₦airaland Forum

tosyne2much:
I can assure you that no matter how much we paint ladies bad here, there are still few sensible and responsible ones that if you can convince them that you love them and they stretch forth their arms of love to you, you've found a very good wife niyen

I stumbled on a recent thread where Son'ofluci attacked you for showing your interest in a Cameroonian lady and I was so astonished that what could have aggravated such amount of hate towards you? I mean, is it a crime to show your interest in a nairaland lady, or do they think you don't deserve to love a woman because you create relationship threads?

Well, it's just one of these things we face here which I also faced. You should know that this particular section is highly dominated by kids and you should learn to cope with that. Kids in the sense that they spend their precious time digging and sourcing for information about your private life just to turn you into a subject of mockery and blackmail, each time you guys have little quarrel.

I guess you also see the way people keep creating threads about my story on what they know nothing about, and God and heaven can bear me witness that the said lady has called me several times on phone pleading for mercy and that she has never found joy and peace since the last two years that she came on this forum to soil my reputation for what I did not do, by doing all she can to convince people believe a "one-sided" story of hers.

Though, I have forgiven her and moved on with my life, and even if people keep raising the issue today, it won't make me have her hated, neither will I withdraw my forgiveness from someone I have forgiven whole heartedly. I know that we also sin and ask for forgiveness from God, so am who am I not to forgive someone who paid be back with evil. In fact, we still call each other on the phone sometimes and ask about our lives, education and families

So my brother, just learn to cope with it and play your game tight with her. And also ensure you do all you can to keep your relationship offline. In fact, next time, when you have interest in a lady, track her lady down secretive and never make it known in public, because that will be the beginning of your problem

Anyway, I never marry jawe, it was just a sarcastic statement

Natty4:
wait o
so if someone asks u to choose btwn puff puff and meat pie
u will choose puff puff abi?

Lsofdk:
[color=teal]Lol na she bring am upon herself. Them don force the poor girl change her display picture [/color]

Hadez:
Just look at these broke n Jobless hungry boys attacking a girl because she spoke the hard truth

thegame1655:
[s] I am the Game and I am here again.. .

Now most people who read the header and click the link to this thread will jump right to the comment section to hurl insults at me... They don't want to read this long epistle because they are b@ckw@rd.. they feel they are too lazy to read, but yet they are ready to comment.

So, I want to share 3 reasons why Nigerian People are very backward.

1. They are poorly educated..

The education Americans received in the 1901 is better than the one we receive in 2017.. Most Nigerians are so poorly educated, because the education system is so poor and worse they are no jobs to compensate.. That is why people like Biafrabushboy could leave his field of engineering to become an ICT personnel.. Like London to Dungeon I say..

I watch it on TV shows where Nigerian people can't even spell and they laugh about it. It is so funny until companies start turning them down and then they spend more money acquiring more qualifications than acquiring more intelligence..

2. They love suffering and smiling

This is so deep in the blood, especially the ladies... You wouldn't believe the amount most girls spend on clothes, hair, makeup and shoes monthly. I remember a friend of my sister who was broke and requested money from me.. I said I will give her on so date.. I told my sister and she just hissed saying that the girl purchased a shoe worth 5k just some days ago and here she claims she does not have food to eat..

They prefer to enjoy the little fun they see than work hard to get something of real worth.. They claim that you only live once, so why kill yourself.. After wasting so many years they start blaming their village people and witches for their misfortunes. Instead of focusing on what is right, they focus on having fun and enjoying themselves and keep saying there is a time for everything..

3. They are not innovative..

Just look at Seun the owner of Nairaland.. Imagine Mark Zuckerberg started Facebook in 2004 and Nairaland came alive in 2005.. Today Mark Zuckerberg is known all over the world, for his encouragement of programmers, health, politics and his initiatives.. But look at Seun, he hides in his mansion and eats everyday, I haven't seen much he has done to enable programmers have a chance or even give a voice to anyone.. Facebook always brings something new every year and does sometime crazy to make us remember that they truly care.. innovation.

Innovation is the simple reasons why Tosyne2much can't make money no matter how great his articles are (I love them). .It is the reason why FitnessDoctor can't make money from his health and fitness articles (I read a lot on his blog).. it is the reason why lefulefu is constantly making ladies laugh, but can't think of how to make profit from that... It is the reason why Talk2bella is not able to climb higher in the ladder of her blog..

We are too poorly educated to know what is right.. We are too lazy (like Lions who sleep and rest for 20 hours a day)... and those who claim they are entrepreneurs are not innovative enough to make it...

I remain the Game.. a voice, a movement

tosyne2much:
Who are the guys ass-licking you on Nairaland ?

Ooooh! Because you receive numerous PMs from some random guys who are cowards as a result of your filtered and edited picture automatically puts you in a position to open your mouth and spew nonsense about Nairaland guys?

Just like I said earlier, most of you who come here to come posh are embittered, ill-mannered and hypocrites, hiding under your mobile phone.
I still don't know why you're so pained that the OP referred to some ladies as "sluts", or are you one?

I really want to know those who are ass-licking you on Nairaland

alezzy13:
My thought exactly.

Whether he was at the driver seat or the front passenger, I really can see any significant impact that would have cost his life.
There is a possibility he might have been injured by the glass (appears to be some blood on the door) but even at that i know such cars come with tempered glass that shatter into a million pieces in impact, thereby preventing any sharp edge from forming which could cause significant injury.

RIP to him though.

Xda59:
Pastor chris already swim in shame.

Lewaluv:
Same reason why yahoo boys are popular. These ladies do not know they are being lied to.

sexybbstar:
I've been waiting for a post like this. I'm a close friends with my ex by its really affecting my current relationship. At first I thought my current lover was over reacting but now that I think about it, I would have done more than that if I were the one.