₦airaland Forum

raumdeuter:
Sometimes the parent like some of the cultures and want their kids to identify with the culture and tradition, But in many cases, in those traditions what is behind 6 is more than 7. There are good part but there are many bad parts too. And the unprepared children who are somehow distant from the village won't know before hand

I'm all for letting people know their culture the problem is most African parents do not tell them the good, bad and ugly of it.

If they have no good relatives that they have been spending their life avoiding why then in your dying years do you go and die in their midst while their kids have to bear the brunt of it all. They can decide to be buried wherever death meet you. E no compulsory say e must be village

The kkds that they deliberately kept from the village why not go the whole 9 instead of half stepping? This is the eye service that I don't like.

raumdeuter:
Omoh my guy wey be Cameroonian the English speaking part when to bury the mom recently the expenses no be here. They told him all the debt the mom was owing must be paid before she can be buried. Every extended family brought massive bill. He needed to complete house his mom started where he will never live and his kids will never enter

Expenses for burial in rural Cameroon dey go almost $50k

Why don't the parents tell the children of these things beforehand.

They are lowkey part of the problem that lets these useless traditions continue.

I keep asking why they find it so hard to extricate themselves from these places and people

raumdeuter:
When you don leave your village or home town for 20 to 30yrs plus. The village has also left you. Everything else na wishful memories. The childhood memories are no longer your current realities

Shebi you heard about the Ifunnaya girl whose dad retired in the US and he relocated to Naija in the east. His eye saw shege from his brother until the girl came to save her dad

Nostalgia should have it's limits. I don't understand people that leave places and still be looking back like Lot's wife. Especially a place wey no favor you so much so you had to leave

Especially in the East they're notorious for putting grieving people through hell. Their villages, their churches. I understand the civil war trauma might still hold but if you did not live majority of your life in that damn village why are you so damn adamant on going back in your old age.

Ibime:
If you think Nigerian culture extorts people for wedding, funerals and just general stealing of land back home, try Congolese

They are more Nigerian than Nigerians in most aspects whether flexing, dressing, oppressing or doing 19. Na dem even first take Afro music global sef

Just a strange country. A place that should be African Wakanda is somehow being bullied by tiny Rwanda that had a genocide less than 32 years ago

They do tend to dress like our Eastern brothers. The local ones trying to be hip.

Always frying and painting their hair too

Ibime:
WTF

RIP to him

Pancreatic cancer. I'd never forget his joints. Grew up to Brown Sugar and Cruisin. To think he did that shit at 21.

Then there's Unshaken on Red Dead Redemption 2 >>>>>>

Legend

Africa na country Las las. Make professional footballers dey run from family ish

What I don't understand is if you know you need to keep your children away from certain people why not also dissociate yourself from them as well. Why eye service?

I don't understand that generation and their thinking at times. Knowing well and good that you have problematic relatives and kinfolk why don't you extricate yourself from them so when you die your kids can bury you wherever they please without your family making their lives miserable.

I have a friend who lost the father and the man while he was alive insisted on spending his last days back home only for him to die and his wife, daughters and son went through hell in the hand of relatives. It's illogical to me sha

So we have to win minimum of 3 matches to qualify. Lmao smh

birdman:
aka envy. In a town where younger women have to work hard to stay a 8 or 9, a soccer mom has no chance competing. And deep down I think that is the root of all this envy. All that remains is for one of her frenemies to put the right thought in her head, and that union is over. And you thought winning a ring was going to be the hardest thing you ever did lol.

If Steph no fit satisfy woman what hope do us normal civilians have 😂🤣

The truth nobody wants to admit is that Millennials and Gen Z women (especially black) were not raised to be wives. They might want to be married, some even want to have a child but to be actual wives is not the plan. What happens is when they see they can't maintain lifestyle on their own is when they're suddenly looking for a savior (husband)
We're talking of people wey no wan cook, no want your last name and see cleaning their own living space as 'unpaid labor'

Merely looking at the responses and the people supporting this you can understand why successful black men and athletes just go and find them a White, Latina, Persian, Asian woman and chill (no be say them no get their own comma but at least they're not as vocal in their endorsement of dysfunction and degeneracy)

Besides competing would not be a thought if they were raised to be wives. A soccer mom would be viewed higher than the so-called 8 or 9 who is the community bicycle and would have no need to compete

This is a woman that even armed with Steph's war chest and name recognition has not created anything. Only time she's in the news is for embarrassing her husband. So it just shows the level of delusion that someone like that is talking about she was career minded.
My only advice to her is not to let anyone trick her out of her spot. Cos if she thinks that any man worth any amount of money will see her as anything but a warm body then she's in for a nasty surprise. Unless she finds a boy toy that she will be content with funding cos those are her two options

Steph will have a younger and childless woman by midnight. Michael Jordan is living proof.

RIP D'Angelo. What an absolutely rotten year man

airmark:
Not trophy, great players with numbers of playing years like Boathand's, graced it once or more.

If you are a player with a top side like Bayern Munich and you couldn't be named once, you are nothing but just a tagged-along. No wonder Bayern didn't celebrate him when he retired.

Boateng woman palava is why his celebration was muted. Everyone knows this including you. You just like jejune arguments

All that matters is that BoaTANK came, saw and conquered. Venni, Vetti, Vecci. Record sales, sold out concerts.

airmark:
Why are you now renovating your dilapidated post with substandard materials?

Show me Boathand's Fifa best XI appearance.

Is that one trophy? Fifa best XI? Is that tournament that imaginary team will go and play?

Oya quick list the FIFA best XI from 2011 without help of Google

Roland17:
I won’t! Have a little shame! You have spent decades insulting the GOAT but can’t swallow your pride to accept he has dragged your historically mediocre Bees to the top of the AFC North.

Lmaoo. He's being carried by the mighty Steelers defense. Have some shame my guy.

Fraudgers needed us to help his career not end in a disgraceful note. We rescued his life from bottom of the AFC East to where he is now.

Think about it. Where would he have been if not us that have allowed him end his career with some dignity. Now he's actually playing meaningful football for the first time in 4 seasons

airmark:
Arbeloa also has these, so stop using titles won in which they carried Boathand to win, to brag,

Arbeloa never made Euro All Star or UEFA All Star team like Boateng.

He was never voted the best player in his country. Stop conflating ogbono with engine oil

airmark:
You managed to drop a one-liner for Alagolo.

All the liners I don dey drop for him praise nko? Please e no dey pay me salary.

Boateng will go down in history as one of the greatest defenders in history.

2 CLs
1 World Cup

Show me a Chelsea or English defender living or dead that can boast of this

greypencils:
From all the podcasts and shows Ayesha Curry has been attending, it is obvious She wants to be Gabrielle Union so bad, have an NBA legend as a spouse and also be her own person without being judged. She feels trapped cos She knows She can't just go out and bare her boobs to the world like Lala Anthony without public backlash. She feels trapped knowing all She will ever be known as is Steph Curry's wife unless She is willing to risk it all.

When what you have is never enough, that is the story of most women. You try to satisfy women, you might as well fill up a basket with water. As a married man, I have seen this scene all over again. (My saving grace is I am in Nigeria. I might have been divorced by now). She is fighting inner demons that She might eventually succumb to if care is not taken.

Lmao. You dey Para. Be like you dey speak from your own experience. Fair point. Nothing worse than being with a civilian that thinks she's a baddie. A strong 5 and a half giving you headaches is crazy work

There's no part of her body that stands out apart from being light skinned. Honestly. She's just aight. She's cute

Anyway that's woman for you. All you can be is a noble man. You can never satisfy woman. That's her personal choice. Like Michelle, like Ayesha as Chris Rock would say, these black women don't wanna play their position, they want to play your position

benalvino3:
Polish people can be racist, and at the same time, their ladies like black men.

That word racist I don't deny it but I notice we have become more sensitive to bad treatment of other people than our fellow black people.

The small waka I waka I can argue anywhere that an SA man will treat you worse than a Polish man. But for some reason we don't label that behavior racist for obvious reasons

Come. What's up with Yamal? Why is he catching Sweetie at this him young age

Make e small small dey carry olosho. That lifestyle no dey pay

raumdeuter:
Wirtz was not going to be a good fit for us. We needed a winger and Wirtz is a 10. We already have Musiala at 10. Bringing in Wirtz will only be to get a German talent and not what we really needed

Luis Diaz only issue is the age.

Honestly I wanted no parts of Wirtz once he got past the €70-80m mark. I was telling guys wey dey troll say Bayern no get pull after the deal went through for Liverpool, that you saw a Bundesliga and German talent and Bayern no chook head that should tell you something is amiss

At that price tag? Goodluck. Ekitike wey I even think say go struggle for them is who has actually been decent

Diaz I'm not too worried, if he can give us 2-3 quality seasons in today's game that's as good as it gets anyway

CrystalTiger:
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The way they're roasting Van Dijk everywhere
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Defend, this one dey show us ikebe. Van Twerk

Him point and kill aura defending all because he doesn't want them to dribble pass am

I was an initial skeptic of Luis Diaz but I have been pleasantly surprised. Especially seeing how guys like Leao, Wirtz and the likes have been stinking up the joint

raumdeuter:
Yesterday Bayern legend
2 time treble winner, world cup winner Jerome Boateng retired from football

Streets will never forget. World Champ 2x CL Champ.

cococandy:
Meanwhile a magat did it.

This is the price of sowing hateful rhetoric

Magat threaten, libtards actually do. Difference

Roland17:
A40, WHERE YOU@@@@@@@

I know you don’t watch 🐝 anymore but the GOAT has done it again.

Get on your knees and show a little gratitude!

This guy allow me hear word nau. Every game we keep carrying your washed up QB with the defense needing to make a stop to save the game but you keep gassing mid. Smh

SmooshCHN:
I've been here for a little while and I don't understand A40 and Roland17.


Abeg who is the goat? Which one of you is lying? E never reach to come to an agreement?

He's just hooting and hollering. I just indulge him to keep things funny and interesting. Even he knows his fraudulent imposter is not comparable to Brady.

Think about it. He also wears #12 like the other great imposter that wears #23. Coincidence? I think not

fatherofnone:
whatever you need to do
just pipe them
like you'd pipe other london teams
i need them humbled

Ask and ye shall receive

Roland17:
Back off you ungrateful bee! What else the GOAT supposed to do without a pass rush defense? The Seahawks were sweeping through like there was nothing in front of GOAT. He may as well have played without an offensive line.

Come and take back your useless overrated fraud of a washed Quarterback.

Absolute bum threw 2 picks and couldn't capitalize on a short field he was given. A fraud through and through

@Roland17

Come carry your fraud abeg we no do again

Tochex101:
Sometimes I don't really understand this uber rich people...... Why would the Saudi prince want to bankroll a fight that'll set him back hundreds of millions in usd.
What's in it for him?

Owo yen o le tan. Owo afefe ni

RIP Ricky Hatton. Terrible stuff

Ibime:
Thought Crawford fight was today. SMH

Where you don see boxing match wey sup for Sunday