most girls are quick to label d male folk as 'bad' due to one reason or the other. As a lady have u taken time to examine yourself very well? What is that thing you are not doing right? I tink love beget love, trust beget trust and so on. Pls lets do what is right at all times in order to get the best out of them.

O ye ambassador for girls scout

U dey work o! See speech

Point taken

@poster,is that a question or a comment

@OP, Its clear those girls that that are quick to label some men as bad are those that have had their fair share of 'bad men'

@ poster, what do you think 'we' should do to get the best outta them?

angiemartinez: most girls are quick to label d male folk as 'bad' due to one reason or the other. As a lady have u taken time to examine yourself very well? What is that thing you are not doing right? I tink love beget love, trust beget trust and so on. Pls lets do what is right at all times in order to get the best out of them.

Lol...well I hope u never experience a bad one for ur sake, ur the kind of person see him in bed with another woman and blame urself for working too many hours...Lol...accident waiting to happen

chukwuinya: @poster,is that a question or a comment

Trying to let you know that it takes two to tango.

Latrice699@gmail.com:
Lol...well I hope u never experience a bad one for ur sake, ur the kind of person see him in bed with another woman and blame urself for working too many hours...Lol...accident waiting to happen

Truth is, in any and every situation, both party has their own share of the blame.

Tyche:
Truth is, in any and every situation, both party has their own share of the blame.

That might be rue but some people are just bad. So who do we blame in that case?

Mynd_44:
That might be rue but some people are just bad. So who do we blame in that case?

In relationship, you have to be ruthless in the sense that if you notice certain bad traits in your partner that you cant cope with, just walk.
Otherwise, if you keep holding on, hoping for change, you will have only yourself to blame.

Guys are bad ,

Girls are worse

tobechi20: Guys are bad ,

Girls are worse

SMH

i was talkn to a frnd 2day abt her man, all she said was all abt his bad. I listend carefuly n i askd her wat role she playd in d whole episode n all she said was 'meee, no i gave him a piece of my mind o. We dig am no b small', 2 me it wouldnt have generatd 2 dat if she had mayb walk away n come bak later 2 addres it. She is fond of doin it. If d guy later changes his mind 4 smone else, d next tin she wil say is guys r bad, after al we av been tru he left me for anoda gurl.

Good questions, @ poster.

From most of the female comments on this thread, do women have a problem admitting they might have made errors?

tpia@:
From most of the female comments on this thread, do women have a problem admitting they might have made errors?

Everybody have problems admitting they made errors. That is why "I am sorry" is so difficult to say

We are not on the same page sweetie.

Read the first post and my question again.

I believe the topic is about self evaluation, not saying sorry.

Sorry is just a word, to the best of my knowledge.

Maybe you need another thread to discuss the matter?

If you want to open it, no problem

angiemartinez: i was talkn to a frnd 2day abt her man, all she said was all abt his bad. I listend carefuly n i askd her wat role she playd in d whole episode n all she said was 'meee, no i gave him a piece of my mind o. We dig am no b small', 2 me it wouldnt have generatd 2 dat if she had mayb walk away n come bak later 2 addres it. She is fond of doin it. If d guy later changes his mind 4 smone else, d next tin she wil say is guys r bad, after al we av been tru he left me for anoda gurl.

Me like this. Its obvious that this your friend in question is the querrulous type and when the trouble comes, she'll be the one crying fowl. T'was good you tried talking to her thou, show you're a good friend

Mynd_44: If you want to open it, no problem

is this what you were referring to:

https://www.nairaland.com/17785/im-sorry

please clarify.

It has really not been guys fault, its just the work of the devil

Noted!

tpia@:


is this what you were referring to:

https://www.nairaland.com/17785/im-sorry

please clarify.

No

::Andrew:::
It has really not been guys fault, its just the work of the devil

devviillll? Pls leave him out of this.

angiemartinez:
devviillll? Pls leave him out of this.

The guy will soon start suing people for libel

angiemartinez: most girls are quick to label d male folk as 'bad' due to one reason or the other. As a lady have u taken time to examine yourself very well? What is that thing you are not doing right? I tink love beget love, trust beget trust and so on. Pls lets do what is right at all times in order to get the best out of them.

ehen...

Tyche:
Truth is, in any and every situation, both party has their own share of the blame.

If a man cheat just because of horniness and lack of self discipline....his partner is at fault how? Nope sometimes one person can accept all the blame...

My friend wanted to settle down, instead ended up dating one animal who was immature and insecure. When he met her, he went on about how she was a good girl and different and this girl (who really is a nice girl) wanted to be the best chick for him. He dealt with her as if she was the one who hurt him in the past or chopped his money. She became frantic trying to please this disgusting creature. He was selfish, he would demand intimacy then get angry and accuse her of causing him to almost cheat on her, tell her their rel was never exclusive (even though he was the one that insisted on exclusivity), get mad at her if she wanted to see him to hang out, though they had not seen in 3 weeks, she got him a gift on val's day and even bought him credit on her small salary, he never bought her anything or took her anywhere that cost him more than N1000 (and he worked for an oil company, she worked in government). He never praised her for anything and when she complained about it, said it was her fault (everything in the rel was her fault to him) because he would want to say something nice, but she would "do something to annoy him". She eventually gave into his demands, and guess what? He broke up with her for having low self-esteem and being too emotional. Had she been as selfish as all the girls guys come on NL to complain about, he would have loved her. Mschewwww

Yes, guys are really that bad. I just found out that one of my family friends is sneaking behind his wife's back to tell one of my friends "he was forced into marriage". That one was innocently thinking the guy was showing up at her house for counselling, I had to open her eyes that he was looking to cheat on his pregnant wife.

There are many men out there, very few husbands.

There are bad people everywhere regardless of whatever sex they are. In life, we meet people, we learn lessons and we move on. Life is not fair sometimes.