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Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by t4thayour: 5:07pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
nep2ra: Otapiapia inside your boss's cup of tea will quiet him down for a looooooooong time. |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by t4thayour: 5:11pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
Emancipate urself from mental slavery... 1 Like |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by RiffRaff: 5:12pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
ayo jango: When I was in d bank my boss uses words like R u mad,u fool,no brains,daft and I waited for a day I would strike him I doff my Hat.. Nice Reaction. Respect man! |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by slimming: 5:12pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
my own is worse, this woman am working with will insult me from morning till evening , she will say am lousy ,am this am that, come to think of it this is one of the reputable oil and gas company and all of us including her begged to apply, this woman will call me at home once the management are on her head and start blaming me for her mistakes, on tuesday she made me to cry infront of my kids laying abuses on me for her own mistakes. i wish God can just provide another job for me so that i can take walk immediately, becos the whole thing is telling on me. she will tell me that no one is indisposable that she can sack me but one thing she dosent know is that her sack is not putting fear on me. she made me hate muslims be she covers herself from hair to toe but equity and fairness is far from her dictionary, i have other people in my department but they are all muslims except me. the day they changed my former boss and brought her to texaco i was happy but barely few months she started showing me her stuff forgeting that no office is permanent, the only permanent thing in this life is death since you are not ready to resign bare it. |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by JAkpayen(m): 5:30pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
my own is worse, this woman am working with will insult me from morning till evening , she will say am lousy ,am this am that, come to think of it this is one of the reputable oil and gas company and all of us including her begged to apply, this woman will call me at home once the management are on her head and start blaming me for her mistakes, on tuesday she made me to cry infront of my kids laying abuses on me for her own mistakes. i wish God can just provide another job for me so that i can take walk immediately, becos the whole thing is telling on me. she will tell me that no one is indisposable that she can sack me but one thing she dosent know is that her sack is not putting fear on me. she made me hate muslims be she covers herself from hair to toe but equity and fairness is far from her dictionary, i have other people in my department but they are all muslims except me. the day they changed my former boss and brought her to texaco i was happy but barely few months she started showing me her stuff forgeting that no office is permanent, the only permanent thing in this life is death Guy your own is even better, imagine today my ma'am in the office told me that I'm brain dead 'cos it's just 0.01% of the large transactions that were wrong coming from another person's input which affected my work. I'm preparing seriously to leave and I've gone as far as marking the day I'll leave on the calendar. |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by Nobody: 5:35pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
A lot of people forget no condition is permanent. Some1 who is your boss today, maybe your employee tomorrow, so when your boss is being mean to you fantasize about that 1 Like |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by desertboom(m): 5:37pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
why is most of the abuses coming from female boss? Na waooo |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by spicyv1(f): 5:38pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
Peaches90: I once worked @ a company in Surulere, I've never met a more horrible person than the 'CEO'---Adebo. |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by Afam4eva(m): 5:41pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
desertboom: why is most of the abuses coming from female boss? Na waoooMe sef dey wonder. I thought female bosses would be more gentle. |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by spicyv1(f): 5:41pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
ayo jango: When I was in d bank my boss uses words like R u mad,u fool,no brains,daft and I waited for a day I would strike him Oh my gawd lol! Seriously? My oh my! Mehn guts is all we need o! You weren't even fired! Wooow! |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by olumidazz: 5:50pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
Let's start by posting the names of those vampires here. |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by Nobody: 5:50pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
afam4eva: you never jam if the female boss is in a happy marriage maybe - outside of that you will see transferred aggression like its going out of style 1 Like |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by spicyv1(f): 5:57pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
Wow! All θf the threads made me realise that the topic is a very severe issue! I mean, employees are not some bunch θf insignificant slaves been done a favor, employees offer valuable services that is why they were hired in the first place! Seriously now, how can we solve this demoralizing issue? I also want to suggest that if you are not ready to loose your job, please DO NOT post the names θf your abusive bosses or the company as they may just stumble on your post and the consequence may be one you aren't prepared for. please let's talk suggestions on how we can deal with these bosses!!! Anything other than "stay calm and bear, or quit and be your own boss", will suffice. Cheers. 1 Like |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by olumidazz: 6:22pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
12 years ago I worked as an associate for some big money boys in v.I, one of them was so proud and abusive, having no regard for etiquettes, or work place principles, I remember how he deducted my salary 4 6 months to buy another laptop that was damaged, his reason was that I was the last to use the laptop, today d same guy always patronising and lobbying in my office 4 contracts cos I got an appointment with state govt. 3 Likes |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by oobim(m): 6:34pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
I used to have one morafukcn b.astard as a boss.A fat olodo wey no finish high schl(stil wonda hw he became a billionaire).d smelly fool insulted me n evryone else every day.I poured my mind b4 i left him(he cudnt believ anyone cud challenge him.they security had to bundle me out).he has managers,yet,he makes every decision.nobody prospers under him.a deeper life,but wicked and evil.i wish i could put hs name.he fukcs late Okadigbo's young wife and hes first lady's man.dem dey give am contract like water |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by poj(m): 6:45pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
All these happening in an organisation? I must be missing something for being on my own all this while. Chei |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by fankasibe: 6:51pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
I once had a boss who always say to me 'what is d relationship btw u and my daughter' 'i don't like u looking at my daughter like that' 'must u always ask for salary everymonth?' my boss is a womanizer, he once dated my girl fwend telling me i'm too small to keep one. |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by Les: 6:53pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
Make hunger kill me but i can't be alive and get such intimidations. Insult me if you like, na me hold your mouth? But touch not ma salary and do ma money no harm, if not am gon raise hell for dat so called boss. I can go to d extent of paralyzing him/her for him/her to be alive and bear d pain he/she has caused ppl. |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by bigx(m): 6:56pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
Watching with Pop-Corn n Coke, 3D Glasses on 1 Like |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by fankasibe: 7:10pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
My Big Boss(illitrate) use to speak some bloody english, he use to write his vacancies like dis: 'SAEL BOY IS NEDEED HER, APLY IN PASON, SALARY IS ATRATIV'.... I even uploaded d sign post on my facebook 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by Abyjah: 7:38pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
fankasibe: My Big Boss(illitrate) use to speak some bloody english, he use to write his vacancies like dis:Lol, not even the gods can decipher such atrocious gibberish. If you want to deal with your boss, come to my shrine-- *thinking* I can make 'it' an imbe if you want. 1 Like |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
fxtimi: I have a boss from hell too. She owes us salaries like its nothing,still has the effrontery to insult at will and flaunts her supposed wealth in our face(where's the wealth when she owe everyone?). For her,no crude stuff like "in your family do people blablabla" or f bombs. She will say some things that will leave you in no doubt that you're being put down e.g. "I believe that logic is one of the first things they teach you in primary school, what primary school did you attend by the way?" and some other crazy stuff. She not only owes salaries but owes banks and our vendors as well.I surely know who you are talking about, let me give u a clue, your office is at Ikeja... Right? 1 Like |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by benvivi: 8:09pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
JAkpayen: |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by Nobody: 9:25pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
Anoda mudafvcka i'll mention is ....dont wanna mention it,he's a devil,he owes Staffs salaries as if its going out of fashion.he pays salaries only at midnite,and u mustnt spend it within the company.he's fetish.he sacks at will,and the company is at Antony village. |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by spicyv1(f): 9:52pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
poj: All these happening in an organisation? I must be missing something for being on my own all this while. Chei Is your business still at the teething stage or you have people reporting to you? If not I believe you would want to grow to the point θf having employees. Then pay attention to whats been shared on this thread so you will not be under the category θf the bosses mentioned on this thread. |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by bigx(m): 9:59pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
spicy v: I've a couple of people on my payroll with 3 reporting directly to me & I'm yet to see myself in these posts, maybe I'm doing something wrong? spicy v: I've a couple of people on my payroll with 3 reporting directly to me & I'm yet to see myself in these posts, maybe I'm doing something wrong? |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by inice(m): 10:36pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
spicy v:I also had the same dreadful horrible horrendous situation with my boss. He once called me evil. I prayed and prayed. Now ve got a job tyms 4 of d pay. Hallelujah! |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by chievo: 10:41pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
Mine was sth i cudnt explain,i used 2 teach in a sch were am more qualified dan my boss,bt i wasnt bothered cos age wise,shes far older dan me,she wl insult teachers in sch everyday dat fellow colleagues cry 4 her abuses,she has a way of makn u feel so wretched n she wl make u leak her feet,as a grad in lagos,i was paid 13000naria bt she wl make sure u dnt get d whole salary by month end,she reduces our salary at anytym she lks bt peeps,d truth is she hardly speaks correct English,she even asks d male teacher out n if u refuse,ur salary wl b gone,d funniest thing is dat d nearest police station is her 2nd office,immediately i got another oppourtunity,i ran n didnt luk back n i even left my 1 month salary wt her n i wasnt bothered at al,i thanked God i came out of there in 1 piece |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by spicyv1(f): 12:06am On Jul 14, 2012 |
bigx: Good to know you aren't on any θf the posts or maybe your employees are yet to dicover nairaland or this thread? Just wondering!!! (Wink) |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by spicyv1(f): 12:08am On Jul 14, 2012 |
inice: I rejoice with you darlain, lol. You shall keep soaring higher dear. |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by spicyv1(f): 12:10am On Jul 14, 2012 |
chievo: Mine was sth i cudnt explain,i used 2 teach in a sch were am more qualified dan my boss,bt i wasnt bothered cos age wise,shes far older dan me,she wl insult teachers in sch everyday dat fellow colleagues cry 4 her abuses,she has a way of makn u feel so wretched n she wl make u leak her feet,as a grad in lagos,i was paid 13000naria bt she wl make sure u dnt get d whole salary by month end,she reduces our salary at anytym she lks bt peeps,d truth is she hardly speaks correct English,she even asks d male teacher out n if u refuse,ur salary wl b gone,d funniest thing is dat d nearest police station is her 2nd office,immediately i got another oppourtunity,i ran n didnt luk back n i even left my 1 month salary wt her n i wasnt bothered at al,i thanked God i came out of there in 1 piece I am more thankful to God on your behalf dear. The best awaits you! |
Re: Emotionally Abusive Bosses!!! by aieromon(m): 12:21am On Jul 14, 2012 |
Hmm,I thought I was the only one that experienced this mental abuse from a superior. Like a wise woman once told me,the adversity of a superior towards your work performance will only strengthen your desire to be prosperous and reach greater heights.Just tell yourself its time to move on and you'll be amazed at the fantastic opportunities out there. Damn the unknown and take a bold leap of faith. 1 Like |
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