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Godin is back too.

We really should have gotten that away goal. We will advance though. Can feel it in my soul

This is it niggas

We need to jump on Atleti. Hopefully an early goal to calm the nerves but if not then play with patience and try to get Atleti to rack up the fouls. Maybe give away a free kick hell even a PK. I still strongly feel we are going to need 3 goals to qualify

I'd play

Lahm-----Javi-----BoaTANK-----Alaba

_----------Alonso-------Vidal------

Coman------Muller---------Costa

--------Lewandowski---------

What is the yellow card situation? I recall we picked up 4 in the first leg

Chelseafan1:
Lmao..how many goals do Iniesta, Gotze and Ribery have to their names this season, na simple question, I no ready for ur small pickin insults this night.
If u no fit answer me this simple question, lo fi oko shere, ko sun

Apa leleyi ke.

What Ribery, Goetze,Iniesta have achieved in their career your useless Ikedia has not achieved it. Anybody with a working brain knows Goetze and Ribery combined have not played more than 2000 mins of football but still have 6 goals to their name

Ikedia has 5 goals in over 2800 mins of football. And you are busy wailing like a dangbana out of crack to smoke

You think everybody na adofuro arokoyo like you? Go chew condom. Maricon

Chelseafan1:
If u like call am 1 sef, we know say na 3 hin score and this is his worst season of all time.
Weyrey, apoda, melo ni Gotze ati Iniesta ati Ribery score.
Ayiri afofungbemu.

Shut up your mouth you buffoon. Rashford and Iheneacho have scored more goals than Ikedia and you are here growling like a Female Gorilla suffering menstrual cramps.

Useless players like Ikedia is the reason a whole Chelsea will not play either in Europa or the CL

Alailojuti. Eran Ibiye

Chelseafan1:
Are there still people on this thread, let me sharply drop this.

[size=13]Raumdeuter and the other Hazard haters, I just wanna say Fucck you all and your bleeped up stupid, hatred-induced and senseless opinions about Eden Oluomo Hazard....

Die!!!! All of you, dieeee! [/size]

Oponu ma leleyi sha. Two League goals na him you dey vibrate like 3310

raumdeuter:
But you said you would continue to place a spouse who blows your money on a fixed monthly salary.

That means she knew the moment she fired him, that was the end of the marriage, You probably wont fire yours because you want the marriage to continue just are concerned about her thieving

That is for the sake of peace to reign. If Tiwa opts not too I don't begrudge her for that. Its not an obligation its her just using her church mind

Well like I said if my spouse is stealing money from my business she has to go. Imagine you are a contractor given a job and your wife siphons your money. How do you prosecute the job? The matter will now turn to EFCC case because I refused to do what was necessary, Mba nu

I would fire a wife who steals from the business

birdman:
we beat mavs in round 1, clips in round 2. if we beat gsw in WCF, we would be in the finals no?

I'm a little skeptical on Walton - I think GSW won while he was coach just because the system was already in place. Remember that this is a 73-win team. Lets see sha...but I will not be surprised if he is just OK

You said 1 more game. Shoulda been 1 more series

I am not skeptical about Walton. He will not get them to the playoffs but they would win more than 16 games and play much better than Byron Scott. He did an excellent job with the Warriors. It takes a good coach to improve on a team that won 67 the previous year

Ewuro4:
wow you're really confident Heat will beat us? With Pacers owner in the front row during game 6, and George in his A game, how could Raptors possibly think they could win that game? won all my bet against Raptors that night.
Heat fumbled too and dragged the game to 7 even with Bosh and Wade combo. Lol. Anyway, we'll see bout that.
DeRozan's offence was a flaw in last 2 games, dude needs to toughen up. Speak of tough, Cory Joseph's killing it. Defence, offence, great shots, he's great.

happy for Dwane Casey.

I am confident because of what I saw in this series. Your best player is DeRozan theirs is Wade. The difference is clear

Lol Bosh didn't play all through the series. Charlotte are a much more better team than Indy.

DeRozan relies mostly on drives to the basket and long inefficient two's. He is just too inefficient offensively

raumdeuter:
Well the guy is facing Naija now and they wont even know his phone number all he needs is to credit their joint account every monthend and the marriage continues while both partners are getting helps from the willing sons and daughters of Eve. At least he wont be called an irresponsible father

Exactly. There is nothing worse than your sacrifice being in vain. Me I will rather stay over there and hustle. If things go south the woman will never remember your initial sacrifice. By age 10 I don dey boarding house seeing my parents once in 8 weeks so that woman no get argument

naijababe:
Berra to cry in a benz than cry pushing omolanke

I swear down. That woman just dey emotionally blackmail the poor guy

raumdeuter:
Look at the bold and compare it to what she did. How was he supposed to get the money she was asking him for

Would Yobo be asking Adaeze for light bill money when he knew she has no job other than to twerk on instagram. If he asks he is just trying to embarrass her and probably shame her out of the marriage

Do you expect Tiwa to be giving money to a man that would go about philandering and running hotel bills?

The asking na just taunting. Which is justified to an extent

raumdeuter:
You dont know with women especially when they wanted things done their way.
They have 3 kids oldest 10, The wife told him then his 10yr old son was starting to misbehave getting poor grades in school and reports he was fighting getting suspended

It was serious gbege before the guy decided to come back also because she claimed she was stressed with 3 kids, he hired a live in Nanny after a while she said Nanny wouldnt do because the kids werent listening to nanny and "I didnt have the kids with Nanny". I dont want my son to become another American statistics of black boys

All the blackmail and family meeting where they gave the guy an ultimatum. And she was like we would manage whatever we have. Money isnt as important as the life of your kids.

If na you dey in this position and your wife gave you this kain preaching wetin you for do?

That would be right. But I have learned one thing being unhappy when you have money is better than being unhappy when you don't have money

Women don't send that loving, doting father megedefegede when you are broke so if I have nothing doing back home I would not come back. I would let the woman know the realities on ground and why I need to have a job back home before leaving the one I am doing here.

All those other talk na just emotional blackmail. She is the same person that would blame you for not standing your ground when things go south

naijababe:
@ Bolded, I just tire. Big sigh!

If Tbillz is so fantastic at turning greenhorns into stars, he should repeat the feat na! Maybe that is part of his star that Tiwa and her mother stole sha

Abi like that Jay-Z song. I heard mofos saying they made Hov then made Hov said ok so make another Hov

NashvilleTN:
The more I think about it, the more I realise that may be we are beating Tbillz too much. The guy is a useless guy quite all right, but Tiwa isn't a saint either. Okay, so Tiwa fires Tbills as manager and he has no other source of income. What is he expected to do? Apply for a job at First Bank, MTN or Shell? I don't think he will get in anyway. Tiwa only funded his lifestyle because of her own image as well. She didn't want her husband driving a 1999 Honda Accord. Even if that is all he could afford, she would have willingly bought him the Benz because of her image. Let's get this straight, she bought him those things for herself so that she could continue to post pictures on Instagram and get all the likes.

But let's look at the story more closely. Tbillz and Tiwa built the rand "Tiwa Savage" together. They both contributed to what she is today. If this happened in the UK, he can sue Tiwa and get some money off her. He left everything he was doing to build the Tiwa Savage brand, got used to the lifestyle and now she just fired him and divorced him, and he now has nothing. I tell you, if this were abroad, he would have a strong case.

The only reason why we are all dissing Tbillz is because he is a guy. If the story were turned around and Tiwa was the guy and he just divroced his wife and manager who invested alot in him, we will view the case very differently. It's very easy for women to play the victim card in a divorce case.

T-Billz brought this mess to the press. That makes him a Grade A nuisance in my book already. Whatever Tiwa did na self defense. You are still ignoring the grounds on which he was fired. They were legitimate and it is not Tiwa's fault that he did not find an alternative source of income. I blamed Tiwa for enabling him but that is really as far as it goes. To some people Tiwa is a dream wife. It is not her fault that he did not leverage on her fame to better himself.

Well C'est Dommage we are not in the UK. He was getting sufficient compensation for his services, Ki le tun fe ko se? Na till he kill her? Would she sack him for no just reason? I guarantee you if there is evidence he was stealing from her T-Billz will not get shishi whether in UK or US

Infact Tiwa can sue him for stealing from her. Cheating is not sufficient grounds to steal your spouse's money my guy

Lastly I am not dissing T-Billz because he is a guy. I am not the type that sucks up to women and defend them for the heck of it. I have even been labeled a chauvinist here in the past but after hearing both stories its a no-brainer. Roles reversed I will side with the guy against a thieving spouse.

Bolade005:
Pls, I really need to understand something. Is it Tbillz that is mad or these women that knows his story and yet still mess around with him?

When I say more than 80% of 9ja female population are dumb and that they love for the wrong reason, they take it personal and start hurling invectives. 2face has 3 baby mamas, flavour has 2, wizkid's got 2 and these guys still have girls dying to bed them and I wonder to what end?

Flavour came out few days ago to say he's not gonna marry none of his babymamas so what's their gain?

Countless times I've heard some ladies say stuff like "if I can just have sex with 2face once" and I just shake my head.

Why is it that men don't drool over rich female celebs like the females drool over male celebs?

Loool they talk a good one but most of them are like that popular Sean Tizzle song

You should see them drooling over old Papa RMD

raumdeuter:
1. The wife uprooting from London to Angola or Venezuela most likely would lose her career and would resent the husband for making her not achieve to her potential

2. Same with the husband, As we have found out many women respect men they can look up to financially, If this guy was in Angola, he would be making bank and at least maintain his respect but if he comes to london and can retrain but for a job significantly lower than he would have been making e.g Making 170-200k a yr in Venzuela as per expatriate parole but in London can only get a 40K job as a school teacher. The wife would be okay with it for the short term until later the joint income cant maintain her previous lifestyle and she would remember its the husband dragging her back and how would her a top exec be married to a mere school teacher

I have a real life experience with a friend, he went to Florida for a contract job and his wife was working in Texas too a stable career. The wife was always complaining how the distance is affecting the family, after the contract they offered him an extension in FLorida, he declined because of his family, he got back to Texas after 6 months he hasnt gotten anything and the wife is now starting to wahala him that he isnt making money.

He is like Guy, for say I know I for don take that Florida offer and all these yawa for no dey happen. Unfortunately the offer is no more on the table and in this economy its not like job grows on the tree

That your guy for take the job tbh. I know I would. It literally made no sense to come back when a job was not waiting for him back home and I expect his wife to have understood that.

NashvilleTN:
Very good analogy. If I should add. Would you hire a stunningly beautiful woman to be your partner? If you do, I am sure she will change the story from stealing to something else. She will definitely say you are sleeping with the lady; just as Tbillz is accusing Tiwa today. Both were wrong.

Loool the accuser is also a serial cheat so that kind of makes you question their accusation but let's assume they are both right. One stole from the other and the firing buttresses that. Abi why was he fired?

That is why Notorious B.I.G said blood and business don't mix like two deeks. If your spouse is the type that can steal from you and not even use the funds productively then I'm sorry for the sake of that business that spouse has to go

raumdeuter:
I agree with the perspective Nashville has brought into this

We are all acting on the assumption that all Tiwa said is right. Should we also agree that all Teebillz said was right? e.g she was actively sleeping with guys while in the marriage, she never cared about her union etc?

I believe both of them added extras to it, but if we are to believe one persons extras should we also believe the other sides extras?

2. Tiwa lost interest in the marriage because the guy wasnt holding his side financially. The moment she fired him then that is the end of the marriage. All those behavior he was doing it before they married, Tiwa cant tell us she didnt know he was fuckkingg around, sniffing coke smoking weed or was reckless. Most of the guys in the music industry are like that and in her bid to get fame she wasnt in a position to complain about his irresponsibility

A40, If you have a business and your wife is the manager she is stealing from you, Would you fire her completely? If after you fire her and know she doesnt have any income then would you go to meet her to pay for electricity bills since she still had money to make her hair? Any man who does that surely is looking for a way to provoke the wife and possibly end the marriage.

We do not have the timeframe for whenever all these things happened but let's also agree that T-Billz is right. The only thing that has been established is that they both cheated. Tiwa never stole from T-Billz

A spouse that can steal from you will kill you if they have the chance. There is stealing then there is stealing. He collected show money and did not inform his wife and the babe had to go perform for free. Habaaaaaaa!! Someone that is already sharing 40% of her earnings with you? Make he kuku kill her naa

I am sure she was tolerating his misdemeanors till he literally became a nuisance on her neck. Her real error was marrying him she made a grievous mistake there

It depends on the nature of the business. If her stealing is the kind that can land me in police net she would be fired with immediate alacrity. I would rather pay her a fixed amount for her upkeep while she has zero access to the business. The other shenanigans was just her way of taunting him. At what point did he apologize for his actions? What did the man do to earn back her trust?

Marriage is great but staying alive is even better. Cheating is bad but to cheat and steal from a woman you claim you love? That one is too much

NashvilleTN:
Well, I already blamed Tbillz for his lifestyle so we are agreed on that. All I said is that they could have resolved it amicably without ending the business relationship. They are now husband and wife so they cannot see things solely from a business perspective. They could have worked things out on the business side. The marriage ended the day she fired him; they were just living on borrowed time. Trust was gone, jealousy stepped in. From then they became competitors as he now needed to prove a point to her. And of course, Don Jazzy will be a suspect as the new manager

I am not saying Tbillz is a good guy neither am I justifying his shameful behavior. If my wife and I were partners in business and she took money from me; I may not necessarily terminate the business relationship especially if she would have nothing else to do or if I remember she set me up.

Once someone starts to steal from you I'm sorry there is nothing to resolve. What did he do with the funds? Why would you be in a business relationship with someone that is stealing from you? This is why people tend not to involve family in their business and this is what Tiwa probably tried to do. I give her 0% blame for doing that. There was nothing to work out. The best she could do is set him up somewhere else entirely and provide check and balance measures to ensure her investment is not squandered. While I believe a woman has a role to contribute I won't hold brief for a man that is stealing from his wife.

The trust was gone but who broke it? It was the husband's job to earn it back. If I am in business with my wife and she steals money from our business that could potentially land me in trouble na Auf wiederschen be that. If that is going to be the coup de grace to our marriage then so be it. It is better you set them up elsewhere than for them to kill you with hypertension

oyb:
in a different thread, a guy said that there is NO TRUE NIGERIAN FEMINIST.

i guess you could say naija women want liberation [freedom to earn a salary] without the responsibility [ using that salary to support the family] that comes with it.

Of course they do not exist. They only apply their feminism to where it is convenient for them

My first round picks 7/8

Second round

East

Heat

Cavs

West

Spurs

Warriors

Ewuro4:
WHOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

BRING IT ON MIAMI !

You guys shouldn't have even let that Series drag to 7


DeRozan needed 32 shots to score 30pts. Lol

ivyy:

#TheIVYYLeague #Missnairaland
Can you please ask your friends in here to vote for me?

Lmao I don't have that many friends here ooh. I would see what I can do sha

NashvilleTN:
To talk about Tiwa and Tbillz.

As for Tiwa, a man that will leave his wife and two kids will surely cheat on you at some point. I really don't have all the details of the story, but I still Tiwa was harsh to have fired him as her manager knowing fully well he had no other source of income. She said he was stealing from her; but I am not sure that is enough for you to just fire him like that. Once she fired him; she left him completely naked and he became depressed. I think they could have resolved the money issue internally without firing him. And I really don't think she was sleeping with Don-Jazzy and Dr. Sid; at least not after marriage.

Please when someone is stealing from you that is more than enough grounds to fire them. We are talking of a potential police case if not for their relationship. Alailojuti ni bobo yen jare. Let us not encourage iranu

If she so wished she could set him up with something completely different from the music industry. Get a lawyer or someone to police him. Its for his own good. He became depressed?

You dey drive Benz dey accumulate hotel bills and you are talking of depression. Ayo lo n kuku se. Oo n yo ni

Kimoni:
do your part in the house, where I see we need to upgrade, I'll gladly upgrade. But don't start planning and drawing budget on my pay, e no go work

If the man also married right, he should trust her to do something tangible with her earnings. If she spends it frivolously, then he needs to question his choice of wife and his own decision making. So we are back to square one, marry right
It's not only women that should be getting knocks for marrying wrongly naa

On your pay. Good! Now imagine the man has the same approach. Then imagine he is an akagum or worse an irresponsible man. The kids will definitely suffer.

Please there is a difference between wife and girlfriend ooh. Your pay is your pay and his pay is our pay?

Kimoni:
Hahahahahahaha I have not read and don't know where A40 is coming from but just want to quickly make this distinction.

Tearoses, 'enlightened' women are the ones who actually believe a woman can step into a man's role, temporarily or permanently. They don't mind being the breadwinner while their husbands become househusbands. I'm sure this is the new generation way of thinking. However, women who still believe in role segregation are termed 'traditional' and 'unenlightened'.

Concerning Dayo's post, let's not even get too theoretical. So in this Tsquare's case, they should have combined funds right? Tearoses/Dayo, what do you think would have happened to the joint account if they both had one?

Tearoses, i'm trying hard not to apportion blames to this couple but one of Tiwa's errors is taking up her husband's responsibility for too long. She asked for pampers money too late in the day. She should have been asking him to fulfill his responsibilities from day one. Not when you realise he still has enough money for hotel bills and posh cars. You have to force some men to fulfill their responsibility(guys, kill me for this but it's true), they may not like it initially, and may not like you for it, but they will never accuse you of taking their "manhood" from them. And that ego which matters to them a lot remains intact.

Let's not get too theoretical with these things ma'am. Real people, real issues, real solutions. What works wonders in A's home will turn a disaster if applied in B's home. Tailor made solutions for every family.

Ideally it should be temporarily as for me the lines should even be blurred. Na both of una get the house at the end of the day. Provided either spouse is responsible I don't see why you should complain about providing for your own family. There are many women in financial bondage that would kill to be in the position of a breadwinner. People should always apply perspective into whatever they do

In Tiwa's case it is obvious one party was not responsible so IMO the joint thing flies out of the window. That only applies to a couple who are devoted to each other.

Tiwa was definitely an enabler no doubt about it, you don't buy a Benz for a ninja that is not making steady dough. If he was a self respecting dude he would ask her to channel it into an income generating business. Poultry and livestock business dey, Building materials, Even Bet9ja dey (aja n sare owo n jonaa)

Either way I would never believe or encourage role segregation because anything can happen at anytime. The man could up and leave when the burden becomes too much, he could lose his job, his life. How does the woman who is not used to picking up tabs adjust?

tearoses:
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Please don't believe everything you are told
Some just say silly things to form "enlightened"
If the man is going through financial difficulty then Let the kids stay at home if they wont put their money towards their own kids school fees.
Are they not her kids too? or are they my kids? as if on graduation day wont she tie her gele and say my son, my daughter?
If I was a man, I would never respect a woman who cant stand in the gap when I am unavailable.

Really I couldn't explain or put my disappointment that day into words. Like is it Aso-ebi or jewelry you would be buying with your money? Their theory was that you are no longer the man the moment they start to chip in their contribution for their own children's school fees. Lol so if I chip in with funds for the groceries and housekeep that means you are no longer the woman?

In today's Nigeria. Anu won se mi

TV01:
Important for general understanding, but in a sense, a moot point. The only one who counts is "her".

True. Just amusing that in this day and age people are not adjusting to the reality of the times we are in

TV01:
Financial roles are subject to discussion - your headship is not . Whatever their income, I suggest couples pool and jointly plan (I'm leaving out nuance here).

To some anything monetary is solely the man's responsibility. Spending is and should be their only contribution

TV01:
Funny, that's what we do , but it's situationally driven, not due to tradition. My wife knows everything I have, all that comes in and where it goes. I always put her and the kids first. Consequently she can't and doesn't pressure me. And in the sense that we utilise both incomes to our maximum benefit, the roles overlap.

For me I believe there should be no boundaries, Ideally if you are buoyant enough as the man you should settle all the bills. However in the event that you are not I don't think there is a need to beg your life partner to play a role in a venture in which she is also a stakeholder. I don't like it when people have a close mind when it comes to these things. Do not feel like you are doing your husband a favor especially if its on a temporary basis

TV01:
The burden to perform, the expectation to deliver is always the mans - don't ever think otherwise.

TV

It always is but a woman is supposed to be the Helpmate for a reason. Might as well get a surrogate mother than a woman who thinks contributing to her children's education is a taboo

raumdeuter:
Actually many threads have been open in the family section with working women questioning and upset that they have to contribute to their own children school fees

Ask them their idea of modernity its to take the benefits and leave out the responsibility

Was a real eye-opener. One even said she can loan the money but I would have to pay her beck. For our child's SCHOOL FEES

So if man no dey their children will not go to school?

With these kind of women around marriage go dey alright

raumdeuter:
Of all those Spainards I can only stand Martinez and sometimes Alonso

Thiago and Bernat are usually annoying. Coman that just came have more memorable performances than Thiago has in 3yrs

The uselessness of Bernat was why Costa was easily double teamed and triple teamed in that game. To defend baa bu, Attack na to shoot to Row Z

I won't even talk much about Thiago Mr 1 Good game in 2 Months Alcantara

TV01:
Listen, one doesn't know enough to become married, one is mature enough to. One does not need to overly worry about people changing, if one marries based on character.

What I said first time holds; be a person of character, understand marriage and have a vision for your home. Find someone who is mature and understanding. She should hopefully be of like mind, or at least grasp your vision and embrace it. It's that, and a studied commitment to the union - from you both - that will mean you skip over any hurdles.

Lot's of people have a myriad of fears making them hesitate, and there are so many myths and notions that put doubt in peoples mind. I know, because I had to be freed from a number of them . While there may not be a template, there's a well worn roadmap and some essentials that will stand you in good stead.

Not only do you not really need luck, like a fight, you can do all the hard work before the get into the ring, and it can be plain sailing. People talk as if getting married is the start of a demanding and extremely hard task, it's not, it can be deeply fulfilling and blissfully happy - I know because I live it. See it and get yours.

All the best dude.


TV

^{...almost all the woes and issues you hear about in marriage will stem from character, understanding or vision. Get those right and half-arsed reasons and sorry-ass excuses will be far from you...}

Thank you Sensei. I think character is important and also someone that shares your ideas or is at least tolerant to them. Two cannot walk unless they agree that quote I hold am very tight. You would be suprised to see the people that don't agree eventually and this is what really scares me.

The person might be everything you thought you would ever need physically and even emotionally but certain issues come up and they just fall your hand

I had a very interesting debate with two ladies on Twitter about the roles of a man and woman in marriage as regards their financial responsibility. Which is amusing because neither one of us is married but their stance kind of hinged on how it went in the days of their fathers. Cute busty and supposedly exposed girls I might add

As a married ninja do you think the financial roles should overlap? Should there be a strict rule on who spends where? To my dismay I saw a woman say she would never pay or contribute school fees or rent in the marriage. This was the origin of the debate btw. I was called T-BILLZ hehehe even though I have never collected a babe's penny

I was genuinely alarmed though that a woman would be proud in this modern day and age to say they did not contribute a penny to their children's education

kingsilly:
Honestly were you expecting hornet to win that series against the Heat, yeah hear fumbled in game 5, but it was just a slip, I original stand with Miami winning the series in 5, but they shoot themselves in the foot, a great game today for the heat, 'twas a blowout thanks to dragic and whiteside

The Heat rn looking like the only team with a shot vs the Cavs if they play to their best

Eruditor:
You are right. I was just angry that the bench kept letting Blazers pad their scores. At 24points I wanted it to remain that way. That 137-105 of February still gives me nightmares. I want Blazers to understand who they're playing.

Exactly at Livingston! He wasn't his characteristic post-up self. And saw him turnover atleast twice.

You have to pace yourself. This is why I always laugh when people say the Warriors don't have a good defense

raumdeuter:
Bernat and Thiago messed up with that move, Thiago escorted Saul for over 20 meters and couldnt put in a tackle

When I say Pep is annoyingly biased to some players it looks like I am just talking out of bad belle. Thiago sometimes and Bernat everytime are usually trash in our away games but some how som eway they must play