosas to a woman who has a good head on her shoulders

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Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by overloved(m): 1:30am On Jul 11, 2012
so na the men be gold digger not women anymore? chai, the guy fu*k up. if i b the guy, i go manage your punny only then wait till you get anoda job so that we can eat your money together.

the guy really fu*k up abandon free punny at least
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by donaldunga(m): 2:09am On Jul 11, 2012
op if dis story iz nt a made up farce, then ur @ fault cos d guy myt av sensed dat u neva trusted hm, nd witout trust in a relationship, nufin is gona work, so d guy left. tym tickz sister no more TESTS OR EXAMZ. Unless u wan join uche ogbuagu'z list.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Burrito(f): 2:10am On Jul 11, 2012
@ op, so in short, you were living a lie. With plenty respect, i don't really get this sort of reasoning. If i were a guy i would dump any babe who i find has been lying to me for any reason. Trust is key. And then i would get even more livid, if i then learn that her lies were because she was trying to test me! Good for you that the guy was up to no good anyway, so you didn't lose anything. But be careful with all this testing testing, abeg. There's ways to discern someone's character without resorting to lies (at least major ones, lol), me thinks it could really backfire on you.

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Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by MacLovington(m): 2:53am On Jul 11, 2012
dazzlingvixen: I met a nice guy through a friend and we started seeing each for sometime. He was of the opinion that I was loaded since I had a good job. The love was looking too sweet to be real. He wasn't too ok financially and always told me about his problems and I told him money wasn't an issue for me in a relationship. And having been burnt once, I tested him.

I told him I lost my job and was broke. At first he didn't believe me. I also told him, that I had to sell my car to settle a family problem. After some weeks he started being convinced as I complained endlessly about my financial woes. Also I couldn't help him in any way. He encouraged me to find a new job but the love started waning. The excitement was no longer in his voice. Whenever I told him there was strong hope, his interest will increase. After about 4 weeks, my guy find another rich babe and waka fast fast.

For me, good riddance to a gold digger. Ladies be prudent and slow to run into relationships.
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Maybe you attract the wrong kind of men. The average Naija guy I know likes to spend on his babe even if he has to borrow to do so. I hope you don't flaunt your "wealth".

Be as it may, please help us advice zillions of gold-digging women out there to have mercy on us men. Now you see what we men have to go through in life. This kind of thread would not get even 10 responses if you were a guy. It is now seen as normal for ladies to milk us dry.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by MacLovington(m): 2:57am On Jul 11, 2012
Burrito: @ op, so in short, you were living a lie. With plenty respect, i don't really get this sort of reasoning. If i were a guy i would dump any babe who i find has been lying to me for any reason. Trust is key. And then i would get even more livid, if i then learn that her lies were because she was trying to test me! Good for you that the guy was up to no good anyway, so you didn't lose anything. But be careful with all this testing testing, abeg. There's ways to discern someone's character without resorting to lies (at least major ones, lol), me thinks it could really backfire on you.
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Next time let her test her guy with a 6-foot, curvaceous, lepacious, bootylicious fine baby to see if he's faithful or not. Her guy will chop clean mouth and even marry the babe sef. grin
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by edwardaigb: 4:37am On Jul 11, 2012
I hardly reply any post but was prompted to reply this. God bless your wisdom. I had a similar experience with a lady, i rented a shop for her and gave her 600k to start a saloon. When my biz was down she totally changed and almost made me distroyed my life. I dumped her even though i was pennyless, thank God, today, i am married to a much younger and comfortable princess with a boy and a girl and i am picking up wella. Some people are dogs.

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Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by 3rdparty: 4:45am On Jul 11, 2012
edwardaigb: I hardly reply any post but was prompted to reply this. God bless your wisdom. I had a similar experience with a lady, i rented a shop for her and gave her 600k to start a saloon. When my biz was down she totally changed and almost made me distroyed my life. I dumped her even though i was pennyless, thank God, today, i am married to a much younger and comfortable princess with a boy and a girl and i am picking up wella. Some people are dogs.

Well, its your own fault. A woman cannot be called yours until she is married to you.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by dotna(m): 5:46am On Jul 11, 2012
Do not test anybody cos its morally wrong. U can ask every married couples who tried it. It is normal for the partner to fail the test. Those who passed left d relationship cos of distrust for testing his or her character. Only God has d right to test d hearts of men and women. Peace !
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by obo389(m): 6:12am On Jul 11, 2012
dazzlingvixen: 190 na only pesin wey no know u wld take u serious. There's nothing wrong in chopping both but I have to be sure that if the money goes, u will still stay.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by obo389(m): 6:24am On Jul 11, 2012
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Babe,you re on point abeg.no mind 190.i totally agree wit you.loosn on both ends?At least u evn giv urslf brain to knw d kind of guy u wer dealn wit vis a vis the testin.
One more thing,because dis testn wrkd for u on dis guy dnt mean it wil wrk on some other guys.dis guy gbe ja for fear of multi responsibility.others may stil run buh stil ve gud intentions for fear of the aftermath.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by warrior01: 6:35am On Jul 11, 2012
Even there are inconsistencies in this your story but have you asked yourself why you keep attracting only leeches and never do wells to your side? I'm asking this cos i'm yet to see a true naija guy that wouldn't want to impress his babe especially in a new relationship. Secondly, how come the guy got to know how much you are earning but found it difficult knowing whether you've been truly sacked? Lastly, since the relationship was very young, has it ever occured to you that the guy find you incompatible and thereafter left and not necessary because of your money.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Ukpaianthony(m): 6:37am On Jul 11, 2012
Just passing una weldone oh,this case is even worst amongst Girls,a lot of girls specialise in this field all they want is money,thumps up Guy,my guy no want liability!! Lol
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Nobody: 7:37am On Jul 11, 2012
"Op,...As e meet richer babe, na that one dey pain you?

Omo go hug transformer!!

You don't eat your cake and have it...
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by joyceok: 7:40am On Jul 11, 2012
dazzlingvixen:

Dis wld be d simplest test of my life then cos I don't mind living in a hut with u and eating palm kernel.

Na lie, now that you have BB9800 and BB Porsche,IPad, vibrator ,Honda Bullet or Jeep..and knowing that an average naija girl likes the good things of life...You will definitely look for very rich business man(wether single,separated,married or divorced and living in Banana Island) to marry you perhaps when you are approaching 40yrs and they would also pretend that their business has gone down the drain to test if you really love them....
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Nobody: 7:50am On Jul 11, 2012
"Op,

Kai!! that ur guy no sharp at all...

Na ur type I dey like...wey think say them too sharp to set Test and Exam for guymen...

I go pass pass ur test and so shine shine your congo wella b4 I waka... grin
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by sayso: 8:13am On Jul 11, 2012
wetin be all this nonsense story,that na better lie.@OP you just dey lie.within four weeks the guy will know if you are still working.abi you arrange the farouk/ote$ act with your boss so you won't go to work?
Guy dey gold dig,girl dey gold dig, so wetin happen?
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by dabrake(m): 8:17am On Jul 11, 2012
dazzlingvixen: I met a nice guy through a friend and we started seeing each for sometime. He was of the opinion that I was loaded since I had a good job. The love was looking too sweet to be real. He wasn't too ok financially and always told me about his problems and I told him money wasn't an issue for me in a relationship. And having been burnt once, I tested him.

I told him I lost my job and was broke. At first he didn't believe me. I also told him, that I had to sell my car to settle a family problem. After some weeks he started being convinced as I complained endlessly about my financial woes. Also I couldn't help him in any way. He encouraged me to find a new job but the love started waning. The excitement was no longer in his voice. Whenever I told him there was strong hope, his interest will increase. After about 4 weeks, my guy find another rich babe and waka fast fast.

For me, good riddance to a gold digger. Ladies be prudent and slow to run into relationships.
you did well. he is a bloody fool as far as I'm concerned. pride won't even allow a normal guy to do that. he is such a lazy arsehole who should be ditched to the abyss.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by gabriel74: 8:27am On Jul 11, 2012
Girls does that the most,intact on a daily basis, The comment they know that a guy is not financially Ok.They tactically ran away.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by mki: 8:36am On Jul 11, 2012
@OP: I think the peoblem is that you are only looking for someone to love you, money or no money. You are not looking for someone to love, money or no money.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by omotohdarajugbogbolo: 8:37am On Jul 11, 2012
Sike:
Abegi! Shattap there jor!!

^^^^^^GOLD DIGGER grin grin
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by superior1: 8:40am On Jul 11, 2012
@OP, it never occurred to you the guy probably got to know you were lying about the Job or saw your car where you hid it and left you because of the lies. If i am dating a girl and discovered she lied to me like you did to the guy, I will dump her arse and all those gold digging stories go be her headache

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Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by swiftycool(m): 9:03am On Jul 11, 2012
First time am hearing this occurence from a girl and it seems so exciting, this kind of stories with the guy as subject occurs everyday and has actually become sort of a cliche. If it had been the other way round girls would have been attacking the guy 4 being dishonest like on some thread wayback! Shior
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Nezan(m): 9:54am On Jul 11, 2012
dazzlingvixen:

Did I hit a nerve sir. U sound really pissed. Is someone not allowed to read ur posts and have a good laff. Or was I supposed to cry after reading it. And since when did the term pocket lawyer become a derogatory one. Hmmm. Inhales deeply and exhales. =))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=))

Young lady, you have a very terrible way of concluding on situations. I was only trying to advise you as an elderly man. What stake do I have on an anonymous online forum that your comment will hit a nerve with me? You are quite young but in about less than 7yrs time, my advise will become useful to you.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by olaojo: 10:02am On Jul 11, 2012
Guys, I think there are factors one needs consider b4 you start down casting OP former BF
1) Who made the first move at d start of d reltnship and what weapon did d starter employ (Car, Money , wisdom or what).
2) If OP is aged, OP's BF (younger) is most likely to exibit same as stated by OP.
3) Another thing is Ego, who claims to be in charge.

These are points to be clarify b4 jumpin into any conclusion.

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