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here pls

we are still in business, we are just a phone call away...

we are still in business, we are just a phone call away...

we are still in business

we are still in business

can u imagine this animal was cut by rope trap, and the owner is selling it for food, in your opinion do you think its good to eat this big reptile? and what is it called in ur language for example in Yoruba: aworinwom, alegba, anta etc... let's have yours

even PDP faced and resolved so many crises within their sixteen years of reign b4 they finally got it all wrong, this is just a storm in the APC which will soon be over, personally I don't see APC dying now

Dragonking:
Rape+incest+juju+thuggery+terrorism+419= South West

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IDIOT!

we will be delivering 5 trailer loads of granite to Festac extension, Festac town Lagos, today. Anywhere you want yours, we are just a phone call away...

we will be delivering 5 trailer loads of granite to Festac extension, Festac town Lagos, today. Anywhere you want yours, we are just a phone call away...

we will be delivering 5 trailer loads of granite to Festac extension, Festac town Lagos, today. Anywhere you want yours, we are just a phone call away...

we will be delivering 5 trailer loads of granite to Festac extension, Festac town Lagos, today. Anywhere you want yours, we are just a phone call away...

even a business and complementary cards, some mini personal belonging that carries our identity is not left out too, when we miss place things we should also report it to the police.

pls send bro paul story to the Mount Zion Faith Ministry for the benefit of the Christians and the church of God

well, canada still seem the best to me personally, a peaceful and economically strong country.

we are simply at your service

we are simply at your service

we are simply at your service

we are simply at your service.

Adaobi12:
can I date you plsss can I date you plsss

if only u are a virgine
lol

i do not agree with u

1. Uncover the cause of the affair. Barring
sexual addiction or individual pathology, affairs
tend to be symptomatic of a relational problem.
It is therefore essential to uncover the
underlying problem as quickly as possible in
order to de-escalate relational strife—which
exacerbates the offender’s need to take solace
in a lover’s arms.

2. Consider your history. Affairs runs in
families. If, for example, one of your parents had
an affair you may model this behavior in real
time in an effort to get your needs met. Learning
to be assertive and express your desires directly
can be helpful in breaking this generational
transmission process.

3. The offender must take responsibility for
having the affair. If the offending partner fails to
show remorse, the probability for reparation is
slim. The same can be said if the offender
refuses to apologize. The expression of anger
alone provides less opportunity for healing.

4. The non-offending spouse must accept
responsibility for making a contribution to the
system that produced the affair. Because an
affair is often symptomatic of a dysfunctional
relationship dynamic both parties probably have
—in some way—contributed to the dynamic. A
refusal on the victim’s part to take
responsibility may only serve to fuel the
offender’s anger, and justify the act of betrayal
in the offender’s mind. Unfortunately, too many
victims view this systemic concept as “blaming
the victim.”

5. Each partner should have a chance to vent.
Most offending mates want to repress
discussion of the affair. However, the victimized
partner should be allowed an appropriate
amount of time to vent feelings, including anger.
Time is up, however, if venting is used primarily
as a battering ram to humiliate and torture the
offender. The offending partner should be
allowed to register complaints against the mate
and the marital system.

6. Empathize with one another. Because it
usually takes two to produce an affair, it might
be more helpful to openly recognize and
acknowledge the pain each of you are
experiencing.

7. Don’t retaliate in kind against the offending
spouse. Some couples turn an affair into a
power struggle. If your partner has cheated try
not to respond in kind; this may only put the
so-called “nail in the coffin” of your relationship.
If you’re ego-dystonic with cheating, you may
only shame yourself by your retribution.

8. Remember the good times. Try not to forget
the pleasant experiences you shared with your
partner. Waxing nostalgic sometimes
encourages a greater effort to save a
relationship.

9. The offending spouse should stop all contact
with the lover. The offending partner must cease
all contact with the lover. This is essential to
rebuilding trust in the primary relationship. If the
offender has dabbled in the workplace, quitting
or transferring to another department might be
a welcomed sign of marital loyalty, if
economically feasible of course.

10. The victimized spouse should never pursue
the partner’s lover. The idea is to de-triangulate
the lover not bring the lover deeper into your
relationship. The problem lies between the two
spouses and should be kept there. Besides,
confronting your partner’s lover might prove to
be dangerous.

11. Keep the lines of communication open.
Because our society seems to hold a certain
fascination with affairs, it’ll be hard to escape
the past. Television, movies, music, and even
some random gossip will serve as reminders of
your trauma. It’s important for each partner to
remain patient and empathic, and to continue to
allow for productive discussion on the topic as
the need arises. Repression may enable a
festering of the problem.
If you and your partner can successfully
negotiate these eleven steps perhaps each of
you will forgive yourselves and one another for
the trauma of the affair. It won’t be easy—it’ll
take a maximum effort on both sides to save the
relationship—and only the two of you can decide
whether it’s worth the effort.

Be free to add your own ideas and soluti

l1. Uncover the cause of the affair. Barring
sexual addiction or individual pathology, affairs
tend to be symptomatic of a relational problem.
It is therefore essential to uncover the
underlying problem as quickly as possible in
order to de-escalate relational strife—which
exacerbates the offender’s need to take solace
in a lover’s arms.

2. Consider your history. Affairs runs in
families. If, for example, one of your parents had
an affair you may model this behavior in real
time in an effort to get your needs met. Learning
to be assertive and express your desires directly
can be helpful in breaking this generational
transmission process.

3. The offender must take responsibility for
having the affair. If the offending partner fails to
show remorse, the probability for reparation is
slim. The same can be said if the offender
refuses to apologize. The expression of anger
alone provides less opportunity for healing.

4. The non-offending spouse must accept
responsibility for making a contribution to the
system that produced the affair. Because an
affair is often symptomatic of a dysfunctional
relationship dynamic both parties probably have
—in some way—contributed to the dynamic. A
refusal on the victim’s part to take
responsibility may only serve to fuel the
offender’s anger, and justify the act of betrayal
in the offender’s mind. Unfortunately, too many
victims view this systemic concept as “blaming
the victim.”

5. Each partner should have a chance to vent.
Most offending mates want to repress
discussion of the affair. However, the victimized
partner should be allowed an appropriate
amount of time to vent feelings, including anger.
Time is up, however, if venting is used primarily
as a battering ram to humiliate and torture the
offender. The offending partner should be
allowed to register complaints against the mate
and the marital system.

6. Empathize with one another. Because it
usually takes two to produce an affair, it might
be more helpful to openly recognize and
acknowledge the pain each of you are
experiencing.

7. Don’t retaliate in kind against the offending
spouse. Some couples turn an affair into a
power struggle. If your partner has cheated try
not to respond in kind; this may only put the
so-called “nail in the coffin” of your relationship.
If you’re ego-dystonic with cheating, you may
only shame yourself by your retribution.

8. Remember the good times. Try not to forget
the pleasant experiences you shared with your
partner. Waxing nostalgic sometimes
encourages a greater effort to save a
relationship.

9. The offending spouse should stop all contact
with the lover. The offending partner must cease
all contact with the lover. This is essential to
rebuilding trust in the primary relationship. If the
offender has dabbled in the workplace, quitting
or transferring to another department might be
a welcomed sign of marital loyalty, if
economically feasible of course.

10. The victimized spouse should never pursue
the partner’s lover. The idea is to de-triangulate
the lover not bring the lover deeper into your
relationship. The problem lies between the two
spouses and should be kept there. Besides,
confronting your partner’s lover might prove to
be dangerous.

11. Keep the lines of communication open.
Because our society seems to hold a certain
fascination with affairs, it’ll be hard to escape
the past. Television, movies, music, and even
some random gossip will serve as reminders of
your trauma. It’s important for each partner to
remain patient and empathic, and to continue to
allow for productive discussion on the topic as
the need arises. Repression may enable a
festering of the problem.
If you and your partner can successfully
negotiate these eleven steps perhaps each of
you will forgive yourselves and one another for
the trauma of the affair. It won’t be easy—it’ll
take a maximum effort on both sides to save the
relationship—and only the two of you can decide
whether it’s worth the effort.
Be free to add your own ideas and solution...

KanwuliaJara:
What if some of us don't want to recover?
Na by force?

Habba! at least you will want save your marriage...

1. Uncover the cause of the affair. Barring
sexual addiction or individual pathology, affairs
tend to be symptomatic of a relational problem.
It is therefore essential to uncover the
underlying problem as quickly as possible in
order to de-escalate relational strife—which
exacerbates the offender’s need to take solace
in a lover’s arms.

2. Consider your history. Affairs runs in
families. If, for example, one of your parents had
an affair you may model this behavior in real
time in an effort to get your needs met. Learning
to be assertive and express your desires directly
can be helpful in breaking this generational
transmission process.

3. The offender must take responsibility for
having the affair. If the offending partner fails to
show remorse, the probability for reparation is
slim. The same can be said if the offender
refuses to apologize. The expression of anger
alone provides less opportunity for healing.

4. The non-offending spouse must accept
responsibility for making a contribution to the
system that produced the affair. Because an
affair is often symptomatic of a dysfunctional
relationship dynamic both parties probably have
—in some way—contributed to the dynamic. A
refusal on the victim’s part to take
responsibility may only serve to fuel the
offender’s anger, and justify the act of betrayal
in the offender’s mind. Unfortunately, too many
victims view this systemic concept as “blaming
the victim.”

5. Each partner should have a chance to vent.
Most offending mates want to repress
discussion of the affair. However, the victimized
partner should be allowed an appropriate
amount of time to vent feelings, including anger.
Time is up, however, if venting is used primarily
as a battering ram to humiliate and torture the
offender. The offending partner should be
allowed to register complaints against the mate
and the marital system.

6. Empathize with one another. Because it
usually takes two to produce an affair, it might
be more helpful to openly recognize and
acknowledge the pain each of you are
experiencing.

7. Don’t retaliate in kind against the offending
spouse. Some couples turn an affair into a
power struggle. If your partner has cheated try
not to respond in kind; this may only put the
so-called “nail in the coffin” of your relationship.
If you’re ego-dystonic with cheating, you may
only shame yourself by your retribution.

8. Remember the good times. Try not to forget
the pleasant experiences you shared with your
partner. Waxing nostalgic sometimes
encourages a greater effort to save a
relationship.

9. The offending spouse should stop all contact
with the lover. The offending partner must cease
all contact with the lover. This is essential to
rebuilding trust in the primary relationship. If the
offender has dabbled in the workplace, quitting
or transferring to another department might be
a welcomed sign of marital loyalty, if
economically feasible of course.

10. The victimized spouse should never pursue
the partner’s lover. The idea is to de-triangulate
the lover not bring the lover deeper into your
relationship. The problem lies between the two
spouses and should be kept there. Besides,
confronting your partner’s lover might prove to
be dangerous.

11. Keep the lines of communication open.
Because our society seems to hold a certain
fascination with affairs, it’ll be hard to escape
the past. Television, movies, music, and even
some random gossip will serve as reminders of
your trauma. It’s important for each partner to
remain patient and empathic, and to continue to
allow for productive discussion on the topic as
the need arises. Repression may enable a
festering of the problem.
If you and your partner can successfully
negotiate these eleven steps perhaps each of
you will forgive yourselves and one another for
the trauma of the affair. It won’t be easy—it’ll
take a maximum effort on both sides to save the
relationship—and only the two of you can decide
whether it’s worth the effort.

Be free to add your own ideas and solution...

murphyrichy:
chai, I like listening to Baba's talk, he's always funny. you knew all these while that Oga Jonathan didn't finish his PHD and yet u said nothing. you're part of the corruption itself.

Abi oo

I repeat: May God Help Nigeria!

Mean while lets look into the other party for our presidential candidate now... to me both Buhari and Jonathan are not the kind of men we need to move this nation forward except we want to consider a lesser evil. Jonathan government is cruel and tough extorting the masses, making life difficult as the cost of all things have gone sky high and totally out of the rich of the poor masses e.g: Naira to Dollar, fuel price increase highest in the history of Nigeria, Drivers Lincense is around 15000 naira now, number plate registration is now like never that is between 35k to 45k, high electricity bill, more life loss in his government like never before, corruption in its peak, and from all indication a promise of more hardship to come if he continue to reign. In the case of Buhari, this is another serious issue to be careful about, i don't see him as a nationalist or a competent fellow for this great seat. According to the records he is also corrupt, and look like a man campaigning to use what he consider as small lies to tackle and conquer great lies which i do not see working out. In all sincerity he does not even own the past noble anti corruption records but the late Gen Idi Agbon. Now we can all see how he is already promoting corruption trying to establish his government on the foundation of corruption, by swearing false avid -a-fit, forging certificate, telling series of lies etc. Education is highly important for growth and development in all sector and he has non, His extremism in the area of religion with no respect for others which could lead to a serious religious war if care is not taken, Example: Nigeria is not a Muslim country as it contain people of many religion, and how can he proclaimed they will not rest until sharia is enforce in every judicial court in Nigeria, what of traditional worshipers law, what of christian laws and i tell you this is also as a result of his lack of Education. (IT IS RISKY TO LEAVE POWER IN THE HAND OF AN UNEDUCATED MAN IN THE MIST OF ELITES) (RELIGION & POLITICS ARE GREAT DISCOVERY OF MAN, BUT WHEN MIXED TOGETHER IS DEADLY AND DESTRUCTIVE). there is every possibility of him being partial in spending our National money more in the North than other places. My campaign is consider other parties or at least vote for lesser evil. MAY GOD HELP NIGERIA.

HBD

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