Romance › Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Abbey2sam(m): 10:02am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Bbsharon: Thanks, but the plan b girl self is a year younger than him too so I do not think is age issue. [size=38pt]oh! you even know the plan B, ti e ti ba e[/size] |
Phones › Re: AIRTEL NG BB COMPLETE/MONTH NOW 3GB FOR N1400!!! by Abbey2sam(m): 12:41am On Mar 11, 2016 |
theboss01: pls i received dis msg from airtel - The 1GB Monthly Blackberry Complete plan now becomes 3GB and still N1400, valid for 30days. Dial *431# to subscribe. Usable on BlackBerry devices ONLY!!
anyone know if it works on android phones? I did this sub how do I chech the data balance |
Celebrities › Re: Olamide Declares Love For Princess Vitarah’s Nigerian Kitty-Cat Song by Abbey2sam(m): 9:22am On Mar 03, 2016 |
[size=38pt]YBNL[/size] |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Dad Beats Son To Death In Dubai, To Be Deported After 10-Year Jail Term by Abbey2sam(m): 12:39pm On Feb 27, 2016 |
ok |
Phones › Re: Help My Tecno Plz by Abbey2sam(m): 3:56pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
Chule: please my phone data and WiFi comes up on its own. this drains my battery... is there any help plz what model is your phone, you need to reinstalled the operating system (OS) of your phone. i've solved such problem on so many occasions, for further inquiries contact me |
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid Shades Linda Ikeji. Retweets Article About Her "Poverty Mentality" by Abbey2sam(m): 4:01pm On Feb 21, 2016 |
aaronson: One thing for sure, linda is richer than wizkid and he just mean mugging on her, sort of jealousy. i need your kinda weed |
Celebrities › Re: Peter Okoye Apologizes For Calling His Brother Out Online - ''I'm Not Perfect'' by Abbey2sam(m): 7:04am On Feb 19, 2016 |
Charmerbeautylooks: Nice one Peter! God bless d okoye's family, amen! I knw Peter's wife is behind dis, she is so calm.if na lola, hell will let lose. She will give Paul reasons nt to apologize. mumu |
Romance › Re: Rochas Okorocha And His Wife On Valentine's Day (Photo) by Abbey2sam(m): 8:54pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Val's Dinner: Rate My Fiancee And I. :D by Abbey2sam(m): 6:56am On Feb 15, 2016 |
looking cute |
Romance › Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Abbey2sam(m): 3:54pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
hurting: Good day all! I never thought I will never create a topic like this because I believed I had a perfect love life. I have to create this moniker just for this topic that has and still eating me deep. I will try to make it as brief as possible.
I have been a relationship for 7yrs with the lady that I love beyond measures. I do anything possible within my reach to satisfy n make her happy. She has also been wonderful and almost perfect (nobody is). We started dating from uni days and where d pride n envy of many even after school.
After my service, I started looking for job but as things get murky in d labour market, I started a little ICT troubleshooting hustle, just to keep body n soul together before d job comes. Now this lady has been supportive all d way, after her service she moved to where am based, we managed what we have. She got a job while I was still doing what I do, I could provide for d daily running around like food, clothing, small bills, etc. I could pay my rent sometimes but atimes my siblings support me. When biz haven't been good.
Now this my lady resigned from where she was working because her female boss wasn't treating them well, tru one of my friends I secured a better paying n welfare job in a construction firm for her. We have been doing fine all this while but when I proposed to her she said we should wait till I get a better paying job. I make an average of 35-40k at d end of month but because I spend on what we need in d house I usually don't have it in bulk at d end of d month. She earns around 80k plus a car. Her new boss gives car loan to all his staff down to d secretary. She is an engineer there. She have been having this fear of lack because of what she faced as a child, so whenever d issue of marriage comes up she says I shld wait till I get a job n when ever her friends or mine wedd she cries n complain that I dnt want to marry her. I have promised her that we can make it with our present earnings n with time I will get that job. I knw I live far better than some married men in terms of finances.
This year I made up my mind to ask her for hand in marriage on vals day, but last week she gave me d shocker of my life, but telling me she had moved on because of my employment status. I have begged like I ave never begged anyone before, telling her that am very sure d job will come before d babies start coming. She told me she has found someone else and that she has made up her mind.
She still loves me, but the job issue I her phobia, dont get me wrong she is very decent n has been faithful all our yrs together. Right now my heart is torn to shreds, I don't sleep at night, I cry every night, I cant eat well, I have lost weight. Am I beginning to scare my self with d kind of suicidal thoughts I have these days. I have built my whole adult life around her, I try to let go but cant.
Pls nairalanders advice me before I do something drastic, I need all the advice I can get, am on job sites 24/7 now just to get something n probably win her back. She is not after riches just d basics. And for those that will lash me, I need it too, it might cheer me a bit. Pls help a brother.
pls help me push this to FP I need all d advice I could get before its too late for me.
P.S. Sorry for any grammatical blunder n punctuation errors. why wasting your time to win a girl that have already decided to move on without you? bro move on, ask yourself this questions, would killing yourself stop her from moving on? she might only feel guilty for sometimes thats only if shes got a conscience, and still move on eventually you mentioned in your post that you've siblings that are been supportive, dont you think they need you alive |
Career › Re: Is My Boss Forcing Me To Marry His Only Daughter? by Abbey2sam(m): 10:45pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
kekakuz: Some 7 months ago I was transfered to our directors office and my life changed for the better. I noticed my boss is very friendly especially towards me and trust me with key responsibilities. He gives me audience during board meetings which am not even qualified to attend. He recently approved an official car for me of which is not meant for staff on my grade level. Over time. I got used to him and I did not know how I unconsciously called him daddy. He smiled and kept his cool. We hang out a lot and he advices me on investment and wealth. Something g I cherish and put to good use. 2 weeks ago he said we need to go pick his daughter from the airport. He dropped his car and I carried him to the airport. I meet his gorgeous daughter and the meeting was electric. For the next week he directed me to take her around town shopping and saloon. I asked of my office duties and he said someone else has been assigned to cover for me. We shop and club regularly but problem arises whenever I told her am going home. She wants me to always be around and am avoiding such offers to avoid doing anything g that will spoil my relationship with her father. I resume work and the father has began to ignoring me and avoid me, when I ask him what the problem was he reply that I make him unhappy because am avoiding his daughter. Then I got the message clear. Now am confused because the girl sweet and cuddly but am not in love with her but her father who is my hero wants us together. Friends what would you rather me do? another lucky baster. d |
NYSC › Re: Situation In NYSC Registration Centres by Abbey2sam(m): 11:38am On Feb 08, 2016 |
centyboy: vanity upon vanity...  hhahahahhaahahaha  centyboy: vanity upon vanity...  hhahahahhaahahaha |
NYSC › Re: Situation In NYSC Registration Centres by Abbey2sam(m): 11:33am On Feb 08, 2016 |
that the server is currently down, the queue is too much |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2017/2018 Will Be Four [4] Batches Due To Increasing Corp Members Yearly by Abbey2sam(m): 10:21pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
who cares? |
Christianity Etc › Re: How I Was Blessed Because Of A Blind Begger! by Abbey2sam(m): 10:11pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
greatness22: Similar to what happened to me 2day... Wanted to climb a motorcycle when a young lady rushed towards me and ask me for money to eat, i have to give her my N500 offering and then trekked to church, on my way back, someone was shouting my name "Great, Great" i turned back to look who was calling, behold the person was a friend of mine who just returned from south africa, she appologise for not sending a birthday msg to me last month, to my suprise, she deep her hand inside her bag and brought out N3,000 and gave to me. I don't know about the first story o, but this is definitely a lie |
Romance › Re: Share Your Worst Sexual Experience by Abbey2sam(m): 6:09am On Feb 07, 2016 |
mine was when I was in school back then, after much persuasion for us to go to my place she finally agree to come....after the first round I got up to remove condom only to notice some reddish and whitish stuff on the condom, I just kindly left her...she was like we just getting started |
Sports › Re: Odion Ighalo Turns Down N90Million Per Week Pay by Abbey2sam(m): 10:53pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
ednut1: 2018 pray dey come bk for u. Owo ni koko. U no go wan broke like kanu nd babayaro is Kanu broke  |
Romance › Re: 10 Dirty Things Cristiano Ronaldo Wants You To Forget About His Personal Life by Abbey2sam(m): 7:23am On Feb 05, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Could She Be A Lez?...help Friends by Abbey2sam(m): 7:16am On Feb 05, 2016 |
refiner: please no bashing.... just drop your comment,if u have something meaningful to say!
in my school,there is dis lady that made friend with me...she always want us to chat after school....and she is just a talkative,sometimes I tried hiding to get home without her noticing,but she always catches me and then engages me with her unending and irrelevant talks!
just last week Friday,when she passed by,she winked at me and blew a kiss at me...I felt uneasy after that day.....the last straw that broke the camel's back was yesterday evening after school,she came to me and ask me what is the colour of my panties,that she will love to see it!!!...I was shocked!
please friends could she be a lez.....,and what should I do to avoid her!am scared... tell her you're strictly dickly |
Career › Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by Abbey2sam(m): 6:45am On Feb 05, 2016 |
Tunami: Today was just like every other normal day in my workplace, everybody have resumed at the appropriate time, me and a colleague were standing close to the gate and the security man wasnt around at about 9:30am a Chinese man and a Nigerian man just alighted from a jeep without greeting, he asked us where is Mr bola(not real name) who happens to be the general manager? My colleague just hissed and replied him in pidgin( come wey u u no dey greet abi naso una dey behave for una side? Abeg get out of my front).
The chinese man was ashamed of himself and i was just laughing at him as he went away in shame.
NB this colleague of mine is a contractor who is almost through with his work in my work place. The point that i am trying to make in this story is that this white people especially the chinese, lebanese and indians don't regard us as anything because of the way we see them as god in our land while most of them are common laborers in their countries and when they come to Nigeria they will be forming expatriate and be using us like rag. That mentality must be put to an END. chinko guys and lebanese are not white I don't see them as god o |
Celebrities › Re: [PHOTOS] Top Five Nollywood Movie Directors - Who Is Your Best So Far? by Abbey2sam(m): 9:37pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
[quote author=1money post=42625013]I no see my favourite director there - Desmond Elliot Films he directed - [i]Reloaded, Holding hope, Findling mercy, Kamara's tree, 30 days in atlanta, guilty pleasures and more.
He didn't direct 30 days in Atlanta, go an get your facts right |
Celebrities › Re: Onyeka Onwenu Celebrates Her 64th Birthday Today by Abbey2sam(m): 12:57pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
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NYSC › Re: Photo: Youth Corper Proudly Shows Off His Mum Who Sells Fish by Abbey2sam(m): 4:14pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
what a priceless picture, GOD bless you bro |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu Handcuffed In Court Today - Photos And Video by Abbey2sam(m): 9:58pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
ArodewilliamsT: Putting freedom fighters in handcuffs like looting criminals will make your looting criminals look like freedom fighters in future when you put your looting criminals in handcuffs. When the supporters of your looting criminals begin to call them freedom fighters, hope you won't get irritated? Only those with a brain know what i am saying. Do Zoombies have brains? guy i don't think you yourself know what you're talking about |
Celebrities › Re: See Pic As Leonardo Dicaprio Spends 5 Hours Getting Wounded For A Movie Scene by Abbey2sam(m): 8:08am On Jan 25, 2016 |
O Raydos: Which Role Did He Played In Titanic?  :-o He was the main character (jack)  |
Career › Re: What Is The Salary Structure Of A Personal Assistant To A CEO? by Abbey2sam(m): 9:32am On Jan 20, 2016 |
ashacot: thank u lordmecuzy. The issue is that I am close to getting a job as a PA to a CEO of 5different companies. I actually had an interview yesterday and when I was asked how much I want as salary, after telling them that they should pay according to their salary structure for that position, they insisted I say what I want. @ d end, I ended up telling them 90k. Don't really know if I d amount I said is little. Though they said they wld get back to me God's willing they will sure get back to you,congrats |
Foreign Affairs › Re: "Muslim Women Must Learn English Or Be Deported" - British PM. by Abbey2sam(m): 9:40pm On Jan 19, 2016 |
tunshe: Islamophobia!
It could have been better stated that all immigrants must learn English.
Whether they learn English or not, a devilish mind will always heed to the call of Devils.
It has nothing to do with Islam, perhaps he meant Arabs.
Statement like this isn't different from that of Donald trump,hence, UK government has no justification debating on his stance. They are birds of a feather!
Ignorance,intolerance and religious sentiments are the symptoms of those who judge the action of a few on a multitude.
Islam is peace, it takes objectivity to accept. and who told you they were trying to hide it? They were just trying to be polite about it or Is Islam not responsible for 98% of world terrorism? isn't this a fact ? no time for sugar quoting anymore islamabad |
Phones › Re: Blackberry Playbook For Sale by Abbey2sam(m): 1:37pm On Jan 19, 2016 |
7k |
Crime › Re: Cop Who Killed Twins And Their Friend, Abandoned In The Mortuary [graphic Image] by Abbey2sam(m): 12:31pm On Jan 19, 2016 |
[size=48pt]if men were God[/size] |
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Romance › Re: My Best Friend Just Cheated On His Wife With Different Girls. by Abbey2sam(m): 6:57am On Jan 19, 2016 |
djgrafiti: It all happened during the festive period,me and my friend travelled home together in his car just so we can hook up for few days in his town before i get to my place since his town is close to mine. We left on the 20th and logded in a hotel in Benin for two days before heading to Asaba. during those two days all my friend did was bang bang bang.as if dat was not enough when we got to Asaba...he continued to the extend that he even banged one in his car.I tried talking to him on several occasions but he wasn't trying to hear it,we even had a quarrel because of it. His marriage is just 2 years and they are blessed with a son,the wife is someone i love so much being a very caring wife and a good mother too.i am very close to the wife too maybe cos i was their best man.but ever since we came back i have been avoiding her cos i kinda feel guilty myself knowing that i can't tell her what went down and she has been kinda suspicious lately..cos she has been asking a lot of questions about our trip.pls pals how do i desolve her suspicion without keeping distance from her.i am tired of lying to her. even nig**s don't want to be loyal no more fvck your closeness with the wife, your loyalty lies with your friend bitchass nig**s everywhere |
Crime › Re: iCloud Exposes Lagos-based Armed Robbers by Abbey2sam(m): 4:57am On Jan 19, 2016 |
Keneking: Amazing...
She shouldn't have released the pictures yet. A video shot with that phone would reveal a lot. Now those criminals would "flash" the phone and wipe all traceabilities.
Jonathan sef  you can't flash an iphone with an icloud without the icloud username and password it becomes useless though you might still be able to sell the screen and other parts of the iPhone icloud is the most secured anti-theft |